Orn, we have been reading the same stuff apparently! I have a friend, the same that I sent you in the photo ( was not me) that is having marital issues. She gives me lots to think about everytime she calls me and information like this really help with her guiltly conscience. She has done no thing to be guilty about except for "falling in love". You see, she thinks she and her husband are done. But, she says she didn't see it until another person appeared in her life and she started thinking and feeling again. Does that make her a bad person? certainly not! Confused, oh hell yes! But she is working and suffering through this thing. When I give her these kind of links, it is my effort to let her know she shouldn't be so hard on herself and evaluate her options as realistically as possible.
Some day, when we are old ladies, and if our husbands don't survive us, we are going to dump our houses and buy a bigger yacht to sail to Cozumel searching for a dock to tie up to and sip margaritas in grass skirts while picking sand out of our white hairs;) On Wed, Nov 12, 2008 at 12:16 AM, ornamentalmind <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > "Thanks for writing in Jason, though men don't cheat because of their > wives > looks, they cheat because they can. They cheat because their wives > are > burdened with all the domestic responsibilities and not catering to > what men > see as their entitlement. " - Angelia > > Angelia, while it looks like you have done some research here and as > interesting as human motivation(s) may be, it appears that (in) > fidelity is an innate thing, perhaps genetic. > > http://www.world-science.net/exclusives/061128_infidelity-genes.htm > http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1571/is_/ai_17101420 > http://biology.suite101.com/article.cfm/marital_behavior_and_genetic > > Just a couple of articles on it. > > I'm not saying that in some cases what a person thinks and believes > has no influence on fidelity. I'm saying that the situation far > exceeds the notion of 'entitlement'. > > > > On Nov 11, 9:32 pm, "Jason (Memphis)" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: >> Angelia, >> >> I know women and men who've cheated on their spouse. Within this >> small sample, the reasons vary but I agree that women becoming bored >> with their husband is definitely one of the many possible reasons for >> infidelity. Perhaps that is why women groom their targets and then go >> in for the kill? >> >> Jason >> >> On Nov 11, 8:52 pm, "Angelia Stinnett" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> wrote: >> >> >> >> > Thanks for writing in Jason, though men don't cheat because of their wives >> > looks, they cheat because they can. They cheat because their wives are >> > burdened with all the domestic responsibilities and not catering to what >> > men >> > see as their entitlement. >> >> > When men cheat, it's not with women who are better looking than their >> > wives, >> > generally. It's who is available...who would put out... and they generally >> > start relationships with people they work with, spending an average 4-8 >> > week >> > "grooming" their potential target and then as soon as they get what they >> > want, they drop their "girlfriend" and live in regret for a long time. It's >> > only the really insecure asses that chase young, vulnerable women for >> > looks, >> > with serial selection of victims. Most men cheat because their relationship >> > with their wives is bad...and boredom...men rarely see sexual satisfaction >> > within marriage as their own responsibility. >> >> > And most divorces are initiated by the wife....though women are nearly >> > always the ones with child responsibilities. The main factor in women >> > suffering is economics....which has nothing to do with looks. Fat older >> > women make more money, on average, than younger, skinny women. >> >> > Sarah Palin's looks have absolutely nothing to do with why feminist hate >> > her...if so, why don't we hate Jenifer Aniston...Jessica Simpson....we hate >> > Palin because she's an idiot who made her career on looks and then had the >> > nerve to show up, trying to play us for a fool...women don't like Sarah >> > Palin because we are not fooled by skinny legs, big boobs, nice clothes, >> > and >> > botox. Feminist what someone who isn't a G.D. idiot who wants to force us >> > to >> > give birth to rapists' children and then expect us to raise it with lower >> > wages and no social services. >> >> > Feminists can't stand Palin because she assumes too damn much and we see >> > through her. >> >> > Angelia- Hide quoted text - >> >> - Show quoted text - > > > --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Memphis Freethought Alliance" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected] To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/memphisfreethoughtalliance?hl=en -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
