Oversimplification:) On Wed, Nov 12, 2008 at 2:59 PM, Jason (Memphis) <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > ....perhaps men and women cheat because someone is sexy and so the > person wants to have sex with them? Species of animals (for example, > homo sapiens) have been cheating with other members of that species > for a long time....and occasionally even cheating with other species > such as sheep, donkeys, chickens, their own hand, dogs, horses, > etc. ;-) > > On Nov 12, 10:07 am, CrossBow <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: >> Groom thier targets and go in for the kill? >> >> People don't just cheat because they are "bored" with their >> mates. That is an easy answer to a complex issue. People grow apart for all >> kinds of reasons (violence, distaste, educational >> imbalance, disillusionment, etc.) Staying together can be a mental drain >> that is exhaustive. Don't most extramarital affairs begin with the open door >> of unease with the current partner? Oh, but it does seem that too much booty >> is not enough for some men and women no matter how lovely or handsome and >> accomplished thier current partner.. is that what you allude to with the >> spiderish "groom and kill reference"? >> >> What if you have that acceptable partner and you meet one that is more than >> exceptional for that time in your life? This person can turn over your life >> if you let them. Who can say they haven't met that person? Do you wave >> goodbye and desperately fight your own biology? Is time and distance the >> best medicine? Overwhelming attraction for others does not mean you are a >> weak and reprehensible twit, it means you are a normal human being with >> biological urges that allow and maybe promote infidelity!! Gene spreading? >> That is if you believe in the scientific method and much of the research out >> there about what makes us attractive to each other. Biology handed us >> monogamy for childrearing and religion came along and cemented it into >> marriage with overly ideal strictures. There seems to be more than one >> perfect partner out their for each of us, so doesn't that seem like a >> biological fail-safe to you? >> >> So, tell me it is not a very unrealistic expectation that goes against our >> basic caveman biology - to expect this religious based ideology of perfect >> long-lived fidelity? This untainted fidelity is an ideal that few can keep >> no matter what your partner looks like or how much bloody money >> they make! We have been indoctrinated to believe in romanticism and it >> consistantly lets us down as an ideal that can stay the same, floating along >> in bliss. Not saying mind you, that you can't accept ebb and flow within a >> partnership and work to make it endure the ebb. >> >> Just examining the amorous motivations of humanity:) >> >> On Tue, Nov 11, 2008 at 11:32 PM, Jason (Memphis) <[EMAIL PROTECTED] >> >> >> >> > wrote: >> >> > Angelia, >> >> > I know women and men who've cheated on their spouse. Within this >> > small sample, the reasons vary but I agree that women becoming bored >> > with their husband is definitely one of the many possible reasons for >> > infidelity. Perhaps that is why women groom their targets and then go >> > in for the kill? >> >> > Jason >> >> > On Nov 11, 8:52 pm, "Angelia Stinnett" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> > wrote: >> > > Thanks for writing in Jason, though men don't cheat because of their >> > wives >> > > looks, they cheat because they can. They cheat because their wives are >> > > burdened with all the domestic responsibilities and not catering to what >> > men >> > > see as their entitlement. >> >> > > When men cheat, it's not with women who are better looking than their >> > wives, >> > > generally. It's who is available...who would put out... and they >> > generally >> > > start relationships with people they work with, spending an average 4-8 >> > week >> > > "grooming" their potential target and then as soon as they get what they >> > > want, they drop their "girlfriend" and live in regret for a long time. >> > It's >> > > only the really insecure asses that chase young, vulnerable women for >> > looks, >> > > with serial selection of victims. Most men cheat because their >> > relationship >> > > with their wives is bad...and boredom...men rarely see sexual >> > satisfaction >> > > within marriage as their own responsibility. >> >> > > And most divorces are initiated by the wife....though women are nearly >> > > always the ones with child responsibilities. The main factor in women >> > > suffering is economics....which has nothing to do with looks. Fat older >> > > women make more money, on average, than younger, skinny women. >> >> > > Sarah Palin's looks have absolutely nothing to do with why feminist hate >> > > her...if so, why don't we hate Jenifer Aniston...Jessica Simpson....we >> > hate >> > > Palin because she's an idiot who made her career on looks and then had >> > the >> > > nerve to show up, trying to play us for a fool...women don't like Sarah >> > > Palin because we are not fooled by skinny legs, big boobs, nice clothes, >> > and >> > > botox. Feminist what someone who isn't a G.D. idiot who wants to force us >> > to >> > > give birth to rapists' children and then expect us to raise it with lower >> > > wages and no social services. >> >> > > Feminists can't stand Palin because she assumes too damn much and we see >> > > through her. >> >> > > Angelia- Hide quoted text - >> >> - Show quoted text - > > >
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