Especially a C/5 and a C/5 incomplete.
_____ not all c5 have the same ability/function -----Original Message----- From: Dan [mailto:[email protected]] Sent: Tuesday, February 24, 2009 12:23 PM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Splitting Up You prove what c5 quads can do and hopefully Paul will take heart that life goes on when one's caregiver bows out. Dan At 11:53 AM 2/24/2009, Eric W Rudd said something that elicited my response: laundry gets done on bowel days. groceries & errands when needed. i vacuum/dust mop, dust, cook, dishes, can do laundry if needed myself. i can call a few people if needed but very rarely need it...hope that doesn't jinx me ;-p Eric W Rudd [email protected] ----- Original Message ----- From: Dan <mailto:[email protected]> To: [email protected] Sent: Tuesday, February 24, 2009 10:32 AM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Splitting Up How do you get by with 2-4 hours a day? Do they have time to do; laundry, vacuum, dusting, cooking, wash dishes, run errands? Or do you do some or all of these things. What if you need help at 3am? Dan At 11:17 AM 2/24/2009, Eric W Rudd said something that elicited my response:  I'm a c5 inc have morning help, 2-4 hours depending on day, night help comes for about 30 minutes but i pay for full hr. rest of time on my own. i hire myself & pay myself. my pca has been w/ me about 6 yrs his mom puts me in bed. Eric W Rudd [email protected] ----- Original Message ----- From: Paul <mailto:[email protected]> Jacobson To: [email protected] ; [email protected] Sent: Tuesday, February 24, 2009 9:38 AM Subject: [QUAD-L] Splitting Up Hi, I'm Paul a c5/6 complete quad. After 2 1/2 years of marriage, I am sadly getting a divorce. The 'quad life' was more than she could handle, and I understand. It's very very sad. Of those who are c5/6.......do you have a 24 hr live in? If not can you share how you mange your caregivers and who helps at night. Thanks so much, pj

