Doug Henwood writes:

>> > His viewpoint is not nonsensical.  You can see his version of "freedom" in 
>> > action in
>> any kindergarten class.  Which is consistent with a common critique of 
>> certain types of
>> leftists, that they simply do not want to grow up.
>> 
>> You say that as if "growing up," whatever that means exactly, is an unmixed 
>> blessing.

I think there is something fundamentally unhealthy when individuals attempt to 
hold on to their youth for as long as possible, or idealize their childhood.  I 
think it is much healthier to accept who you are and the stage of life you are 
at.  I also think of childhood as potentiality and preparatory to adulthood, 
and society needs adults to function.  Lord of the Flies and all of that.  And 
by adults, I means adult in the sense of taking responsibility, which is the 
antithesis of "freedom" as described by Carroll.

On a related note, one of my fundamental philosophies of life is that each 
person is a certain psychological age, which they physically age to and then 
mentally stop.  Their physical bodies continue to age but mentally they stay 
the same.  I knew I was 35 years old when I was 10.  I could not wait to see 
what life was going to be like when I turned 35 in the year 2000, which meant I 
didn't truly enjoy being a child, in the sense I viewed childhood as something 
I had to get through to becoming an adult.  Ten years past, and I am still 
fundamentally the same person I was when I was 35.  Many people I know are much 
younger.  My father, who is 90, is basically a 13 year old boy.  My mother 
never made it past age 10.

David Shemano



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