----- Original Message -----
Sent: Wednesday, August 25, 2004 12:46
PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] I was right, men
suck
better to have loved and lost than to never haved loved at
all.
that sentiment may seem a little trite at the end of a
relationship
but it's absolutely true.
i have never been, nor will
i ever be in love.
all my friends have long since dissappeared. family is
absolutely
undependabe. this is my dead end street.
imagine wanting
somthing to eat, and getting it. wanting to go
somwhere and going there.
these are luxuries i can only dream of.
if you look at my glass as being half full, i'm not being abused, i
have
cable tv, i'm not in any pain, my roomate is comatose and i have
internet access. wow!
waking up every morning have nothing to look
forward to, having no
prospects. just taking up space, wasting everybodys
time & resourses.
so keep on complaining.
mabe you'll be able to
see the forrest through the trees.
dave headman
c4-25yrs post
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Sent: Aug 24, 2004 7:04 AM
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Subject: Re:
[QUAD-L] I was right, men suck
In a message dated 06/08/2004 08:28:11 GMT Standard Time,
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
I am shocked after all the shit (honesty) that was flown around here
when Mike and I were talking and during his visit. He decided to cop
out of the relationship he wanted to start on Monday. His visit was
supposed to happen Friday. He said at first it wasn't fair to me and
when I told him that what was going on is what I expected he said that he
can't be with me all the time and he can't handle that. I did my best
to protect my heart this time and told him that if he thought for one second
that he may not be able to handle it then do not come visit me. I
reminded him of it. I have been a mess all week about it and now I am
through shedding tears. I know I am sick of being alone but I am even
more sick of my heart getting broken by men that think they can handle a
relationship with me but really can't. I have been trying to figure
out what I have been doing wrong to make all these men keep hurting me. I no
sooner get over one and then another one comes along and does this to
me. Thank God I find out in the beginning how they are but my God,
stop fu..ing with my heart. I figure I am doing the right thing by
taking my time before I open my heart to these people and then this. I
guess I was right before and I am destined to be alone. I sure am
ruined for sometime before I can trust another man. It's not even that
I lost Mike, it's that I fu...ed up and trusted someone. I believed
what he said when he said that he really liked me and wanted to see where it
could go. He had the nerve to leave me a message when he got home that
he was excited to see where it could go. I know that I am better than
to trust someone and let them hurt me and will be careful who I open my
heart and home for. I made sure that I told him that he lost what
could have been the best thing that has ever happened to him and he sucks
for not letting himself be happy. I know it's not the disability
because he works in the field plus I was honest with him about what I think
he should have known so he came into this with his eyes wide open.
I now retract my apology for saying that men suck because they do
except for you men because you are my friends and my friends don?t
suck. So I am not bashing you guys. Thanks for reading my
rambling if you did not give up on reading this half way through.
Stacy
"People who hate you do not win unless you hate them. Then you destroy
yourself"
Stacy,
How are you doing now????? Hope your well! I'm really sorry
to hear about Mike, his lost out on a fantastic lady in his life!
Everyone really does have a prince and princess out there in the world, it's
just really tough finding them. But until you find your prince stick to
my saying - shut your ears males!! "Men are bastards - nothing more
nothing less". Okay thats not entirely true, the guys on here are pretty
cool, they show us that there really are some caring, lovely guys out
there
Keep your chin high,
Love Smurf xxx
