I bought a top hat in perfect condition at a snufflemart second hand sales..I forget what they are called in the US, England, they are car boot sale. Finding one was good fortune impeccable condition. Now that was at one time the symbol of masculinity ,, Now I see more women wearing them than men, I bought it for part of a steampunk costume. I think the world has changed or at least my world.. and the situations where i see the inequality the ladies are the ones who do not want equality when I have asked.. but thinking about it since I have been on wife support since I have here in Europe.. mainly for tax reasons... I see why the ladies like hubbie support.
It is very nice.. Allan On Sun, Sep 16, 2012 at 5:56 PM, Molly <[email protected]> wrote: > I think that women can be masculine and men can be effeminate, we've all > seen it, folks that have a lopsided tendency toward male or female aspects, > whether they are toward their own gender or the opposite. But we each have > both, to a more or less integrated degree. They can be independent of > sexuality or not. Sometimes sexuality can be used in relationships to gain > dominance or as manipulation. why is a good question. > > > On Sunday, September 16, 2012 11:16:20 AM UTC-4, Allan Heretic wrote: > >> I think Molly that other than child birth and the individual roles, i >> think personality traits often time assigned to gender are in reality of >> neither gender but both, if you have to be both dad and mom you are dad >> when called for mom when needed, the is no gender specific personality >> traits that I know of >> Allan >> >> >> On Sun, Sep 16, 2012 at 4:59 PM, Molly <[email protected]> wrote: >> >>> More and more, I find myself working with folks that I would consider to >>> be fully integrated in male/female aspects. Meaning, that action/passion; >>> hunting/gathering; planning/nurturing; microcosm/**macrocosm; >>> emotional/logical and any other self ascribed delineation. Each of us has >>> both aspects, born to a specific gender with the grand design of >>> procreation in unity. There is no one way for this to work, and diversity >>> is one of the wonders of the world at any age. We can all benefit with >>> matters that leave us secure with time to pursue fulfillment, men and women >>> alike. Life, at all times, presents us with opportunities for recognition >>> and integration that is reflected in our experience. We can accept the >>> invitation, or assign it to an other. >>> >>> >>> On Saturday, September 15, 2012 9:47:32 AM UTC-4, Vam wrote: >>>> >>>> Societal values are not yet settled ... on account of age-old sexuality >>>> ! >>>> >>>> Simply put, women rate money and bread earning way above else. Now, >>>> there might not be many men who do not likewise value but the "Male >>>> Principle" is certainly less worldly, if I may put it, less anchored to, >>>> engrossed in and content with that pursuit. >>>> >>>> I, for one, believe that the world is made for the "Female Principle." >>>> And, it would solve a lot many problems if men crowned their women with >>>> matters that leave them secure and bought time to pursue that which >>>> fulfills them. >>>> >>>> Socrates might have been ugly but that was the least of defects in the >>>> eyes of his wife ! >>>> >>> -- >>> >>> >>> >>> >> >> >> >> -- >> ( >> ) >> |_D Allan >> >> Life is for moral, ethical and truthful living. >> >> >> I am a Natural Airgunner - >> >> Full of Hot Air & Ready To Expel It Quickly. >> >> >> >> >> -- > > > > -- ( ) |_D Allan Life is for moral, ethical and truthful living. I am a Natural Airgunner - Full of Hot Air & Ready To Expel It Quickly. --
