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Steve, thank you so much for this, for these compassionate insights, for taking the time to reply. As always, it means a lot to me. Especially given how busy you must be. I bet you're also, along with Emily and turq, getting ready to travel. Have a great time up north with your daughter! Plus is everyone gearing up for back to school? Anyway, Steve, all the best always to you and your family. Share From: seventhray27 steve.sun...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 11:26 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share Okay Ann, I'll take your bait. Share gave a clear explanation to Jim. But you may have missed the subtlety and nuance of it. I never saw Share suck up to Barry. You just don't do that with Barry. Sure Barry's rant was mean spirited. It also seemed to contain a good amount of frustration. And I think he also totally missed, what I felt was, Share's deft way of dealing with the massive amount of criticisms, insults, and non stop personal attacks leveled against her. Martrydom? No. Wanting attention? Fraid not. Just someone who justifiably defended herself when attacked, and often did so in a gentle (often) and light hearted (most always) way that just so happened to zero in on the issue at hand. I am sorry that you aren't able to appreciate it. I didn't agree with any of those criticisms or attacks on her, although I must admit I found them rather humorous, the way they kept coming and from every angle. But what gave me greater delight was the way in which Share, in every case, dealt with them. And now we see Raunchy and others, (Judy of course) laying some nice traps to bring up all kinds of old (PR) business. It also humorous to see Judy, most every week, marvel at how far more overboard one of her (perceived) enemies has gone. But this is Judy's strong suit of course. I may drift off to sleep after this. Wishing you a good nights sleep as well. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba wrote: (snip) Share, you have Stockholm syndrome http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stockholm_syndrome I think there's more to it than that, but this is certainly an element. I suspect another aspect is the one Ann pointed out last night, addressing Barry: I think you've just created the first martyr at FFL. Just watch. Prescient. In any case, between Barry's treatment of Share (among many others) and Share's apparent reaction, the psychopathology is nothing short of spectacular. This is, in one sense, a dream come true for Share. I knew it when I read that post and I really believe it now. Barry didn't mean to do anything positive or remotely helpful for Share; he simply couldn't help himself. He actually reviles Share for a whole slew of reasons. I warned her, he has been using her from the beginning. But this situation is, as you say, nothing short of spectacular. However, Share wants to be martyred so, in some twist of strangeness, Barry has made her very happy on some level. And her one Knight has not appeared because he does not want to ruffle Barry's feathers. He is strangely silent (Steve, where are you?). Ah, the machinations of this forum, and of human beings in general, is fascinating. Curtis even dropped by today. If Robin were actually reading any of this he would have something to say. But in the end, only Share can decide for herself what serves her best and for what reasons and what it is that needs feeding.
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dear Obbajee Ms. Yvonne, you had me laughing right away with that postal count and going postal. Tons of gratitude. Actually I think this is one of your best posts ever, which is saying a lot IMHO--anyway, combo of fun and fascinating info about connection between Hearst and pot farming; bringing in John's post about monkish wine; and most of all, compassion and seeing how we all have good and bad in us. You did that, right? bhairitu who I prefer to call noozguru, has me very well trained so I had already googled Stockholm Syndrome. I'll say more about this in my reply to Doc. Ok, gotta have my oatmeal with stevia and then head for Bagambhrini (-: Nippy morning which I LOVE! Season of mellow fruitfulness might be coming early. Yay! From: obbajeeba no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 10:15 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share Share, I am risking my postal count this week, by giving you more attention than any and that in turn will cause someone to go postal on me. When I see I am in the top 5 post count, so far this week, and being over the imaginary limit the Turq is biting his fingers from adding his own over the limit thoughts (in more ways than one) just to prove a point and have us over posters, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VY0Hyza6C-U burned at the stake http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9dtTYd2sX80 on Friday, August 16, 2013. Share, you have Stockholm syndrome http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stockholm_syndrome (link just in case you do not know the meaning) and the Turq, Barry, is your captor. (I would like to add, I too have taken beatings from the Turq and I still kinda/sorta like him. That is why he made me Ms. Yvonne. He would use me for a night or two and then spit me out and I probably would want more, but I would finally come to my senses and focus on something really annoying about him and then in turn, forget about him. Then puke later.) Funny that John brought those beautiful pictures of the Monk's hermitage at this time, because he mentioned William Randolph Hearst, extreme wealthy man that he was, his daughter too, Patty, had what they say Stockholm Syndrome, when she was kidnapped and then became pals with her captors. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X_CaqurNXx8 See, it can happen to the best of us. One of the biggest victims of Mr. Hearst, as he too, held product for ransom to protect his own tree farms/lumber by putting out stupid conspiracy crap about Weed, Pot, Marrijane, Cannabis, whatever they call that stuff I don't smoke or take, but the Stockholm syndrome spread and to make a long story short, this ended up happening http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DALBRzPAgKM to help push legislation to block any use and all use of the plant that can grow very fast and was sustainable green product oh heck watch here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1xt-IlJLlD8 So see, people are sitting in jail all around the country, lives ruined because Mr. Hearst, (Citizen Kane http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q3hfQ2IOc8s ) pushed some of the beginnings of these horrible drug laws and also helped make it impossible to farmers to be able to use this plant on their farms, here in the USA. Remember, go and sip some wine with the Monks and the ancient European stones. Just don't get stoned. :) Kids, don't do drugs. They are bad for you. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: Doc, thank you. Susan is also friendly towards turq as are several including but not limited to Steve and Curtis and Xeno, sort of. Anyway, as I replied to Emily long ago, what I mean by psychological rape is when someone attributes thoughts and feelings to me that I'm not having. turq doesn't do that. I guess what turq said should bother me. But he has told me to STFU before! He has called me an idiot before and the worst kind of TBer, attention seeker, etc. So nothing new really. And maybe he was shocked by how much I posted. I was too! Anyway, it's just turq being turq. BTW, I don't think of us as friends or allies or anything like that. We both like the Minion movies. That's about the extent of what we have in common. I come to his defense when people gang up on him. But I would do that for anyone because it is a pet peeve of mine. And he has been supportive of me when I have been ganged up on. That has meant a lot. Anyway, I hope he has a great vacation. And shall we let the river flow on? From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 8:53 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share  Assuming Barry has everything all tidied up at home, as he often assures us he does, and given that he basically lost control of his bowels today, Tuesday, indicates that he probably got humiliated
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Doc, thanks again for caring, taking the time to reply, sharing your ideas. Now about boundaries: I think it's really hard to tell if someone is setting boundaries in an online community. Just so you know, something Sig Other complained about, I set plenty of them. And Nature nicely supplements. For example, on Monday night, well Tuesday morning really, I woke up at 1:30 Central and could not get back to sleep! Awful, awful. I did something which I do maybe 1 or 2 times a year. I turned on the computer! Very dumb! Saw that Judy and Raunchy had just posted! Now here's a boundary for you: I did not read those posts at that time! Very smart! Still haven't read all the posts that were posted Monday night/early Tuesday morning. Again, very smart IMHO (-: Anyway, when I eventually read turq's post, I was already wrecked from lack of sleep, dulled out, etc. I think that was a loving boundary from Mother Nature (-: Yikes! Time for Dome, more later. Thank you again. From: doctordumb...@rocketmail.com doctordumb...@rocketmail.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 11:15 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share You are welcome - I find turq's behavior towards you reprehensible, and always will. I don't know why you are willingly a target for his abuse. He severely compromises your public identity for those who are reading this forum. Maybe that is very few of us. However, I would think that you would set a boundary for that public behavior, of his, towards you. Not because it gets to you, but because it is childish, and meant to be hurtful. Through daily activity, I am around children, of all ages, and the thing they must learn is boundaries, for their own sake. So, whatever age the child, I never hesitate to reinforce boundaries with them. That way, they have half a chance of growing up to be kind, socially integrated adults. I don't hold my breath, beyond taking an action to set boundaries, but neither do I blithely let the moment pass. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Doc, thank you. Susan is also friendly towards turq as are several including but not limited to Steve and Curtis and Xeno, sort of. Anyway, as I replied to Emily long ago, what I mean by psychological rape is when someone attributes thoughts and feelings to me that I'm not having. turq doesn't do that. I guess what turq said should bother me. But he has told me to STFU before! He has called me an idiot before and the worst kind of TBer, attention seeker, etc. So nothing new really. And maybe he was shocked by how much I posted. I was too! Anyway, it's just turq being turq. BTW, I don't think of us as friends or allies or anything like that. We both like the Minion movies. That's about the extent of what we have in common. I come to his defense when people gang up on him. But I would do that for anyone because it is a pet peeve of mine. And he has been supportive of me when I have been ganged up on. That has meant a lot. Anyway, I hope he has a great vacation. And shall we let the river flow on? From: doctordumbass@... doctordumbass@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 8:53 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share  Assuming Barry has everything all tidied up at home, as he often assures us he does, and given that he basically lost control of his bowels today, Tuesday, indicates that he probably got humiliated in a meeting at work, or works for someone who makes his life miserable, or both. Or maybe it was just another dateless weekend...who really knows, except that there WAS some sort of trigger event... Barry is like a powder keg on here, compulsively scanning his spreadsheets, obsessively tracking who said what, and in direct competition with that persona, he must maintain the uber-cool, global AND glacial, Uncle Tantra image. Feels like sandpaper inside him, though, the itch he cannot scratch, until he finds a target, no matter how inappropriate. He violates all of his public boundaries, for his release - He Just Has To Let It OUT. And while he is at it, why not kill two birds, with a single stone? After all, Share considers him to be the big brother she never had, and is the only one here who consistently treats him in a friendly way. But this, remember, is Barry The Magnificent, liver in of foreign countries, who has screwed more women than any of us can count, and is practically on a first name basis with Anybody Who Really Matters. So, he thought about the pros, and cons, of keeping Share around. Ally, or simply an embarrassment? Pretty obvious what Barry's choice was: SHUT THE FUCK UP [Share] We get it that you don't care how unintelligent you come across, and that you're trying to single-handedly
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Obbajeeba, Shukra went debilitated on Sunday. According to one jyotish newsletter, that means, and I'm not making this up: hissy fits (-: Mangal goes debilitated soon and then FFL will REALLY be fun (-: From: obbajeeba no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 10:56 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share Scary to think a Martyr! Share? Hey, at 7:29, the Jack Herer video, Maharishi is quickly shown. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote: (snip) Share, you have Stockholm syndrome http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stockholm_syndrome I think there's more to it than that, but this is certainly an element. I suspect another aspect is the one Ann pointed out last night, addressing Barry: I think you've just created the first martyr at FFL. Just watch. Prescient. In any case, between Barry's treatment of Share (among many others) and Share's apparent reaction, the psychopathology is nothing short of spectacular.
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Me too! I'm in Mangal Ketu Rahu and had pujas for them all during the night. Maybe why I slept much better, feel so much better. Just ordered a puja for Venus since it rules my chart. Penance?! Serious bananagramming! Maybe the best yagya of all! From: obbajeeba no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 11:04 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share Thanks, I was aware, Share. Fun to watch the changes! I think it will just fizzle out everyone's energy and no one will say a word to each other. Probably make us all temporary eunuchs. So get ready for some serious Bananagramings! Go girl! Get on it! I am in the cave, anyways. A new era about to begin and I am starting it off with yagyas and penance during this last week of Shravan. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Obbajeeba, Shukra went debilitated on Sunday. According to one jyotish newsletter, that means, and I'm not making this up: hissy fits (-: Mangal goes debilitated soon and then FFL will REALLY be fun (-: From: obbajeeba no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 10:56 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share  Scary to think a Martyr! Share? Hey, at 7:29, the Jack Herer video, Maharishi is quickly shown. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote: (snip) Share, you have Stockholm syndrome http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stockholm_syndrome I think there's more to it than that, but this is certainly an element. I suspect another aspect is the one Ann pointed out last night, addressing Barry: I think you've just created the first martyr at FFL. Just watch. Prescient. In any case, between Barry's treatment of Share (among many others) and Share's apparent reaction, the psychopathology is nothing short of spectacular.
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Judy, there have been many times when I haven't liked what turq says about the TMO or Robin. With reference to the latter, I have said before that I don't like the use of DSM 5 labels here. Or anywhere for that matter. They rarely help and I believe they can harm. My guess is that they are mainly used by doctors so that they can get paid by insurance companies. Still I don't like it when people gang up on anybody. Especially, as I realized this morning, with limited posting. How unfair that 3 or 4 people are posting negative stuff about someone and that person only has way less posting power since they are just one person. A little like making one person play tennis against 4 or 5 people! I think I've got turq's number, Judy. Sorry if this disappoints you all, but his STFU post was not traumatic for me. From: authfriend authfri...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 10:04 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: (snip) Do you do that for Barry because you think whatever he's done or said that folks are ganging up on him for is perfectly OK? And he has been supportive of me when I have been ganged up on. That has meant a lot. What it means is that you don't see the reality, which is that he isn't doing that for your benefit, he's doing it to dump on the folks who are criticizing you.
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Judy, my first paragraph is in response to your question: Do you do that for Barry because you think whatever he's done or said that folks are ganging up on him for is perfectly OK? From: authfriend authfri...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 1:30 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share I'm not sure what this is in response to, Share. Doesn't seem to relate to what I said below. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Judy, there have been many times when I haven't liked what turq says about the TMO or Robin. With reference to the latter, I have said before that I don't like the use of DSM 5 labels here. Or anywhere for that matter. They rarely help and I believe they can harm. My guess is that they are mainly used by doctors so that they can get paid by insurance companies. Still I don't like it when people gang up on anybody. Especially, as I realized this morning, with limited posting. How unfair that 3 or 4 people are posting negative stuff about someone and that person only has way less posting power since they are just one person. A little like making one person play tennis against 4 or 5 people! Barry always had plenty of posts left to respond to his critics if he wanted to, so that wasn't a problem for him. But in some cases, IMHO, a person deserves to be ganged up on, posting limits or no posting limits. I think I've got turq's number, Judy. Sorry if this disappoints you all, but his STFU post was not traumatic for me. We're glad it wasn't traumatic. On the other hand, we worry about how lightly you've taken it and wonder whether you're really facing the reality of it and what it says about him. From: authfriend authfriend@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 10:04 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: (snip) Do you do that for Barry because you think whatever he's done or said that folks are ganging up on him for is perfectly OK? And he has been supportive of me when I have been ganged up on. That has meant a lot. What it means is that you don't see the reality, which is that he isn't doing that for your benefit, he's doing it to dump on the folks who are criticizing you.
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Thanks, John, but what about FFL chart?! From: John jr_...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 2:47 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share Share, For the USA, Mars in debilitation in Cancer usually will cause much havoc in a form of hurricanes. The usual victims will those who are living in the Southeastern seaboard and the Gulf states, particularly Louisiana. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Me too! I'm in Mangal Ketu Rahu and had pujas for them all during the night. Maybe why I slept much better, feel so much better. Just ordered a puja for Venus since it rules my chart. Penance?! Serious bananagramming! Maybe the best yagya of all! From: obbajeeba no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 11:04 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share  Thanks, I was aware, Share. Fun to watch the changes! I think it will just fizzle out everyone's energy and no one will say a word to each other. Probably make us all temporary eunuchs. So get ready for some serious Bananagramings! Go girl! Get on it! I am in the cave, anyways. A new era about to begin and I am starting it off with yagyas and penance during this last week of Shravan. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Obbajeeba, Shukra went debilitated on Sunday. According to one jyotish newsletter, that means, and I'm not making this up: hissy fits (-: Mangal goes debilitated soon and then FFL will REALLY be fun (-: From: obbajeeba no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 10:56 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share  Scary to think a Martyr! Share? Hey, at 7:29, the Jack Herer video, Maharishi is quickly shown. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote: (snip) Share, you have Stockholm syndrome http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stockholm_syndrome I think there's more to it than that, but this is certainly an element. I suspect another aspect is the one Ann pointed out last night, addressing Barry: I think you've just created the first martyr at FFL. Just watch. Prescient. In any case, between Barry's treatment of Share (among many others) and Share's apparent reaction, the psychopathology is nothing short of spectacular.
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The transits show that a pure, innocent woman whose name starts with the initial S, ending with E with the letters H, A, R in the middle will be subject to lot of hardship by mean people. She just needs to get off FFL and integrate these mean wavicles in and of her and return when Mars moves to Leo. On Aug 14, 2013, at 12:51 PM, Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote: Thanks, John, but what about FFL chart?! From: John jr_...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 2:47 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share Share, For the USA, Mars in debilitation in Cancer usually will cause much havoc in a form of hurricanes. The usual victims will those who are living in the Southeastern seaboard and the Gulf states, particularly Louisiana. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Me too! I'm in Mangal Ketu Rahu and had pujas for them all during the night. Maybe why I slept much better, feel so much better. Just ordered a puja for Venus since it rules my chart. Penance?! Serious bananagramming! Maybe the best yagya of all! From: obbajeeba no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 11:04 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share  Thanks, I was aware, Share. Fun to watch the changes! I think it will just fizzle out everyone's energy and no one will say a word to each other. Probably make us all temporary eunuchs. So get ready for some serious Bananagramings! Go girl! Get on it! I am in the cave, anyways. A new era about to begin and I am starting it off with yagyas and penance during this last week of Shravan. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Obbajeeba, Shukra went debilitated on Sunday. According to one jyotish newsletter, that means, and I'm not making this up: hissy fits (-: Mangal goes debilitated soon and then FFL will REALLY be fun (-: From: obbajeeba no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 10:56 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share  Scary to think a Martyr! Share? Hey, at 7:29, the Jack Herer video, Maharishi is quickly shown. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote: (snip) Share, you have Stockholm syndrome http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stockholm_syndrome I think there's more to it than that, but this is certainly an element. I suspect another aspect is the one Ann pointed out last night, addressing Barry: I think you've just created the first martyr at FFL. Just watch. Prescient. In any case, between Barry's treatment of Share (among many others) and Share's apparent reaction, the psychopathology is nothing short of spectacular.
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Ravi I've been in Mangal mahdasa for almost 5 years now and having Mangal pujas done on a regular basis. Plus listening to Hanuman chaleesa every Tuesday. If that doesn't vibe up Mangal then that's my karma! And evidently it's yours for me to remain here! From: Ravi Chivukula chivukula.r...@gmail.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 3:01 PM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share The transits show that a pure, innocent woman whose name starts with the initial S, ending with E with the letters H, A, R in the middle will be subject to lot of hardship by mean people. She just needs to get off FFL and integrate these mean wavicles in and of her and return when Mars moves to Leo. On Aug 14, 2013, at 12:51 PM, Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote: Thanks, John, but what about FFL chart?! From: John jr_...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 2:47 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share Share, For the USA, Mars in debilitation in Cancer usually will cause much havoc in a form of hurricanes. The usual victims will those who are living in the Southeastern seaboard and the Gulf states, particularly Louisiana. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@... wrote: Me too! I'm in Mangal Ketu Rahu and had pujas for them all during the night. Maybe why I slept much better, feel so much better. Just ordered a puja for Venus since it rules my chart. Penance?! Serious bananagramming! Maybe the best yagya of all! From: obbajeeba no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 11:04 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share  Thanks, I was aware, Share. Fun to watch the changes! I think it will just fizzle out everyone's energy and no one will say a word to each other. Probably make us all temporary eunuchs. So get ready for some serious Bananagramings! Go girl! Get on it! I am in the cave, anyways. A new era about to begin and I am starting it off with yagyas and penance during this last week of Shravan. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long sharelong60@ wrote: Obbajeeba, Shukra went debilitated on Sunday. According to one jyotish newsletter, that means, and I'm not making this up: hissy fits (-: Mangal goes debilitated soon and then FFL will REALLY be fun (-: From: obbajeeba no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 10:56 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share  Scary to think a Martyr! Share? Hey, at 7:29, the Jack Herer video, Maharishi is quickly shown. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote: (snip) Share, you have Stockholm syndrome http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stockholm_syndrome I think there's more to it than that, but this is certainly an element. I suspect another aspect is the one Ann pointed out last night, addressing Barry: I think you've just created the first martyr at FFL. Just watch. Prescient. In any case, between Barry's treatment of Share (among many others) and Share's apparent reaction, the psychopathology is nothing short of spectacular.
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Doc, thank you. Susan is also friendly towards turq as are several including but not limited to Steve and Curtis and Xeno, sort of. Anyway, as I replied to Emily long ago, what I mean by psychological rape is when someone attributes thoughts and feelings to me that I'm not having. turq doesn't do that. I guess what turq said should bother me. But he has told me to STFU before! He has called me an idiot before and the worst kind of TBer, attention seeker, etc. So nothing new really. And maybe he was shocked by how much I posted. I was too! Anyway, it's just turq being turq. BTW, I don't think of us as friends or allies or anything like that. We both like the Minion movies. That's about the extent of what we have in common. I come to his defense when people gang up on him. But I would do that for anyone because it is a pet peeve of mine. And he has been supportive of me when I have been ganged up on. That has meant a lot. Anyway, I hope he has a great vacation. And shall we let the river flow on? From: doctordumb...@rocketmail.com doctordumb...@rocketmail.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 8:53 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share Assuming Barry has everything all tidied up at home, as he often assures us he does, and given that he basically lost control of his bowels today, Tuesday, indicates that he probably got humiliated in a meeting at work, or works for someone who makes his life miserable, or both. Or maybe it was just another dateless weekend...who really knows, except that there WAS some sort of trigger event... Barry is like a powder keg on here, compulsively scanning his spreadsheets, obsessively tracking who said what, and in direct competition with that persona, he must maintain the uber-cool, global AND glacial, Uncle Tantra image. Feels like sandpaper inside him, though, the itch he cannot scratch, until he finds a target, no matter how inappropriate. He violates all of his public boundaries, for his release - He Just Has To Let It OUT. And while he is at it, why not kill two birds, with a single stone? After all, Share considers him to be the big brother she never had, and is the only one here who consistently treats him in a friendly way. But this, remember, is Barry The Magnificent, liver in of foreign countries, who has screwed more women than any of us can count, and is practically on a first name basis with Anybody Who Really Matters. So, he thought about the pros, and cons, of keeping Share around. Ally, or simply an embarrassment? Pretty obvious what Barry's choice was: SHUT THE FUCK UP [Share] We get it that you don't care how unintelligent you come across, and that you're trying to single-handedly prove the contention of anti-TM critics that TMers are blissninnies without a brain cell in their thick skulls who will believe anything if they're told its Woo Woo enough... BTW, Share, I think you have an EXCELLENT case for psychological rape, now. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: The 'mean girls' trying to 'get' you are an embarrassment to the notion of humans having compassion... So if the mean girls wanted to stop trying to get Share and exercise compassion toward her instead, we should strive to emulate Barry, as he has modeled compassion for us in this SHUT THE FUCK UP post to Share. Did I get that right, Barry? We mean girls are an embarrassment to the notion of humans having compassion, whereas you are an exemplar thereof? If FFL was anything like the 3D world Barry would be embarrassed to show his face let alone continue on as if he did not just present himself as just about the biggest dickhead on the planet. As if at least half of the readers here are not repulsed by him and the ugliness that consumes him inside. It is indeed some phenomenon to watch this dick-wad carry on as if he did not just perform the equivalent of raping the hostess of a party in front of her husband, take a dump on the dining room floor and kick the family dog on the way out the front door while flipping the remaining party guests the bird. Barry disgusts me in every way. Asshole is too kind a word. He can carry on oblivious to his violations, and will no doubt do so, until his last, wretched breath. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: SHUT THE FUCK UP We get it that you don't care how unintelligent you come across, and that you're trying to single-handedly prove the contention of anti-TM critics that TMers are blissninnies without a brain cell in their thick skulls who will believe anything if they're told its Woo Woo enough. But do you have to be such a codependent, attention-seeking masochist about it? Not only have you been making
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Dear Share, This is insane - the lengths you have gone to support Barry's sadistic rant. It's not the facts that we are talking about - your amount of posts, even I talked about you being unhinged - it is the violence, the sadism in his post. He clearly has deep wounds related to TM, I don't know his personal story - the level of sadism in his posts reveals some intimate, personal wounds related to his involvement with TM and I have no clue what they are and his post was very revealing in that regard - as in this man, Barry has some very personal, emotional investment in his opposition to TM (contrast that to someone like MJ who appears very benign). And that man later posts that his philosophy is of Me, I don't give a shit - hilarious and sickening. If he doesn't give a shit why such violent way of expressing his displeasure? Steve and Susan are nice and they come across as really stupid in their support of Barry. Let's see what Steve and Susan have to say about Barry's post. Curtis and Xeno OTOH are not - there's a devious quality to their support, they have their personal agenda, self-interest in their support of Barry. It amounts to nothing - several posters here have time and again questioned these posters for their support of Barry and none of them could come up with anything convincing. If this is what you have in Barry's support it is indeed pathetic and shocking. On Tue, Aug 13, 2013 at 7:23 PM, Share Long sharelon...@yahoo.com wrote: ** Doc, thank you. Susan is also friendly towards turq as are several including but not limited to Steve and Curtis and Xeno, sort of. Anyway, as I replied to Emily long ago, what I mean by psychological rape is when someone attributes thoughts and feelings to me that I'm not having. turq doesn't do that. I guess what turq said should bother me. But he has told me to STFU before! He has called me an idiot before and the worst kind of TBer, attention seeker, etc. So nothing new really. And maybe he was shocked by how much I posted. I was too! Anyway, it's just turq being turq. BTW, I don't think of us as friends or allies or anything like that. We both like the Minion movies. That's about the extent of what we have in common. I come to his defense when people gang up on him. But I would do that for anyone because it is a pet peeve of mine. And he has been supportive of me when I have been ganged up on. That has meant a lot. Anyway, I hope he has a great vacation. And shall we let the river flow on? -- *From:* doctordumb...@rocketmail.com doctordumb...@rocketmail.com *To:* FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com *Sent:* Tuesday, August 13, 2013 8:53 PM *Subject:* [FairfieldLife] Re: An Open Message To Share Assuming Barry has everything all tidied up at home, as he often assures us he does, and given that he basically lost control of his bowels today, Tuesday, indicates that he probably got humiliated in a meeting at work, or works for someone who makes his life miserable, or both. Or maybe it was just another dateless weekend...who really knows, except that there WAS some sort of trigger event... Barry is like a powder keg on here, compulsively scanning his spreadsheets, obsessively tracking who said what, and in direct competition with that persona, he must maintain the uber-cool, global AND glacial, Uncle Tantra image. Feels like sandpaper inside him, though, the itch he cannot scratch, until he finds a target, no matter how inappropriate. He violates all of his public boundaries, for his release - He Just Has To Let It OUT. And while he is at it, why not kill two birds, with a single stone? After all, Share considers him to be the big brother she never had, and is the only one here who consistently treats him in a friendly way. But this, remember, is Barry The Magnificent, liver in of foreign countries, who has screwed more women than any of us can count, and is practically on a first name basis with Anybody Who Really Matters. So, he thought about the pros, and cons, of keeping Share around. Ally, or simply an embarrassment? Pretty obvious what Barry's choice was: SHUT THE FUCK UP [Share] We get it that you don't care how unintelligent you come across, and that you're trying to single-handedly prove the contention of anti-TM critics that TMers are blissninnies without a brain cell in their thick skulls who will believe anything if they're told its Woo Woo enough... BTW, Share, I think you have an EXCELLENT case for psychological rape, now. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ann awoelflebater@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend authfriend@ wrote: The 'mean girls' trying to 'get' you are an embarrassment to the notion of humans having compassion... So if the mean girls wanted to stop trying to get Share and exercise compassion toward her instead, we should strive to emulate Barry, as he has modeled compassion for us
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In any case, between Barry's treatment of Share (among many others) and Share's apparent reaction, the psychopathology is nothing short of spectacular. Thank you for stating this. I have been repeating this ad nauseam, the behavior of Barry and Share is extremely abnormal and pathological, they are attention seekers, they need serious therapy/medication and this why I have such strong objection to people who enable Barry and Share. It is just unconscionable - the enablers seem to fall into 3 categories. People who just don't fucking care - the majority 1100+, people who care but are extremely unperceptive though nice people - the likes of Steve, Feste, Susan and people who are wrapped in their self-interest to the degree of being toxic and devious (We both know who they are don't we). Oh heck wait - there's a new category the spiritual teacher wannabe's like Rory who has this philosophy of look inwards, integrate wavicles than address Barry's behavior (because it makes him the compassionate, peaceful equanimous teacher). On Tue, Aug 13, 2013 at 8:34 PM, authfriend authfri...@yahoo.com wrote: ** --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@... wrote: (snip) Share, you have Stockholm syndrome http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stockholm_syndrome I think there's more to it than that, but this is certainly an element. I suspect another aspect is the one Ann pointed out last night, addressing Barry: I think you've just created the first martyr at FFL. Just watch. Prescient. In any case, between Barry's treatment of Share (among many others) and Share's apparent reaction, the psychopathology is nothing short of spectacular.
