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Jee... --- In [email protected], item abu <itemabu@...> wrote: > > Hehehe.... nabi Islam itu boleh ngeliat cewek yg bukan muhrimnya dan boleh jg > tidur di tempat si cewek. Dan si cewek boleh nunggang tunggangan si nabi > bersama2 dgn si nabi. > > > Tentunya yg terjadi adalah si cewek bisa nunggangin si nabi dan si nabi bisa > nunggangin si cewek jg, ga perlu pake acara ijab qabul. Alias boleh ngembat > cewek tsb tanpa nikah. > > > Dan emang udah dipraktekkan oleh nabi islam dgn tidur di tempat cewek yg > bukan muhrimnya, unt ngasih contoh tauladan gimana kelakuan dr orang yg > berakhlak paling mulia sejagad raya. > >  > > > http://www.islamqa.info/en/ref/45696 > > > One of the unique characteristics of the Prophet (peace and blessings of > Allaah be upon him) was that it was permissible for him to be alone with a > non-mahram woman and look at her > > > I have heard that there is consensus among the ummah that the Messenger of > Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was considered to be a > mahram for every Muslim woman, when Allaah commanded him in His Book > (interpretation of the meaning): > > âIt is not lawful for you (to marry other) women after this, nor to change > them for other wives even though their beauty attracts youâ [al-Ahzaab > 33:52] > > > Thus Allaah forbade him to marry any woman (from point onwards). Did he > thereby become a mahram in the sense that it was permissible for women to > uncover in front of him like any other mahram? And did the Messenger of > Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) stay overnight in the > houses of the Muslims because he was a mahram to their womenfolk?. > > > > Praise be to Allaah. > > > Many scholars are of the view that one of the unique characteristics of the > Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was that he was permitted > to be alone with the women of his ummah and to look at them and let them ride > behind him on his mount. > > > Al-Hattaab al-Maaliki said: One of his unique characteristics was that he was > allowed to be alone with a non-mahram woman, as was narrated by al-Damaameemi > in his commentary on al-Bukhaari, at the beginning of the Book of Jihad, > where it speaks of his entering upon Umm Haraam bint Milhaan. Shaykh Jalaal > al-Deen says in al-Mubaahaat: It was one of his unique characteristics that > he was permitted to be alone with them and to let them ride behind him on his > mount. > > End quote from Mawaahib al-Jaleel, 3/402. > > > Al-Bujayrami al-Shaafaâi said in his commentary on al-Khateeb: He (peace > and blessings of Allaah be upon him) had the unique characteristic of being > allowed to look at non-mahram women and to be alone with them and to let them > ride behind him on his mount, because he was protected by his infallibility. > This is the correct answer concerning the story of Umm Haraam and how he > entered upon her and slept in her house and she cleaned his head, even though > they were not mahrams or spouses. With regard to the suggestion that she was > his mahram through radaaâah (breastfeeding), this was refuted by > al-Dimyaati on the grounds that it cannot be proven. > > End quote from Haashiyat al-Bujayrami, 3/372. > > > Commenting on the hadeeth of al-Rubayyiâ bint Muâawwidh ibn âAfra, who > said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) came and > entered when it was my wedding and sat by my bed like you are sitting next to > me now, and some young girls of ours started to beat the daff and eulogize > about those of my forefathers who were killed on the day of Badr. When one of > them said, âThere is among us a Prophet who knows what will happen > tomorrow,â he said, âDo not say this, but say the other things you were > sayingâ (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 4750), > > > Al-Haafiz ibn Hajar said: What is clear to us on the basis of strong evidence > is that one of the unique characteristics of the Prophet (peace and blessings > of Allaah be upon him) is that it was permissible for him to be alone with a > non-mahram woman and to look at her. This is the correct answer concerning > the story of Umm Haraam and how he entered upon her and slept in her house > and she cleaned his head, even though they were not mahrams or spouses. > > End quote from al-Fath, 9/303 > > > Many of the scholars were of the view that Umm Haraam was one of the mahrams > of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him); al-Nawawi even > narrated that there was consensus among the scholars on this point. > > > It says in Mataalib Ooli al-Nuha (5/34) â" one of the Hanbali books: It was > permissible for him to let a non-mahram woman ride behind him on his camel, > because of the story of Asmaâ. And Abu Dawood narrated from a woman of > Ghifaar that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) let her > ride behind him on the back of his camel saddle. And it was permissible for > him to be alone with them because of the story of Umm Haraam. > > > The hadeeth of Asmaâ referred to above was narrated by al-Bukhaari (4823) > and Muslim (4050) from Asmaâ bint Abi Bakr (may Allaah be pleased with them > both), who said: I used to bring the date-stones from the land of al-Zubayr > that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) had > allocated to him, (carrying them) on my head, and it was two-thirds of a > farsakh (a farsakh = three miles) away. I came one day with the date-stones > on my head, and I met the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah > be upon him), and a group of the Ansaar were with him. He called me then made > his camel kneel down so that I could ride behind him, but I felt too shy to > travel with the men, and I remembered al-Zubayr and his protective jealousy > (gheerah), for he was the most jealous of people. The Messenger of Allaah > (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) realized that I felt too shy so > he went on his way. Then I came to al-Zubayr and told > him that I had met the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be > upon him) carrying the date-stones on my head, and there was a group of his > companions with him, and he had made his camel kneel so that I could ride > behind him, but I had felt too shy and I remember his (al-Zubayrâs) > protective jealousy. He said: âBy Allaah, for you to have to carry the > date-stones is harder for me to bear than your riding with him.â She said: > Then later on Abu Bakr sent me a servant to take care of the horse and it was > as if I had been set free from slavery. > > > The hadeeth of the woman from Ghifaar was narrated by Abu Dawood (313) from > that woman of Banu Ghifaar who said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and > blessings of Allaah be upon him) let me ride behind him on the back of his > camel-saddle. This was classed as daâeef by al-Albaani in Daâeef Abi > Dawood. > > > This is not one of the issues on which the scholars are unanimously agreed, > rather some of them clearly stated that there was a difference of scholarly > opinion on this point. Al-âIraaqi said in Tarh al-Tathreeb (5/167), > concerning the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) entering > upon Dubaaâah bint al-Zubayr: He (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon > him) entered upon Dubaaâah to visit her when she was sick or to visit her > because she was his relative as stated above. This points to his humility, > upholding of kinship ties and concern for his relatives. It is to be > interpreted as meaning that he was not alone with a woman in this case, > because he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did not sit alone with > non-mahram women or shake hands with them. If he did do that then this does > not mean that his infallibility was tarnished thereby, but they did not > regard that as being one of his unique characteristics, thus he is like others > with regard to this issue. > > > And Allaah knows best. > Islam Q&A > > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] > ------------------------------------ Post message: [email protected] Subscribe : [email protected] Unsubscribe : [email protected] List owner : [email protected] Homepage : http://proletar.8m.com/Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/proletar/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/proletar/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: [email protected] [email protected] <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [email protected] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
