> There was more pressure in our grandparents age, No "nookie" before > marriage and all that. How many of our grandparents generation got > divorced??
Divorce simply wasn't an option then-- if it was, I'm sure the rates would have been far higher, as they are now. Personally, as a problem-solver, I prefer to get to the root of the problem. I don't believe the root of the problem is people that get divorced-- that's the end-result. The problem is people getting married that aren't right for each other to begin with-- people that either are not at all compatible, or people that simply don't have the desire to work together to make things work. Little girls still grow up with dreams of a big wedding and marriage and find a guy gullible enough to marry them ignoring obvious signs that things just won't work, only to get divorced 5-15 years later, usually after kids. How many guys have you talked to that knew before their wedding day that things just wouldn't work out, but simply figured "what the hell-- what else am I gonna do"? I've personally known a few-- and I almost became one.....I came to my senses and pulled myself out of that just about 7 months ago now... -- Derek _______________________________________________ Post Messages to: [email protected] Subscription Maintenance: http://leafe.com/mailman/listinfo/profox OT-free version of this list: http://leafe.com/mailman/listinfo/profoxtech Searchable Archive: http://leafe.com/archives/search/profox This message: http://leafe.com/archives/byMID/profox/[EMAIL PROTECTED] ** All postings, unless explicitly stated otherwise, are the opinions of the author, and do not constitute legal or medical advice. This statement is added to the messages for those lawyers who are too stupid to see the obvious.
