Since you have never had a relationship while being a quad what makes you an expert on relationships especially married couples? By your comments, it's obviously you have no clue at all what you are talking about when it comes to relationships especially being in a marriage. I should be grateful that my wife told my daughter that the car was from both of us! She never even told me that she bought the car until I found out three days later and that she paid for the dam thing out of my daughter's college fund and I'm supposed to be grateful that I'm not alone! Didn't you read the whole post especially the part where I mention that she left me last October. No, I am not 100% alone because my 24-year-old son is still living here but I might as well be alone because he is not around here that much due to work and spending time with his friends. Also, from having a 60K+ paycheck a year to living on SSDI, married couples need to discuss finances together because making house payments and utility payments and putting food on the table are a little bit more important than having a $6000 entertainment center when we already have four perfectly functioning TVs and spending $2200 on a washer and dryer when the ones we had worked just fine. But I suppose you would not understand that because you have never been in a marriage being a quadriplegic. Jim
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