>>> [EMAIL PROTECTED] 5/10/2006 3:04 PM >>>

Steven White
City of Bloomington
1800 W Old Shakopee Rd
Bloomington MN 55431-3096
USA
952-563-4882 (voice)
952-563-4672 (fax)
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

>>>Where's your discussion about REBOL? Why waste our time?

>>>Pier Johnson

Dear Sir, 

I apologize for the waste of time, especially since I might not have
followed this thread from its very beginning, but I would like to offer
an observation.

I think that what bothers some people about your messages is not the
content but the tone.  When you throw in phrases similar to "if you want
community, join a commune" or "I won't connect the dots for you" you
"push buttons," so to speak" in the person to whom they are directed. 
You are quite correct in pointing out the importance of precise language
and how we understand things based on our assumptions, but the fact
remains that we do, and your messages sometimes strike me, at least, as
not just hurtful, but DELIBERATELY hurtful, as if you are making an
explicit attempt to hurt feelings.

You might be right if you were to say that I should be able to not
react to your phrases that seem hurtful, but I do, and I suspect that
others do, and if you know that, one wonders why you write them. 
Besides, if you want to keep the discussion strictly to the technical
aspects of REBOL, those phrases are not necessary.







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