hari gini lu masih ngais ngais mahar? hehehe.. percuma dah lu hidup di jaman internet.. jaman dimana urusan duit, jadi semakin mudah..
cewek yg lu sebut di bawah ini nggak pernah mikirin ttg mahar dan pesangon.. malah baru denger klo cerai ada pesangon.. PHK kali yg ada pesangon nya.. lu punya bini ngga Tem.. kalo punya hehe pastinya lu sering di kibulin si bini.. karena lu ngga tahu kan... kalau perempuan jaman sekarang punya hobby baru.. nge cek saldo.. kalo nasib beda, cara mikir juga beda Tem.. makanya jualan lu ngga laku disini.. nasib beda sih.. --- In [email protected], item abu <itemabu@...> wrote: > > Tentunya si arra_s sbg orang Islam yg baik akan bilang bhw Islam > didiskriminasi di Inggris krn ga bisa make hukum syariat dlm kasus perceraian > ini di mana cewek yg dicerai diputuskan hrs dpt uangdr bekas suaminya. > > Nurut Islam, cewek yg dicerai itu udah dihormati dgn boleh tetap memiliki > mahar yg didptnya krn udah diembat oleh bekas suaminya, paling2 dikasih > pesangon sekedarnya unt hiburan. Beda dgn hukum kafir laknatuloh yg > mengharuskan si cewek dpt harta bekas suaminya. > > Hukum harta gono gini ini jg diterapkan di Indonesia, makanya pejihad2 Islam > mau ngeganti hukum bejad ini dgn hukum auloh spy cewek2 bisa lbh terhormat > dgn kalo dicerai pake 3 kata, si cewek ga dpt apa2 lagi selain apa yg jadi > haknya, yaitu mahar. > > > http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2179041/You-use-sharia-law-divorce-deal-Muslim-hospital-consultant-told-pay-ex-wife-maintenance-despite-claims-owes-Islamic-rules.html#ixzz21hmJea7Z > > > You can't use sharia law in divorce deal: Muslim hospital consultant told to > pay ex-wife maintenance despite claims he owes her nothing > under Islamic rules > > * Dr Zaid Al-Saffar told he must follow 'the rule in this country' > > * Ordered to pay £60,000 to his former wife, academic Hanan Al-Saffar > * He felt the payments were illegitimate according to Islamic culture > * Claims: 'Family law in this country is biased against Muslim > peopleâ > By Steve Doughty > PUBLISHED: 23:04 GMT, 25 July 2012 | UPDATED: 23:58 GMT, 25 July 2012 > > Read more: > http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2179041/You-use-sharia-law-divorce-deal-Muslim-hospital-consultant-told-pay-ex-wife-maintenance-despite-claims-owes-Islamic-rules.html#ixzz21lCCLGOG > > > A Muslim hospital consultant was told yesterday that he must pay his ex-wife > maintenance even though under > Islamic rules he believes he owes her nothing. > > A judge told Dr Zaid Al-Saffar that he must follow âthe rule in this > countryâ and share his money. > > > The Appeal Court decision means Dr Al-Saffar must pay £60,000 to his former > wife, academic Hanan Al-Saffar. > > > The ruling sounded a warning to Muslim couples who believe their marriages > are ordered according to sharia law and agree to be bound by Islamic > courts. > > > Lord Justice Ward told Dr Al-Saffar: âThe rule in this country is that you > share and the starting point is equal division. > > > âYou came out of the marriage without having made your wife any substantial > capital payment.â > > > He added: âLife is sometimes hard; do not be consumed with bitterness.â > > > But Dr Al-Saffar said after the case: âBy playing the system and pretending > to be a victim she got everything, which I think is totally unfair. > > âFamily law in this country is biased against Muslim people.â > > > The consultant rheumatologist at Scarborough Hospital in North Yorkshire, > who is also the head of the Islamic Society in the resort town, was > married for eight years, and the couple had two children. > > > The marriage was formalised following the Islamic tradition of Mahr, under > which the groom pays a gift to his bride. > > > Because of this, his wife had signed away her share of the coupleâs home in > Belvedere Road, in Scarborough. > > > Dr Al-Saffar also assumed he had no > obligation to make maintenance payments, and that, following Islamic > practice, his former wifeâs family would support her. > > However, after the marriage fell apart in 2008, a county court judge ordered > him to pay £60,000 to his wife in a hearing to settle the legal terms of > their break-up. > > > Dr Al-Saffar made payments for only four months but then contested the > decision. > > In > the Appeal Court, he told Lord Justice Ward that he had stopped paying > because he had heard his former wife had inherited £250,000 from her > father and had become âvery, very well offâ. > > Dr Al-Saffar, who represented himself, told the court: âI have nothing but > respect for the courtâs order, but I only stopped paying because all > her family were telling me sheâs got millions. She doesnât need it.â > > But the judge said the doctor had > been determined not to pay because âhe felt the payments were > illegitimate or illegal according to Islamic cultureâ. > > > Lord Justice Ward said: âThe husband has kept the whole of the capital in > the marital home and the wife has not received any of it. > > âIn those circumstances the order for spousal maintenance was a perfectly > proper and fair order to make.â > > > The judge added: âThe husband has to try to understand that inherited > wealth is not available for distribution, especially when it comes in > after or shortly before the breakdown of the marriage. > > > 'That would not reduce the husbandâs obligation to make a proper > contribution to his wife.â > > > âI must dismiss this application,â Lord Justice Ward said. > > > An unknown number of Muslim couples take their family disputes to sharia > tribunals, usually run under the umbrella of local mosques. There are > said to be around 85 operating in Britain. > > > They operate voluntarily, but critics say women may be disadvantaged if they > agree to accept Islamic rules. > > > At present, if a sharia court settles a marriage dispute, an official law > court has to approve the arrangement before the divorce is finalised. > > > The judge must decide whether it is reasonable and ensure neither party is > disadvantaged. > > > But agreements are submitted to the family court on a form just two pages > long. The couple do not need to attend court. > > > The great majority are approved and critics say this process can amount to no > more than rubber-stamping. > > > Four years ago Archbishop of Canterbury Dr Rowan Williams caused controversy > when he said that full acceptance of sharia courts âseems unavoidableâ. > > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] > ------------------------------------ Post message: [email protected] Subscribe : [email protected] Unsubscribe : [email protected] List owner : [email protected] Homepage : http://proletar.8m.com/Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/proletar/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/proletar/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: [email protected] [email protected] <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [email protected] <*> Your use of Yahoo! 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