Re: [ozmidwifery] Obstetric Perception - Your thoughts?

[Tom, Tania and Sam Smallwood]

Sally and all on the list,   I too will begin to gush if I don't watch myself, so I'll try and be brief (not that there's anything wrong with gushing!).  I've just started out practicing in the community as many of you know, in partnership with another wonderful midwife, and I have 2 boys of my own under 3 1/2.  The issue of time management, and more to the point, what do I do with the kids?! is a tricky one, but I've become more open in discussing my needs with family, who I'm blessed to have nearby, and friends, both old and new, most of whom are only too happy to put their names on my "to call" list.  I stress about it for weeks before a birth, and so far, it's all worked out.    Now this might sound a bit obtruse, but reading The Red Tent has helped me with all this.  I'm only 1/2 way through, but it's highlighted the need for a circle of supportive women for me, and I've actively gone out and gathered one.  It's also clarified for me what's important for me at the moment, and that is balancing my young family and husband with being with these wonderful women.  I say balance, I mean juggle, 'coz I'm still a newbie at all this, but I think I'm getting there!!   Not really sure what the point of all this is, I just felt compelled to add my little bit when I read Sally's post.    Now off to practice that juggling act of mine...   Tania x