Here is a good discussion on relationship. http://non-duality.rupertspira.com/page.aspx?n=8244e1e4-651f-4c8a-a3de-5d9e451cc1b9
On Jun 19, 5:52 pm, "pol.science kid" <[email protected]> wrote: > a few days back i read some post somewhere about the lack of > literature on friendship in philosophy mainly...and how it has been > ignored and so on.... so it got me thinking about the whole > affair...Friendship.... i asked myself who my friends were...i am very > casual in calling people my friends... in fact i realised i didnt > really pay much attention to it.... the word i mean... i wouldnt know > who to call my best friend...or a close and intimate friend... > because..it happens so to the person whom i would reveal my dearest > thoughts would be a relative stranger..in fact i dont do it > much...share thoughts..personal ones...i do it here but... maybe > because of the anonymity it lends.... plus i tend to outgrow some > friends... i know it sounds horrible..i dont really do it on > purpose..outgrow would mean... gradually losing touch...after i move > or something... i am sorry i dont want to make this some sort of > confession...but there are so many questions that confront and rack my > brain sometimes.... is it later in life that one makes real > friends...i mean after youve left that peer space...school or > college...l in fact leave that...its not that significant... I once > decided that Friendship is a vague term altogether... there are > individual relationships...each having a different bearing... like a > security personnel at your college gate... you get the point... I know > this is a very vast topic.and i cant really analyse it right now cos > this is a kind of spontaneous typing....so let me get to another > point.... like i mentioned above i seem careless of friends...but yet > i sometimes complain of the loneliness... which can be suffocating... > and yet i draw a line and withdraw if any relation touches on lines of > very personal.... i think one regards personal what one considers > sacred... like ones thoughts..contemplations... my question is....is > it possible to bond with Another... in an aristotelian way... because > i believe one can give ones life for someone but still be out of > something very impersonal.... are there some ...too self > absorbed...that it is almost impossible to connect on that level... it > is strange i have such high demands for any 'connection'...and yet i > am convinced there is no way i can really be with another according to > my standard... this must be awfully confusing... but there are many > smart people here ho might get the basic point..... > who is a friend? > can one really defeat the loneliness or is this loneliness only > immaturity on the souls part...... > the question is now to you my 'friends'...convince me for something if > you will.........
