Derek Kalweit wrote: >> There was more pressure in our grandparents age, No "nookie" before >> marriage and all that. How many of our grandparents generation got >> divorced?? > > Divorce simply wasn't an option then-- if it was, I'm sure the rates > would have been far higher, as they are now. > > Personally, as a problem-solver, I prefer to get to the root of the > problem. I don't believe the root of the problem is people that get > divorced-- that's the end-result. The problem is people getting > married that aren't right for each other to begin with-- people that > either are not at all compatible, or people that simply don't have the > desire to work together to make things work. Little girls still grow
Well.... people also change over time. I can't count how many people I know who say that the person they're married to at 40 or 50 isn't the same "sweet little girl" or "cute romantic guy" they married when they were 22 or 28. My wife was shocked once we started having kids and I started doing things with them; she never thought I was going to be a 'doting father', rather, I was going to be one of those workaholic dads who traveled a lot and went to sporting events on weekends. Fooled her! I'm pretty sure this is all waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay OT by now, though. Whil _______________________________________________ Post Messages to: [email protected] Subscription Maintenance: http://leafe.com/mailman/listinfo/profox OT-free version of this list: http://leafe.com/mailman/listinfo/profoxtech Searchable Archive: http://leafe.com/archives/search/profox This message: http://leafe.com/archives/byMID/profox/[EMAIL PROTECTED] ** All postings, unless explicitly stated otherwise, are the opinions of the author, and do not constitute legal or medical advice. This statement is added to the messages for those lawyers who are too stupid to see the obvious.
