*Update-
Just back from a Scout JLTC Camp!
> If even our best Rangers experiance turbulence and questions
> about life, and drift back and forth off target by nature..
>
> How can we get to know boys as individuals, when acting as
> the leader of a group?
*Suggestion-
You cannot be an effective Commander without deligateing the
leadership enough so that you know each boy by name and something
about him. By asking, probeing or haveing a quick word each meeting,
and perhaps keeping a notebook handy, you jot down trivia... intrests
with each boy, and the 'remembering of where you left off, translates
into a signal of respect. Respect with time becomes trust!
*Trust is the goal, and *Love is the outcome!
>
>
> I've had boys come to my Outpost with obvious problems,
> and felt helpless to "make things better" for them, beyond prayer...
>
> *Is that the best "Commander" can do?
A leader can "set the tone" and the agenda for encounters that
allow a mutual discovery of the path to understanding.
*Games with meaning... *frank discussions of ethics....
Ask "Reflective questions!" and let the answers drive the direction
of the conversation, untill every Ranger is "getting something"...
What else?
-=A=-
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