Artinya, lu ga baca Quran, hadis dan tafsir.

Hehe... gimana kalo bapak lu piara bini lagi, dan/atau ngecerai ibu lu dgn 3 
kata doang? Itu semua sangat Islami.




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> From: arra_s <[email protected]>
>To: [email protected] 
>Sent: Friday, July 27, 2012 11:02 AM
>Subject: [proletar] Re: Islam didiskriminasi di Inggris, hehehe...
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>gw belajar agama dari orang tua sendiri, makanya hasilnya optimal..
>lu tahu kenapa hasilnya maksimal? 
>karena ortu gw mengajar anak anak nya sendiri dengan kasih sayang, tanpa 
>pamrih, tidak munafik dan dengan cerdas...
>
>makanya melihat isi copas dan komentar elu di milis ini, gw langsung tahu 
>kalau elu itu dungu..
>entah darimana dimulainya kedunguan ini, apakah dari ustad yg ngajarin elu, 
>berarti elu menjadi dungu kuadrat..  atau lebih ke atas lagi, gurunya si 
>ustad, berarti elu menjadi dungu pangkat 3..
>
>tapi gw lebih yakin, kalau kedunguan ini dimulai dari elu..  karena sara 
>agama, 20 tahun yg lalu belum kedengaran..
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>--- In [email protected], item abu <itemabu@...> wrote:
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>> Lu pasti ga pernah belajar Islam, mungkin ustad lu anggap lu ini sbg cewek 
>> cuma punya 1/2 akal alias idiot, ga ada guna ngajarin lu.
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>> >________________________________
>> > From: arra_s <arra_s@...>
>> >To: [email protected] 
>> >Sent: Friday, July 27, 2012 6:31 AM
>> >Subject: [proletar] Re: Islam didiskriminasi di Inggris, hehehe...
>> > 
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>> >  
>> >
>> >hari gini lu masih ngais ngais mahar?
>> >hehehe..  percuma dah lu hidup di jaman internet..
>> >jaman dimana urusan duit, jadi semakin mudah..
>> >
>> >cewek yg lu sebut di bawah ini nggak pernah mikirin ttg mahar dan 
>> >pesangon.. malah baru denger klo cerai ada pesangon..
>> >PHK kali yg ada pesangon nya.. 
>> >
>> >lu punya bini ngga Tem..  kalo punya hehe pastinya lu sering di kibulin si 
>> >bini.. karena lu ngga tahu kan... kalau 
>> >perempuan jaman sekarang punya hobby baru..  nge cek saldo..
>> >
>> >kalo nasib beda, cara mikir juga beda Tem..
>> >makanya jualan lu ngga laku disini..
>> >nasib beda sih..
>> >
>> >
>> >--- In [email protected], item abu <itemabu@> wrote:
>> >>
>> >> Tentunya si arra_s sbg orang Islam yg baik akan bilang bhw Islam 
>> >> didiskriminasi di Inggris krn ga bisa make hukum syariat dlm kasus 
>> >> perceraian ini di mana cewek yg dicerai diputuskan hrs dpt uangdr bekas 
>> >> suaminya. 
>> >> 
>> >> Nurut Islam, cewek yg dicerai itu udah dihormati dgn boleh tetap memiliki 
>> >> mahar yg didptnya krn udah diembat oleh bekas suaminya, paling2 dikasih 
>> >> pesangon sekedarnya unt hiburan. Beda dgn hukum kafir laknatuloh yg 
>> >> mengharuskan si cewek dpt harta bekas suaminya.
>> >> 
>> >> Hukum harta gono gini ini jg diterapkan di Indonesia, makanya pejihad2 
>> >> Islam mau ngeganti hukum bejad ini dgn hukum auloh spy cewek2 bisa lbh 
>> >> terhormat dgn kalo dicerai pake 3 kata, si cewek ga dpt apa2 lagi selain 
>> >> apa yg jadi haknya, yaitu mahar.
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2179041/You-use-sharia-law-divorce-deal-Muslim-hospital-consultant-told-pay-ex-wife-maintenance-despite-claims-owes-Islamic-rules.html#ixzz21hmJea7Z
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> You can't use sharia law in divorce deal: Muslim hospital consultant told 
>> >> to pay ex-wife maintenance despite claims he owes her nothing 
>> >> under Islamic rules
>> >> 
>> >>   * Dr Zaid Al-Saffar told he must follow 'the rule in this country' 
>> >> 
>> >>   * Ordered to pay £60,000 to his former wife, academic Hanan Al-Saffar
>> >>   * He felt the payments were illegitimate according to Islamic culture
>> >>   * Claims: 'Family law in this country is biased against Muslim 
>> >> people’ 
>> >> By Steve Doughty
>> >> PUBLISHED: 23:04 GMT, 25 July 2012  | UPDATED: 23:58 GMT, 25 July 2012 
>> >> 
>> >> Read more: 
>> >> http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2179041/You-use-sharia-law-divorce-deal-Muslim-hospital-consultant-told-pay-ex-wife-maintenance-despite-claims-owes-Islamic-rules.html#ixzz21lCCLGOG
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> A Muslim hospital consultant was told yesterday that he must pay his 
>> >> ex-wife maintenance even though under 
>> >> Islamic rules he believes he owes her nothing.
>> >> 
>> >> A judge told Dr Zaid Al-Saffar that he must follow ‘the rule in 
>> >> this country’ and share his money.
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> The Appeal Court decision means Dr Al-Saffar must pay £60,000 to his 
>> >> former wife, academic Hanan Al-Saffar.
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> The ruling sounded a warning to Muslim couples who believe their 
>> >> marriages 
>> >> are ordered according to sharia law and agree to be bound by Islamic 
>> >> courts.
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> Lord Justice Ward told Dr Al-Saffar: ‘The rule in this country is 
>> >> that you share and the starting point is equal division. 
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> ‘You came out of the marriage without having made your wife any 
>> >> substantial capital payment.’ 
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> He added: ‘Life is sometimes hard; do not be consumed with 
>> >> bitterness.’ 
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> But Dr Al-Saffar said after the case: ‘By playing the system and 
>> >> pretending to be a victim she got everything, which I think is totally 
>> >> unfair. 
>> >> 
>> >> ‘Family law in this country is biased against Muslim 
>> >> people.’ 
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> The consultant rheumatologist at Scarborough Hospital in North Yorkshire, 
>> >> who is also the head of the Islamic Society in the resort town, was 
>> >> married for eight years, and the couple had two children. 
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> The marriage was formalised following the Islamic tradition of Mahr, 
>> >> under which the groom pays a gift to his bride.
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> Because of this, his wife had signed away her share of the 
>> >> couple’s home in Belvedere Road, in Scarborough. 
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> Dr Al-Saffar also assumed he had no 
>> >> obligation to make maintenance payments, and that, following Islamic 
>> >> practice, his former wife’s family would support her.
>> >> 
>> >> However, after the marriage fell apart in 2008, a county court judge 
>> >> ordered him to pay £60,000 to his wife in a hearing to settle the 
>> >> legal terms of 
>> >> their break-up. 
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> Dr Al-Saffar made payments for only four months but then contested the 
>> >> decision.
>> >> 
>> >> In
>> >> the Appeal Court, he told Lord Justice Ward that he had stopped paying 
>> >> because he had heard his former wife had inherited £250,000 from her 
>> >> father and had become ‘very, very well off’.
>> >> 
>> >> Dr Al-Saffar, who represented himself, told the court: ‘I have 
>> >> nothing but respect for the court’s order, but I only stopped 
>> >> paying because all 
>> >> her family were telling me she’s got millions. She doesn’t 
>> >> need it.’ 
>> >> 
>> >> But the judge said the doctor had 
>> >> been determined not to pay because ‘he felt the payments were 
>> >> illegitimate or illegal according to Islamic culture’. 
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> Lord Justice Ward said: ‘The husband has kept the whole of the 
>> >> capital in 
>> >> the marital home and the wife has not received any of it. 
>> >> 
>> >> ‘In those circumstances the order for spousal maintenance was a 
>> >> perfectly proper and fair order to make.’ 
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> The judge added: ‘The husband has to try to understand that 
>> >> inherited 
>> >> wealth is not available for distribution, especially when it comes in 
>> >> after or shortly before the breakdown of the marriage. 
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> 'That would not reduce the husband’s obligation to make a proper 
>> >> contribution to his wife.’
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> ‘I must dismiss this application,’ Lord Justice Ward said.
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> An unknown number of Muslim couples take their family disputes to sharia 
>> >> tribunals, usually run under the umbrella of local mosques. There are 
>> >> said to be around 85 operating in Britain.
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> They operate voluntarily, but critics say women may be disadvantaged if 
>> >> they agree to accept Islamic rules.
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> At present, if a sharia court settles a marriage dispute, an official law 
>> >> court has to approve the arrangement before the divorce is finalised.
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> The judge must decide whether it is reasonable and ensure neither party 
>> >> is disadvantaged. 
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> But agreements are submitted to the family court on a form just two pages 
>> >> long. The couple do not need to attend court.
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> The great majority are approved and critics say this process can amount 
>> >> to no more than rubber-stamping.
>> >> 
>> >> 
>> >> Four years ago Archbishop of Canterbury Dr Rowan Williams caused 
>> >> controversy when he said that full acceptance of sharia courts 
>> >> ‘seems unavoidable’.
>> >> 
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