I was suggesting you try to work out something, but you got it figured out. I haven't been married because I like control, I had to learn that about myself. You obviously don't have a control problem. You have mastered the situation. If its any help, you can hire a woman for the night. Please don't come back with she ripped you off, cause you're in control now. If it makes any difference, you don't have to marry someone to have a relationship, and a marriage isn't proof of a relationship. Sorry I pissed you off with that namby pamby bullcrap about getting help to save your marriage. You didn't say you were divorced. I assumed you still talking and trying to make it work. Welcome to the singles. john -----Original Message----- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]; [email protected] Sent: Thu, 19 Apr 2007 4:49 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] relationships and being a quad
Since you have never had a relationship while being a quad what makes you an expert on relationships especially married couples? By your comments, it's obviously you have no clue at all what you are talking about when it comes to relationships especially being in a marriage. I should be grateful that my wife told my daughter that the car was from both of us! She never even told me that she bought the car until I found out three days later and that she paid for the dam thing out of my daughter's college fund and I'm supposed to be grateful that I'm not alone! Didn't you read the whole post especially the part where I mention that she left me last October. No, I am not 100% alone because my 24-year-old son is still living here but I might as well be alone because he is not around here that much due to work and spending time with his friends. Also, from having a 60K+ paycheck a year to living on SSDI, married couples need to discuss finances together because making house ! payments and utility payments and putting food on the table are a little bit more important than having a $6000 entertainment center when we already have four perfectly functioning TVs and spending $2200 on a washer and dryer when the ones we had worked just fine. But I suppose you would not understand that because you have never been in a marriage being a quadriplegic. Jim See what's free at AOL.com. ________________________________________________________________________ AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com.
