There are people taking it out of context and it's starting to frustrate
me. I could never feel that way. Of all people I do know the
difference because I know what it feels like to both a quad and a para.
BIG DIFFERENCE!! I'm glad you understand Dave, but hey, your always
understanding. Probably one of the most understanding on this list.
Stacy
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Monday, January 10, 2005 1:04
PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L]
Frustration/sensitive
Hi Stacy,
I thought that was what you meant. I didn't want anyone taking it
out of context. We Quads and Paras have got to stick together.
:)
With Love,
CtrlAltDel aka Dave C4/5 Complete - 28 Years Post Texas,
USA Stacy Harim <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
wrote:
That is what I meant by that statement Dave. I would never feel
that way. I may be one of the rare para's that knows what it's like to
be a quad so I could never see all paralysis as the same. I know that
I am damn lucky to be a para and not a quad.
Stacy
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Sunday, January 09, 2005 5:14
PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L]
Frustration/sensitive
Hi Stacy,
I would think that in the aspect of getting looked at as a sexual
being, maybe to the AB of the opposite sex,
paralyzed is paralyzed, but I don't think the
paralyzed person thinks that way. At least I hope not! I know
I don't think that way!
With Love,
CtrlAltDel aka Dave C4/5 Complete - 28 Years Post Texas,
USA Stacy Harim <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
wrote:
Your right in the aspect of everyday life. Of course I know
that. The statement was related to relationships. Para's are
still seen as paralyzed. In the aspect of getting looked at as a
sexual being is just as hard for para's to face. To the opposite
sex paralyzed is paralyzed.
Stacy
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Saturday, January 08, 2005
12:20 PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L]
Frustration/sensitive
That statement shouldn't hurt anyone. It's true...
Paras have it easier than quads. Just like a C5 like me has it easier
than a C4. The more moement you have, the more you can do for
yourself. If it's not a fact, than show me someone who would volunteer
to break their spine a few levels higher.
Greg
"Stacy I wasn't implying that para's have it easier I was just
saying if I had a good "Grip" I could help
myself!"
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