Well......
I was 21 when I had my accident and am now 30. I had a chance to get married
to a woman 3 yrs ago and have dated a few since then. I think my greatest
obstacle is will the relationship be like it would have been when I was a
walking man, or will the woman control and treat me less than a man. I was with
this girl for 3 years and I felt the control getting more and more. I was
afraid to leave my dads house and venture out with this woman because after I
would have left theirs no going back.
Dont get me wrong I enjoyed the time I had with this woman, but I couldnt get
over the fear of total control.Maybe just the wrong woman. When Im sitting
alone, I get sad thinking that I may never experience, kids, marriage or
family life. But if attaining these things as a quad means you have to bow down
and make the relationship all about the walking individual, I guess being alone
is better.
I realize everyones personal experiences and perspectives are different.
Someday I hope to have it figured out with no regret whatever I choose.
Ron
