Re: [ozmidwifery] doula article

[Denise Hynd]

Dear Honey Where are you?? Denise Hynd   "Never believe that a few caring people can't change the world.  For, indeed, they are the only ones who ever have."  Margaret Mead ----- Original Message ----- From: Honey Acharya To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Saturday, September 04, 2004 9:56 AM Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] doula article Hi Denise I realised that you were asking for the full details pros and cons to be in the story, but I guess your email prompted me to support the work that I do. I hope I didn't sound attacking. I am so passionate about women, birth and birthing choices that I spend a large part of my life at the moment working towards a better system. Before we did anything here as a small consumer group we consulted the midwives and asked them how we could best support them and what we should all focus on achieving. It came out that a Birth Centre with one on one midwifery care was something we could all work towards and was achievable in the current circumstances. We are working madly to get things really happening and lobbying the politicians especially with the federal election coming up. We have to have a really sound proposal so that it shows we have really done the groundwork and it is clear the direction we are heading in.   Thanks for the discussion, I think it is so important that we keep evaluating and reflecting. Honey ----- Original Message ----- From: Denise Hynd To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, September 03, 2004 6:44 PM Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] doula article Dear Honey I agree with all you say I am only asking for the full story to be in the article that as you say Doulas are needed by women in a system that is not women centred. Denise Hynd   "Never believe that a few caring people can't change the world.  For, indeed, they are the only ones who ever have."  Margaret Mead ----- Original Message ----- From: Honey Acharya To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, September 03, 2004 1:21 PM Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] doula article HI Kylie I am a Doula (or Birth Buddy as we call ourselves) and can put you in touch with the midwifes we work with here in the public hospital in Townsville. We are welcomed by them and work well together. if that interests you email me directly [EMAIL PROTECTED]   In response to Denyse I know 1-2-1 midwifery care would be the best option, but as we do not have that yet (I am one of the many consumers here pushing for it and a birth centre currently) Doulas fill that gap and more. On average a woman here going through our hospital system can see up to 35 different midwives through the course of her pregnancy and birth. On the other hand I develop a relationship with my clients,building trust and knowing them is so important, I do not leave them when my shift is up, I stay and support throughout the length of the labour. I also know of quite a few women who have other women, support people, mothers and or doulas even when they have 1-2-1 midwifery care.  As someone else said we support the partners too, how often does a one on one widwife have time or take the time to make sure the partner has drinks and food and emotional support. I know Andrea Robertson has written negatively about Doulas saying that our community should provide the support we need but Andrea has supported at births too she just doesn't use the word Doula when she does it.  Also often our community doesn't always provide the support we need, and in fact many of us would prefer not to ask our mother or sister into the birthing room for a variety of reasons. In my community a huge amount of people here are army based often without family or friends nearby, and the women I have supported so far have become dear and close friends. I recenlty have been volunteering for a refugee family and this woman no longer lives in a tribal situation where the women gather round her and support her so I have become her friend and  birth support person and advocate making sure she gets an interpretor when she goes for medical visits, taking the whole family to the beach for the first time in their lives, making them meals every two days since the baby has been born so that she can stick to her tradition of being pampered for the first 12 days and not overdoing it. I don't do that for profit but because i believe every woman should have that support if she wants it.     I don't think everyone wants or needs a doula but I believe that just as having a midwife is an important option in childbirth it is wonderful to have the choice of a doula.   I'll stop raving now   Honey Acharya Birth Buddies   ----- Original Message ----- From: Kylie Carberry To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, September 03, 2004 10:04 AM Subject: [ozmidwifery] doula article Hi everyone Wellbeing mag would now like me to do an article on doulas, also for the baby special.  I have a couple of doulas to talk to and am looking at adding the thoughts of a hospital based midwife who has seen the benefits of doulas in the labour ward. Let me know if anyone would like to help out.   Kylie Carberry Freelance Journalist PH: 02 42970115 m: 0418 220 638 a: 21 Susan Ave, Warilla, NSW 2528 e: [EMAIL PROTECTED]   Feeling spent? Apply here for emergency plastic surgery. 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