The mirror has such an ancient history replete with myths and
superstitions so I think it must be a human need of some sort.
However, we don't need a mirror to lie to ourselves- it is a moveable
trait. Children are naturally honest so the ability to lie must be
learned, I think. Plus, for some, it is a kind of protection as the
truth can be too hard to bear. Often the lie appears first in a
physical tic, I've noticed. Photographs often mimic the mirror.//Well,
first we grow into our bodies and then there's time to grow into our
souls.//Yes- I have often thought of the amazing cultures of Russia
and Germany and been at a loss to explain the acceptance of Stalin and
Hitler.

On Jun 26, 11:45 pm, gruff <[email protected]> wrote:
> "... On Jun 26, 7:36 am, archytas <[email protected]> wrote: ..."
>
> > I believe we lie a lot about human behaviour and need to recognize the 
> > flaws we carry.  
>
> Without a doubt.  We lie to everyone everyday about so much of
> ourselves it makes me wonder sometimes who among us really knows
> anything about themselves.  But the lies which are the most
> destructive, the most debilitating, are the lies we tell ourselves.
> The lies we can tell when seeing ourselves in the mirror.  Not only
> are they the worst sort of lie they are also told to the one person we
> should never ever lie to.  Ourselves.  Nothing is accomplishing by
> telling ourselves lies and a lot of good is destroyed.  Yet
> accompanying this harsh indictment there is some forgiveness due as
> well because we are just starting to learn about ourselves and what we
> are capable of from one end of the scale to the other.   I believe it
> was some ancient oracle who sagely advised that the person who set out
> on the journey of self-knowledge should be prepared to do battle to
> the death.   It's not such an easy task and a whole subset of
> philosophy could (and probably has) been built around self-
> knowledge.
>
> > What I'm after is an understanding of how we end up under mad leaders like 
> > Mao,
> > Hitler and Kim Jong IL, the extent to which this afflicts all
> > leadership and how we might be able to structure freedom from whatever
> > this is.
>
> I've no rational explanation for such aberrations other than random
> quirks of genetics which removes from some individuals any semblance
> of empathy for others and replaces it with madness.  However,
> regarding those who allow themselves and their society to be dominated
> by such individuals, I would have to rely on Occam's timeworn razor
> and say ... fear.  It is the simplest answer that fits all the
> circumstances and therefore most likely true.
>
> Fear also is the simplest answer to all the violence and corruption in
> the world.  It is not difficult to read thr history of humankind in
> terms of fear and our reaction to it.   So if this proposition holds
> water, it would then follow that anything that relieves or removes
> fear makes us the better for it.  Having had fear as a constant
> companion throughout most of my life, I'd have to agree.
>
> "... On 25 June, 07:24, ashok tewari <[email protected]>
> wrote: ..."
>
> > > Great thought, Gruff !  The only hitch is this evidence that no amount of
> > > formal education or prosperity, political and economic growth, law and 
> > > order
> > > or judicial improvements, will lead to elimination of those bondages ...
>
> It's not so much a hitch as it is simply the way things are.  All the
> factors you mention are but our attempts to deal with the wrongs we
> perceive in ourselves and in the societies we create.   Sometimes we
> stumble on such major truths and enshrine them in our most sacred
> documents: "... in order to form a more perfect union ..."  We are a
> work in progress.
>
> > >  because they are the negatives which human beings secrete from within
> > > themselves, because that is the nature and limitations of the psychical
> > > world we carry and inhabit within ourselves, because awakening into the
> > > spiritual realm is essentially a non - material, supramental and quantum
> > > process ... that needs love and desire for truth, for its own sake, for 
> > > fuel
>
> I decline to admit to such limitations.  It seems the nature of our
> species to continually reach beyond our abilities and this drive is
> what has led to the world we currently have.  It is entirely of our
> own creation and we can not deny that fact nor the responsibility that
> comes with such a creation.

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