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Kirsten wrote>>As for the debate on
VE's etc, just because we learn something does not mean we will all go out and
perform them every 5 minutes! There are many skills taught to us that could be
seen as unnecessary interventions, why as Andrea Robertson in the Midwife
Companion ( love this book!) says, talking unnecessarily to a woman
in labour and distracting her can slow things down!
Personally i would rather be confident and
competent in these skills so if i have to do them i am gentle and cause as less
harm and discomfort as i can to the woman. I would hate to be ignoarant and say
" i don't need these interventionalist skills" and then have to perform a VE and
not be able to do it carefully and gently.There are still many woman out there who request them, even if you
don't think so.
Just wanted to clarify that I was not the only one that
said I wasn't really into VEs. I also wanted to clarify that I didn't say that
women don't request them, in fact I am sure that many women do. As they also
request c-sections, epidurals, inductions and numerous other, mostly,
unnecessary interventions.
Does this mean then that it is right, physically, morally,
ethically etc, to perform these interventions? Or is it better to aim for full
education of pregnant women and their support people ( not midwives) so that
they can make a fully informed choice themselves?
I did "childbirth preparation" classes at a birth centre
and it was more like "hospital preparation" classes. Not that all classes are
like that. I am wondering how many women REALLY know their bodies, their
capabilities, the necessary interventions as opposed to the not necessary etc
etc. From being with alot of women just talking in everyday life, and that is
heaps and heaps from conservative christians to wild tripped out hippies and
ferals, one thing I have noticed heaps is that birthing women never knew that
they could say no to VEs, this is discluding women that have decided to really
educate themselves, usually after a traumatic experience. Nearly every woman I
know or have spoken to that has birthed in a hospital or birth centre
setting has had at least one VE without knowing what it is for. Quite a few have
had numerous VEs from different midwives and lots have had differing opinions on
how "progressed" they are.
Also, quite a few women, that had VEs described them as
painful, invasive, humiliating, abusive, weird, unnecessary and numerous
other descriptive obscenities. They also have said they were not given a choice
etc. ( If any of you are wondering, I do spend alot of time with mums that have
had traumatic birth experiences, some natural occurences, but the majority
caused by bad care).
I wanted to ask Kirsten, when you said "I would hate to be ignoarant and say " i don't need these
interventionalist skills" and then have to perform a VE and not be able to do it
carefully and gently.", do you think that if you
were "ignorant" and chose not to learn those interventionalist skills, that then
your practice would be very different? Would you see things differently in a
sense of there may be a problem, challenge etc and you would use non
interventionalist skills? I really am interested, because I do believe that what
we learn about birth affects our attitude towards birth.
I personally don't think that women
who choose to not learn interventionalist skills are ignorant. Maybe they see it
differently, like they think about it differently, if a real problem did occur,
then they would transfer and obstetric "professionals" could deal with that
problem. I think that hospitals, interventions and all that stuff are WONDERFUL
for life saving, IF, not when, it comes up.
I don't believe that just because a woman asks for
something then it should be given, I don't believe that is empowering to women
or appropriate as a caregiver.
Love Abby- sharing my opinion, not
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