You prove what c5 quads can do and hopefully Paul
will take heart that life goes on when one's caregiver bows out.
Dan
At 11:53 AM 2/24/2009, Eric W Rudd said something that elicited my response:
laundry gets done on bowel days. groceries &
errands when needed. i vacuum/dust mop, dust,
cook, dishes, can do laundry if needed
myself. i can call a few people if needed but
very rarely need it...hope that doesn't jinx me ;-p
Eric W Rudd
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----- Original Message -----
From: <mailto:[email protected]>Dan
To: <mailto:[email protected]>[email protected]
Sent: Tuesday, February 24, 2009 10:32 AM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Splitting Up
How do you get by with 2-4 hours a day? Do they
have time to do; laundry, vacuum, dusting,
cooking, wash dishes, run errands? Or do you do
some or all of these things. What if you need help at 3am?
Dan
At 11:17 AM 2/24/2009, Eric W Rudd said something that elicited my response:

I'm a c5 inc have morning help, 2-4 hours
depending on day, night help comes for about 30
minutes but i pay for full hr. rest of time on
my own. i hire myself & pay myself. my pca
has been w/ me about 6 yrs his mom puts me in bed.
Eric W Rudd
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----- Original Message -----
From: <mailto:[email protected]>Paul Jacobson
To:
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Sent: Tuesday, February 24, 2009 9:38 AM
Subject: [QUAD-L] Splitting Up
Hi,
I'm Paul a c5/6 complete quad. After 2 1/2 years of marriage,
I am sadly getting a divorce. The 'quad life' was more than she
could handle, and I understand. It's very very sad.
Of those who are c5/6.......do you have a 24 hr live in? If not
can you share how you mange your caregivers and who helps
at night.
Thanks so much,
pj