Grass roots change, in my experience, changes the world.

On Thursday, March 5, 2015 at 10:33:07 AM UTC-5, pol.science kid wrote:
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> I don't want to say anything on this anymore. But i guess if one were 
> looking to get some change.. It starts from the family... And friends... 
> On Mar 5, 2015 7:56 PM, "Molly" <[email protected]> wrote:
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>> A very sad case indeed, Pol. There is much there to invoke outrage. And 
>> RP's crack about women being the worst enemy for women has the tone of 
>> these rapists flinging insults about the victim. But I cannot say I agree 
>> that the film looks to be someone preying on the victim to get their own 5 
>> minutes of fame.  Looks as if the film makers took a tough stand to try to 
>> bring attention to the problem. And the problem looks to be, at least in 
>> part, that blaming the victim is so accepted in all parts of culture that 
>> we don't even recognize it when we see it, or sometimes say it. I can feel 
>> deep compassion for the mother when she says that she can't be hurt worse 
>> by their words after her daughter died in her arms after their violent 
>> actions. How do we bring attention to the atrocity of cultural acceptance 
>> of not only this kind of violence but the gender inequity that perpetuates 
>> it?
>>
>> On Thursday, March 5, 2015 at 8:59:06 AM UTC-5, pol.science kid wrote:
>>>
>>> http://indianexpress.com/article/cities/delhi/i-wish-
>>> judiciary-govt-did-more-than-just-ban-a-film/
>>> On Mar 5, 2015 4:44 PM, "RP Singh" <[email protected]> wrote:
>>>
>>>> That documentary has been banned and I don't read banned stuff because 
>>>> it is mostly prejudiced and sensational. The maker is simply creating a 
>>>> storm to make money. When that incident happened everyone was shocked, and 
>>>> by raising that subject again by talking to a perpetrator of the crime 
>>>> what 
>>>> did the producer want? If he was really concerned he should have talked to 
>>>> people on the road and not a savage who had no concern for others but only 
>>>> blaming the victim. Everyone needs protection, I as well. It is society 
>>>> through the government that provides protection against criminals and 
>>>> scoundrels. There are other type of savages who loot all your money and 
>>>> put 
>>>> you on the road, there are savages in uniform who implicate you in 
>>>> criminal 
>>>> cases, everyone needs protection and you are not unique in that. You can 
>>>> make India a better place to live in, just why don't you try to do that?
>>>>
>>>> On Thu, Mar 5, 2015 at 4:19 PM, polly skid <[email protected]> 
>>>> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> Don't use animals and rapists synonymously. What is your point when 
>>>>> you say women in other places are vulnerable? Its quite obvious.. We all 
>>>>> live in this world and are aware of what happens in other places too.. 
>>>>> The 
>>>>> point of reference is the documentary and Delhi. Maybe extending it to 
>>>>> other parts of India. Nobody ever said only Indian men rape. I don't know 
>>>>> who you are defending 'india' against... When you say 'you are not unique 
>>>>> 'in demanding protection.. Are you talking to me(when did i demand 
>>>>> protection;when i said delhi is unsafe??) , or do you mean all womankind 
>>>>> when you say 'you are  not unique in demanding protection'? As far as i 
>>>>> gather Udwin is saying through the  documentary that most men in india 
>>>>> are 
>>>>> not raised to respect women as equals and that's a contributing factor in 
>>>>> increased rapes, hardly about controlling some random 'savages' out to 
>>>>> get 
>>>>> women and children. Maybe you should actually watch the documentary. 
>>>>> Might 
>>>>> help bring some perspective. 
>>>>> On Mar 5, 2015 4:03 PM, "RP Singh" <[email protected]> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>> Such instances happen everywhere in the world. There are streets in 
>>>>>> New York where you cannot move about. Girls are, and yes even children 
>>>>>> are 
>>>>>> forcefully put into prostitution and are drugged and made to do things 
>>>>>> which go against civilization. Are they being done by Indians only? 
>>>>>> Everyone needs protection from the animals and savages among us, and you 
>>>>>> are not unique in that. Western countries might be better in some sense, 
>>>>>> but we are in others. If you are talking about Delhi, you are doing so 
>>>>>> as 
>>>>>> if it was crawling with monsters, but there are monsters everywhere. In 
>>>>>> developed countries they have better systems of control, and as we 
>>>>>> progress 
>>>>>> we will learn to control the animals here as well.
>>>>>> I have just read Archytas and he has given a good  explanation.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> On Thu, Mar 5, 2015 at 3:14 PM, polly skid <[email protected]> 
>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>
>>>>>>> Leave Delhi.. Remember the UP village case where two teenage sisters 
>>>>>>> were raped and hanged from a tree? Already forgotten by most people. 
>>>>>>> On Mar 5, 2015 3:12 PM, "polly skid" <[email protected]> wrote:
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Why should i need protection if i wear western attire..?and by that 
>>>>>>>> logic wearing 'indian attire' doesnt call for 'protection'..if you 
>>>>>>>> wear it 
>>>>>>>> ? Comparing India with Taliban aint a very great idea. We are moving 
>>>>>>>> forward(in time) because thats what people do/countries do.. Plus who 
>>>>>>>> is 
>>>>>>>> criticizing 'india' dude...?? I dont get the point of getting masses 
>>>>>>>> and 
>>>>>>>> democracy. It's a fact that if youre a woman in Delhi youre quite 
>>>>>>>> unsafe. 
>>>>>>>> One cant even call any cab or board any bus.. The problems of course 
>>>>>>>> go 
>>>>>>>> much further than anything that is written here. Arguing about the 
>>>>>>>> 'greatness' of india's heritage, democracy , culture doesnt do 
>>>>>>>> shit.... 
>>>>>>>> On Mar 5, 2015 2:35 PM, "RP Singh" <[email protected]> wrote:
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> If you are wearing western attire and moving about the streets of 
>>>>>>>>> Delhi who protects you, it is the people of India. India is a 
>>>>>>>>> democracy and 
>>>>>>>>> the government can function only if they are chosen by the people. 
>>>>>>>>> Whatever 
>>>>>>>>> politicians might be they know that they are answerable to the people 
>>>>>>>>> and 
>>>>>>>>> are ruling with peoples' mandate. Day by day we are moving forward, 
>>>>>>>>> are we 
>>>>>>>>> doing so by subjugating the masses? Our former Prime Minister Indira 
>>>>>>>>> Gandhi 
>>>>>>>>> tried to play the despot and lost the next election, she learned the 
>>>>>>>>> lesson 
>>>>>>>>> and corrected herself. Polly Taliban does not exist here , some 
>>>>>>>>> people are 
>>>>>>>>> trying to do that in the name of culture and are unsuccessful. Do the 
>>>>>>>>> majority in India want fundamentalism, surely not!
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> On Thu, Mar 5, 2015 at 1:12 PM, polly skid <[email protected]> 
>>>>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> Sorry.. I don't mean the word tolerant.. what are 'they' supposed 
>>>>>>>>>> to be 'tolerant' of anyways.. That females exist and move about by 
>>>>>>>>>> will?? 
>>>>>>>>>> ...
>>>>>>>>>> On Mar 5, 2015 12:52 PM, "polly skid" <[email protected]> 
>>>>>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> Hate to say this RP.. But majority of people are NOT 
>>>>>>>>>>> tolerant...  An hour into the streets of most areas of Delhi or 
>>>>>>>>>>> even most 
>>>>>>>>>>> parts of north india would make it clear... Maybe you stay in 
>>>>>>>>>>> better 
>>>>>>>>>>> parts... 
>>>>>>>>>>> On Mar 5, 2015 11:41 AM, "'facilitator' via "Minds Eye <
>>>>>>>>>>> [email protected]> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>> That's encouraging RP.
>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>> On Thursday, March 5, 2015 at 12:30:56 AM UTC-5, RP Singh wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> It is not the majority view, but that of deranged, uneducated 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> and fundamentalists. Such people are always doing something evil 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> in the 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> name of culture, what do such people know of culture. We have a 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> rich 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> heritage of  giving respect to women if we look in not so ancient 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> India, 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> when muslim raiders came from the west and stole women  a little 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> purdah 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> system developed as a defence, and in the course of time evils in 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> society 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> also developed, but by the good works done by social reformers 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> from amongst 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> us much of our evil treatment of our women was abolished. It is 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> in the 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> nature of humans to rationalize their venomous intentions by 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> putting the 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> blame on the victim. The majority of our people are not like 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> that, they are 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> tolerant and free and that is the reason that we are progressing 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> greatly.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> On Thu, Mar 5, 2015 at 12:58 AM, archytas <[email protected]> 
>>>>>>>>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> China?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> On Wednesday, March 4, 2015 at 7:13:51 PM UTC, facilitator 
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Article:
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> "Blaming women for rape is what hundreds of millions of men 
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> here are taught to believe.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> And the code for women in this country is simple: Dress 
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> modestly, don't go out at night, don't go to bars and clubs, 
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> don't go out 
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> alone. If you break the code, you will be blamed for the 
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> consequences.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> When one of the four men sentenced to death for the 
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> high-profile gang rape of the woman in 2012 was quoted in a new 
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> documentary 
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> as saying "a girl is far more responsible for rape than a boy," 
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> he was 
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> repeating something community and religious leaders in this 
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> nation of 1.2 
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> billion routinely say.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
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