Brandon,

Thank you for the well balanced response. That makes perfect sense.
"I'm sure there's improvements that could be made, but priorities are what
they are."  <----I live this daily

I had hoped there was some secret incantation I wasn't aware of.  I'll just
keep filtering it.

Cheers,

Tara




On Mon, Oct 24, 2022 at 3:34 PM Brandon Long <bl...@google.com> wrote:

> Hmm, the obvious choice would be an unsub link in the message, but that
> would break DKIM.  I guess one could add it as a header, but that will
> seriously limit who would see it
>
> Probably the best would be a periodic reminder of the forward with the
> undo link similar to what happens in the initial verification message.
>
> Also, it's not a heavy abuse vector since the receiver has to opt-in to
> enabling the forward... I think that wasn't true very early on in Gmail,
> but has been true for well over a decade at this point.
>
> The ultimate recourse is the same as any other unwanted mail, to block
> it.  With Gmail, you can set up filters to auto-delete the forwarded
> messages.
> It's not satisfying, and an abuser will just move on to some other route,
> of course.  The open nature of email makes fighting this level of high
> touch low
> volume abuse extremely challenging.
>
> A long time ago, we considered adding a "contact only" email option for
> folks getting a lot of unwanted messages, and I know hey.com went really
> deep
> into that as well.  There were a lot of concerns with unintended
> consequences and being worried if the ecosystem would perceive this as a
> step towards
> Gmail closing the open nature of email.  Ie, we know that one reason that
> abusers will mailbomb an address is to make it more likely the recipient
> misses
> some other email notifications about account changes and such, so having
> folks switch to contact only would make that easier for the scammer.... and
> then
> we start getting into trying to be magic about what gets in and what
> doesn't, which folks will totally love.
>
> Anyways, as I said, I'm sure there's improvements that could be made, but
> priorities are what they are.
>
> Brandon
>
> On Mon, Oct 24, 2022 at 12:06 PM Tara Natanson <tara+mai...@natanson.net>
> wrote:
>
>> Brandon,
>>
>> Yes, I could setup a rule at our edge servers to trash the mail or bounce
>> it.  I was just wondering if there's some other way to break a google
>> forward that I wasn't aware of.  It is being used in an abusive way, the
>> stuff we receive via that forward seems deliberate.  I was hoping there was
>> some way I could report that and make it stop, or some mechanism I had
>> missed.   I have access to the folks that can setup those mail rules.  But
>> it occurred to me that not every user does and what would the average end
>> user do in this situation?
>>
>> This came to mind after a recent session at M3AAWG about the victims of
>> cyber abuse and harassment.   Lets say I allowed mail to forward to me,
>> with my permission and then at some future point, that forwarded mail was
>> being used to harass and abuse me.  There's no unsub, no way to stop
>> getting the mail if I don't control the original mailbox its being sent
>> to.  The end user has no recourse.  I do, because I work closely with our
>> mail admins on a daily basis but that is likely not the case with most
>> users.
>>
>> Cheers!
>>
>> Tara Natanson
>>
>>
>> On Mon, Oct 24, 2022 at 2:17 PM Brandon Long <bl...@google.com> wrote:
>>
>>> I'm confused, I thought you were saying that a gmail account was
>>> autoforwarding mail to your postmaster@ address (ie, with +caf_ in
>>> envelope sender).
>>>
>>> In which case, you can set up a specific block for mail from that caf
>>> address to your postmaster address.
>>>
>>> With Google Workspace, you can use a content match
>>> https://support.google.com/a/answer/1346934
>>>
>>> Inbound Messages
>>> Advanced content match, Location Envelope sender, and then the email
>>> address with the +caf in it, and Equals or contains match type
>>> Reject Message
>>>
>>> Brandon
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> On Mon, Oct 24, 2022 at 11:01 AM Tara Natanson <tara+mai...@natanson.net>
>>> wrote:
>>>
>>>> Brandon,
>>>>
>>>> The forward is set up to send out our postmaster@ address,  So I can't
>>>> let it bounce. :(
>>>>
>>>> Tara
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> On Mon, Oct 24, 2022 at 1:49 PM Brandon Long via mailop <
>>>> mailop@mailop.org> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> On Mon, Oct 24, 2022 at 9:09 AM Bill Cole via mailop <
>>>>> mailop@mailop.org> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>> On 2022-10-24 at 09:30:29 UTC-0400 (Mon, 24 Oct 2022 09:30:29 -0400)
>>>>>> Tara Natanson via mailop <tara+mai...@natanson.net>
>>>>>> is rumored to have said:
>>>>>>
>>>>>> > Yes I know the address  @gmail the messages are being sent to.  I
>>>>>> do not
>>>>>> > control that gmail inbox though.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Well, you surely understand that to be a (correct ethical) choice,
>>>>>> right? You do control an inbox which GMail believes is confirmed as that
>>>>>> GMail user, yes?
>>>>>> <evil grin>
>>>>>>
>>>>>> But seriously, just give it a '550 5.7.1' reply at RCPT if possible,
>>>>>> or '554 5.7.1' after DATA. Make Google figure it out.
>>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> autoforwards should be automatically disabled if they bounce, though
>>>>> like with all such things there are heuristics involved (a certain number
>>>>> of bounces in a given time).
>>>>> I'm sure there are a bunch of ways it could be improved, I think it
>>>>> disables it without warning the user, which isn't great (especially if you
>>>>> only read mail that's being forwarded),
>>>>> but it can probably be re-enabled without re-verifying the address as
>>>>> well, which isn't great for this case either.
>>>>>
>>>>> Brandon
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>>>>>
>>>>
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