I think that women can be masculine and men can be effeminate, we've all seen it, folks that have a lopsided tendency toward male or female aspects, whether they are toward their own gender or the opposite. But we each have both, to a more or less integrated degree. They can be independent of sexuality or not. Sometimes sexuality can be used in relationships to gain dominance or as manipulation. why is a good question.
On Sunday, September 16, 2012 11:16:20 AM UTC-4, Allan Heretic wrote: > > I think Molly that other than child birth and the individual roles, i > think personality traits often time assigned to gender are in reality of > neither gender but both, if you have to be both dad and mom you are dad > when called for mom when needed, the is no gender specific personality > traits that I know of > Allan > > On Sun, Sep 16, 2012 at 4:59 PM, Molly <[email protected] <javascript:>>wrote: > >> More and more, I find myself working with folks that I would consider to >> be fully integrated in male/female aspects. Meaning, that action/passion; >> hunting/gathering; planning/nurturing; microcosm/macrocosm; >> emotional/logical and any other self ascribed delineation. Each of us has >> both aspects, born to a specific gender with the grand design of >> procreation in unity. There is no one way for this to work, and diversity >> is one of the wonders of the world at any age. We can all benefit with >> matters that leave us secure with time to pursue fulfillment, men and women >> alike. Life, at all times, presents us with opportunities for recognition >> and integration that is reflected in our experience. We can accept the >> invitation, or assign it to an other. >> >> >> On Saturday, September 15, 2012 9:47:32 AM UTC-4, Vam wrote: >>> >>> Societal values are not yet settled ... on account of age-old sexuality ! >>> >>> Simply put, women rate money and bread earning way above else. Now, >>> there might not be many men who do not likewise value but the "Male >>> Principle" is certainly less worldly, if I may put it, less anchored to, >>> engrossed in and content with that pursuit. >>> >>> I, for one, believe that the world is made for the "Female Principle." >>> And, it would solve a lot many problems if men crowned their women with >>> matters that leave them secure and bought time to pursue that which >>> fulfills them. >>> >>> Socrates might have been ugly but that was the least of defects in the >>> eyes of his wife ! >>> >> -- >> >> >> >> > > > > -- > ( > ) > |_D Allan > > Life is for moral, ethical and truthful living. > > > I am a Natural Airgunner - > > Full of Hot Air & Ready To Expel It Quickly. > > > > > --
