On Mon, Aug 18, 2014 at 9:58 PM, Sven Van Caekenberghe <s...@stfx.eu> wrote:

> @ Phil
>
> Yes, I am sad as well, this is not how it should be. I really liked each
> of them a lot.


> Now, whenever people collaborate there will be conflicts, this is
> inevitable. A conflict is often complex, has always two sides to it, and a
> long history (it is not just about one thing right now, most of the history
> is unknown to us, lots of personal things come into play as well). How
> conflicts are dealt with (or left festering) is what counts.
> haro is not about one person, it is an open source community. It is not
> good to generalise and hold the community hostage, or hurt it deliberately
> - this goes against the very thing you contributed selflessly to in the
> first place.
>
> We have a rudimentary mechanism to deal with conflicts, it is called the
> board:
>
> <from the website>
>
> The board
>
> Pharo has a board composed of Marcus Denker, Stephane Ducasse, Sven Van
> Caekenberghe, Tudor Gîrba and Esteban Lorenzano.
>
> The role of the board is to make decisions if in the future the community
> can't decide on a course of action.
>
> </from the website>
>
> Even if the conflict involves a board member, the board should play its
> role. If necessary, individual board members can be contacted. This has not
> happened.
>

Let's remember that for the next case.

>
>
> @ Ben
>
> I am sad and sorry about you leaving. You will be missed and I thank you
> for all you did. I hope that maybe one day we will hear from you again.
>
> I remember that young student coming in with all this energy, writing a
> new code browser, Nautilus, from scratch, and doing Spec along the way - it
> was a herculean task. You did great work and we all benefit from it.
>
>
> @ Camillo
>
> Iden ditto: you leaving makes me really sad and I will miss you - thank
> you for everything you did. I hope we'll meet again.
>
> I have fond memories about meeting you during sprints starting in the old
> INRIA building. Your enthusiasm was really contagious, there was no task
> you would not want to tackle. You rewrote the book for Pharo for command
> line handling, issue tracking, issue validation, git integration, the eye
> inspector, source/change file compaction and so much more. You have a great
> sense of good design, we're all better for it.
>
>
> Peace,
>
> Sven
>
> On 18 Aug 2014, at 11:55, p...@highoctane.be wrote:
>
> > I'd say that we now have:
> >
> > Camillo - pissed off to death
> > Ben - same
> > Nico - gone
> >
> > There is something amiss there.
> >
> > These people are significant contributors and made the system move
> forward in new and much needed directions (Zeroconf/CommandLine, Spec,
> Amber).
> >
> > Pissing them off is really a bad approach, no matter why/how/... Get the
> house in order please and stop the ego trips. Yelling at people/each other
> just doesn't work and doesn't help. Try that at your cat.
> >
> > Oh, yeah, it helps in pushing great people to other communities... As we
> needed that.
> >
> > And now, I am feeling sad.
> >
> > Phil
> >
> > On Mon, Aug 18, 2014 at 11:36 AM, Tudor Girba <tu...@tudorgirba.com>
> wrote:
> > Hi Ben,
> >
> > Thanks for letting us know.
> >
> > I am sorry you feel this way, but I believe your presentation of the
> situation is both unfair and unfortunate. You are obviously referring to
> issues that are of personal nature, and as outsiders we are left with only
> an ugly feeling without being able to either understand or fix anything.
> >
> > I was actually having fun until your email, and as far as I can tell,
> others were having fun as well. I am not sure what the intention of your
> email was, but at least for me, your mail did manage to spoil the fun for a
> second.
> >
> > I appreciate the work you put in Pharo, I respect your decision, but I
> do not sympathize with your behavior.
> >
> > Good luck,
> > Doru
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > On Mon, Aug 18, 2014 at 8:38 AM, Benjamin <
> benjamin.vanryseghem.ph...@gmail.com> wrote:
> > Hello guys,
> >
> > I am sending this email to explain why I am quiting the Pharo community,
> > as well as the Smalltalk community.
> >
> > I can not bear Stephane Ducasse's behavior anymore whether at a public
> > level or a private level.
> >
> > It seems that his ego is preventing him from being able to have a
> discussion
> > without overreacting, being agressive, or insulting.
> >
> > I can not approve how Stephane is constantly talking behind my back to
> unleash
> > his irrationnal wrath and to provide his very own version of the facts.
> >
> > I can not see how this can lead to a peaceful and respectful community
> > where we can all have fun building a future.
> >
> > Therefore I will not be part of this project anymore, since the way
> Stephane
> > is acting is taking away all the fun I can have interacting with all of
> you.
> >
> > It was a hard decision to take, but I can not be part of a community led
> > by someone whose behaviour is going against all my principles.
> >
> > I wish to all of you to have fun, and keep me in touch
> > if you want to have a beer someday ;)
> >
> > Ben
> >
> >
> >
> > --
> > www.tudorgirba.com
> >
> > "Every thing has its own flow"
> >
>
>
>

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