This point may have been made already, since I've not read the entire
thread, so please forgive any redundancy. It may be useful to remember
that gender/age/identity certainty has been an issue since before remote
correspondence of any kind was invented, let alone once couriers and
mail were "invented." There are plenty of RL individuals who cross-dress
or otherwise disguise their true gender/age/identity with significant
success in face-to-face interactions. In this respect, nothing new is
introduced as far as gender/age/identity certainty in e-mail, chat
rooms, or virtual worlds except for the degree of separation between the
physical presences in RL and/or the speed of communication, possibly
believability in the case of someone creating a photorealistic
representation of his/her assumed identity/av.

That said, I "know" plenty of people who play cross-gender 'toons on WoW
with varying reasons and degrees of role play from telling you he/she is
not really that gender the first time you meet them to concealing it
until it's discovered during a raid when the player comes onto voice
chat and the player makes no effort to disguise his/her voice. Most of
the time, no harm done.

Just sayin',
David

On Mon, 2010-10-25 at 13:58 -0400, Sal Armoniac wrote:
> If the girl is doing this to damage other girls, perhaps take vengence
> on a friend who likes older men, or if she IMPERSONATES a real 37 year
> old male, then she is acting unethically.  Chat rooms, however, are
> different from virtual worlds in subtle ways and VERY different from
> real worlds.  In chat rooms you often don't know the gender of your
> comrades at all unless they reveal it to you.  This has been true even
> of email.  Gender and age matter in relationships in the real world.
> In the virtual world, it isn't an issue unless it's extended beyond
> the playground.
>  
> Sarah
> 



> 
> 

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