Snufflemart - I love it. On 16 Sep, 19:25, Allan H <[email protected]> wrote: > I bought a top hat in perfect condition at a snufflemart second hand > sales..I forget what they are called in the US, England, they are car boot > sale. Finding one was good fortune impeccable condition. Now that was at > one time the symbol of masculinity ,, Now I see more women wearing them > than men, I bought it for part of a steampunk costume. > I think the world has changed or at least my world.. and the situations > where i see the inequality the ladies are the ones who do not want > equality when I have asked.. but thinking about it since I have been > on wife support since I have here in Europe.. mainly for tax reasons... I > see why the ladies like hubbie support. > > It is very nice.. > Allan > > > > > > > > > > On Sun, Sep 16, 2012 at 5:56 PM, Molly <[email protected]> wrote: > > I think that women can be masculine and men can be effeminate, we've all > > seen it, folks that have a lopsided tendency toward male or female aspects, > > whether they are toward their own gender or the opposite. But we each have > > both, to a more or less integrated degree. They can be independent of > > sexuality or not. Sometimes sexuality can be used in relationships to gain > > dominance or as manipulation. why is a good question. > > > On Sunday, September 16, 2012 11:16:20 AM UTC-4, Allan Heretic wrote: > > >> I think Molly that other than child birth and the individual roles, i > >> think personality traits often time assigned to gender are in reality of > >> neither gender but both, if you have to be both dad and mom you are dad > >> when called for mom when needed, the is no gender specific personality > >> traits that I know of > >> Allan > > >> On Sun, Sep 16, 2012 at 4:59 PM, Molly <[email protected]> wrote: > > >>> More and more, I find myself working with folks that I would consider to > >>> be fully integrated in male/female aspects. Meaning, that action/passion; > >>> hunting/gathering; planning/nurturing; microcosm/**macrocosm; > >>> emotional/logical and any other self ascribed delineation. Each of us has > >>> both aspects, born to a specific gender with the grand design of > >>> procreation in unity. There is no one way for this to work, and diversity > >>> is one of the wonders of the world at any age. We can all benefit with > >>> matters that leave us secure with time to pursue fulfillment, men and > >>> women > >>> alike. Life, at all times, presents us with opportunities for recognition > >>> and integration that is reflected in our experience. We can accept the > >>> invitation, or assign it to an other. > > >>> On Saturday, September 15, 2012 9:47:32 AM UTC-4, Vam wrote: > > >>>> Societal values are not yet settled ... on account of age-old sexuality > >>>> ! > > >>>> Simply put, women rate money and bread earning way above else. Now, > >>>> there might not be many men who do not likewise value but the "Male > >>>> Principle" is certainly less worldly, if I may put it, less anchored to, > >>>> engrossed in and content with that pursuit. > > >>>> I, for one, believe that the world is made for the "Female Principle." > >>>> And, it would solve a lot many problems if men crowned their women with > >>>> matters that leave them secure and bought time to pursue that which > >>>> fulfills them. > > >>>> Socrates might have been ugly but that was the least of defects in the > >>>> eyes of his wife ! > > >>> -- > > >> -- > >> ( > >> ) > >> |_D Allan > > >> Life is for moral, ethical and truthful living. > > >> I am a Natural Airgunner - > > >> Full of Hot Air & Ready To Expel It Quickly. > > >> -- > > -- > ( > ) > |_D Allan > > Life is for moral, ethical and truthful living. > > I am a Natural Airgunner - > > Full of Hot Air & Ready To Expel It Quickly.
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