I have found that it is not always the caregiver that steps back from these situations. Sometimes the person who is injured makes that move no matter how dedicated we are. Guess you are just lucky if both of you can hang in there...takes two. Amy
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Count your blessings! It has been an ongoing problem trying to find competent help. After awhile neither family, nor friends are willing to help. Your wife is a dedicated devoted woman. Never take her nor her caregiving for granted. Naomi C-4 quad, incomplete since July 2, 2005 Transverse Myelitis --------------------------------- See what's new at AOL.com and Make AOL Your Homepage. __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com