Re: [QUAD-L] Relationships and Romances

Sat, 12 Feb 2005 18:34:01 -0800

I actually talked to a para for pushing a year on the computer. He was a jackass like the rest of men.  He was supposed to come up and meet me.  His Dad was sick and said he was going up there instead and wished he could be here instead.  Come to find out I heard from someone else that I chat with that he was using his Dad as an excuse to see an able bodied girl further up North.  UGH men.  A prime example even a para doesn't want me.
 
Stacy
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Sent: Friday, February 11, 2005 5:37 PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Relationships and Romances

In a message dated 2/11/2005 9:32:20 AM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

You're the first one to catch onto my observation Billy.  I thought that I may have stirred the pot with my observation.  All of us are talking about relationships with able-bodied people.  If we don't want to be with people like us, why would we expect able-bodied people to want us?

 

Of course there would be difficulties and some hardships but at least we would understand what the other person is going through.  We would obviously need help by caregivers but having somebody around that not only gives but can receive affection can go along way.

 

Jim


....i'm going to be honest here, so sue me if i'm not politically correct.  i couldn't be with a girl in a chair, although i have felt attracted to a few years ago.  It's not for me, i need to have that female reactions to stimulation...plus, there's other emotional things i need.

Most girls i've been with never imagined going with a dude in a chair...it's not something you ever think about as an AB.  But i really have to give my ex-girls a  LOT of credit for having the strength to be with me in every way...i know it was scarey for them at first, but became very routine later.  I'm not just talkin about the sex here, it takes quite a bit of strength to see yourself with a person in a chair.  I'll say this for the girls in my past, i really respect them for seeing me for WHO i am...they looked past the chair so damn easy, and we had great times. 

-tony c5c6

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