"Some day, when we are old ladies,...." - CB If you ever need a crew, let me know. I have experience! :-D I also like the South Seas Plantation on Captiva, FL.
On Nov 12, 11:43 am, CrossBow <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Orn, > > we have been reading the same stuff apparently! I have a friend, the > same that I sent you in the photo ( was not me) that is having marital > issues. She gives me lots to think about everytime she calls me and > information like this really help with her guiltly conscience. She > has done no thing to be guilty about except for "falling in love". > You see, she thinks she and her husband are done. But, she says she > didn't see it until another person appeared in her life and she > started thinking and feeling again. Does that make her a bad person? > certainly not! Confused, oh hell yes! But she is working and suffering > through this thing. When I give her these kind of links, it is my > effort to let her know she shouldn't be so hard on herself and > evaluate her options as realistically as possible. > > Some day, when we are old ladies, and if our husbands don't survive > us, we are going to dump our houses and buy a bigger yacht to sail to > Cozumel searching for a dock to tie up to and sip margaritas in grass > skirts while picking sand out of our white hairs;) > > On Wed, Nov 12, 2008 at 12:16 AM, ornamentalmind > > > > <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > "Thanks for writing in Jason, though men don't cheat because of their > > wives > > looks, they cheat because they can. They cheat because their wives > > are > > burdened with all the domestic responsibilities and not catering to > > what men > > see as their entitlement. " - Angelia > > > Angelia, while it looks like you have done some research here and as > > interesting as human motivation(s) may be, it appears that (in) > > fidelity is an innate thing, perhaps genetic. > > >http://www.world-science.net/exclusives/061128_infidelity-genes.htm > >http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1571/is_/ai_17101420 > >http://biology.suite101.com/article.cfm/marital_behavior_and_genetic > > > Just a couple of articles on it. > > > I'm not saying that in some cases what a person thinks and believes > > has no influence on fidelity. I'm saying that the situation far > > exceeds the notion of 'entitlement'. > > > On Nov 11, 9:32 pm, "Jason (Memphis)" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > wrote: > >> Angelia, > > >> I know women and men who've cheated on their spouse. Within this > >> small sample, the reasons vary but I agree that women becoming bored > >> with their husband is definitely one of the many possible reasons for > >> infidelity. Perhaps that is why women groom their targets and then go > >> in for the kill? > > >> Jason > > >> On Nov 11, 8:52 pm, "Angelia Stinnett" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > >> wrote: > > >> > Thanks for writing in Jason, though men don't cheat because of their > >> > wives > >> > looks, they cheat because they can. They cheat because their wives are > >> > burdened with all the domestic responsibilities and not catering to what > >> > men > >> > see as their entitlement. > > >> > When men cheat, it's not with women who are better looking than their > >> > wives, > >> > generally. It's who is available...who would put out... and they > >> > generally > >> > start relationships with people they work with, spending an average 4-8 > >> > week > >> > "grooming" their potential target and then as soon as they get what they > >> > want, they drop their "girlfriend" and live in regret for a long time. > >> > It's > >> > only the really insecure asses that chase young, vulnerable women for > >> > looks, > >> > with serial selection of victims. Most men cheat because their > >> > relationship > >> > with their wives is bad...and boredom...men rarely see sexual > >> > satisfaction > >> > within marriage as their own responsibility. > > >> > And most divorces are initiated by the wife....though women are nearly > >> > always the ones with child responsibilities. The main factor in women > >> > suffering is economics....which has nothing to do with looks. Fat older > >> > women make more money, on average, than younger, skinny women. > > >> > Sarah Palin's looks have absolutely nothing to do with why feminist hate > >> > her...if so, why don't we hate Jenifer Aniston...Jessica Simpson....we > >> > hate > >> > Palin because she's an idiot who made her career on looks and then had > >> > the > >> > nerve to show up, trying to play us for a fool...women don't like Sarah > >> > Palin because we are not fooled by skinny legs, big boobs, nice clothes, > >> > and > >> > botox. Feminist what someone who isn't a G.D. idiot who wants to force > >> > us to > >> > give birth to rapists' children and then expect us to raise it with lower > >> > wages and no social services. > > >> > Feminists can't stand Palin because she assumes too damn much and we see > >> > through her. > > >> > Angelia- Hide quoted text - > > >> - Show quoted text -- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text - --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Memphis Freethought Alliance" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected] To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/memphisfreethoughtalliance?hl=en -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
