Re: [lace] Christening gown

2011-02-12 Thread Brenda Paternoster
Hi Donna

If you can get hold of a copy of Eeva Liisa Kortelahti's Nyplättyä Pitsiä / 
Bobbin Lace - which is no doubt out of print now as it was published in 1981 - 
there is a scale pattern for a christening gown which is nearly all straight 
lines to make a simple modern dress.  The yoke and the front of the skirt are 
pointed and trimmed with lace edging with corners and several short pieces of 
edging with one corner are stitched over the front panel.

Brenda

On 11 Feb 2011, at 06:44, Dona Bushong wrote:

   I wondered if there was a sewing pattern that came
 with this lace pattern?  Or if anyone has something similar they'd be
 willing to share with me.

Brenda in Allhallows
www.brendapaternoster.co.uk

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[lace] What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Carol
Hi All,

I am just looking at the lace pillow I spent all yesterday afternoon/evening
attempting to untangle - I haven't touched it for several months since the
'accident' happened., but will have to sit and work at it again today, and
until it is OK again.

To explain.I was demonstrating with several 'Have-a-Go' pillows, and
others on display, and with this one displayed, but with elastic across the
bobbins, so that it couldn't be disturbed.   However, I was sitting with one
little girl, with the snake, when I noticed that another girl - probably about
14/15 - had undone the elastic, and was fiddling with the bobbins. I asked
her not to touch, when the accompanying lady told me that the girl was very
accomplished, had won prizes at school for handwork, and could only help me to
finish the lace.   I again asked her not to touch it, as it was quite special
to me.I was very restrained, and polite, as I again told them it was a
special piece, being a chalice cover I was making in memory of my late
husband, but the lady took offence, as did the girl, and, as they turned away
making impolite remarks, the woman 'accidentally' knocked the pillow and
table, whereupon the pillow fell.   The resulting tangle is what I am still
attempting to remedy.

In all the years I have demonstrated, I have never before had such an
experience!Which explains the subject line - I was (and still am )
horrified that anyone could do such a thing, and although it has never
happened before, it does make me wonder whether I will ever take pillows with
complicated work, and many beautiful bobbins, to a display again.   As I said
- what woud you do?

Carol - in Suffolk UK
'Deliver us, Lord, from every evil, and grant us peace in our day.'

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Re: [lace] What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Laceandbits
In all the years I have demonstrated, I have never before had such an 
experience! 

Carol, I think the answer lies in that sentence.

If you add to that all the years all the rest of us have demonstrated 
without having met such vile people, then you were extremely unlucky, and 
lightning rarely strikes twice.

Yes, share your beautiful lace and bobbins with the world, but at the same 
time take a few more precautions.  As you say many beautiful bobbins I 
assume they were spangled Midlands.  How about using some invisible 
thread/fishing line through the spangles, knotted around a pin through every 10 
or so 
pairs, so that first of all it is not obvious how they are held, and secondly 
it would be not so easy or quick for them to be released.  They can then be 
spread out as if in work.  

Another thing is to make sure that it is not in a place where it could 
possibly be accidently knocked over, such as at the back of a larger display 
table that should solve that, as well as making it harder for it to be 
interfered with.

Put it down to experience, and we have all learnt that if we should ever 
meet such unpleasant people, we need to be up on our feet quickly, quietly 
moving nearer to intervene.

Jacquie in Lincolnshire

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RE: [lace] What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Karen Zammit Manduca
Hi Carol,

I always take a simple piece with me when I am in any situation where I am
likely to have people watch me work (i.e. lace fairs or lace days), although
I make it a point that at least it is Maltese lace, especially for fairs
abroad. It's true that a complicated piece will mean lots more Oohs and
Aahs, but in those situations I won't be able to work much at all. I also
feel that if anyone is in any way inclined to try our art, it would be far
more beneficial for him/her to see a normal piece because a piece that is
very complicated may put them off. The only time I worked in public on a
complicated piece was when I wanted to impress because we were being filmed
for local TV and it was an old Maltese pattern that I was working.

Karen in Malta.

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Carol
Sent: Saturday, February 12, 2011 11:12 AM
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Subject: [lace] What would YOU do?

Hi All,

I am just looking at the lace pillow I spent all yesterday afternoon/evening
attempting to untangle - I haven't touched it for several months since the
'accident' happened., but will have to sit and work at it again today, and
until it is OK again.

To explain.I was demonstrating with several 'Have-a-Go' pillows, and
others on display, and with this one displayed, but with elastic across the
bobbins, so that it couldn't be disturbed.   However, I was sitting with one
little girl, with the snake, when I noticed that another girl - probably
about
14/15 - had undone the elastic, and was fiddling with the bobbins. I
asked
her not to touch, when the accompanying lady told me that the girl was very
accomplished, had won prizes at school for handwork, and could only help me
to
finish the lace.   I again asked her not to touch it, as it was quite
special
to me.I was very restrained, and polite, as I again told them it was a
special piece, being a chalice cover I was making in memory of my late
husband, but the lady took offence, as did the girl, and, as they turned
away
making impolite remarks, the woman 'accidentally' knocked the pillow and
table, whereupon the pillow fell.   The resulting tangle is what I am still
attempting to remedy.

In all the years I have demonstrated, I have never before had such an
experience!Which explains the subject line - I was (and still am )
horrified that anyone could do such a thing, and although it has never
happened before, it does make me wonder whether I will ever take pillows
with
complicated work, and many beautiful bobbins, to a display again.   As I
said
- what woud you do?

Carol - in Suffolk UK
'Deliver us, Lord, from every evil, and grant us peace in our day.'

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Re: [lace] What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread lynrbailey
Unfortunately there do exist incredibly egregious people in the world.  There 
are also axe and serial murderers.  Fortunately we don't usually meet up with 
such people, they are, thank God, rare.  Shame the woman didn't 'trip' over 
things.  This pair, and what a pair they were, deserve our sympathy for not 
having been taught better.  You were making a chalice cover.  An appropriate 
prayer would involve a request that they they gain the ability to learn common 
decency and basic consideration for others.  
 Fortunately, lacemaking does not attract such barbarians, and the 
likelihood of encountering their like is so small as to be non-existent.  Just 
don't bring the chalice cover to demos.  I am so sorry this happened to you.  
You certainly don't deserve it.  But as we know, bad things do happen to good 
people.  lrb  



-Original Message-
From: Carol nestalace.ca...@btopenworld.com
Sent: Feb 12, 2011 5:12 AM
To: lace@arachne.com
Subject: [lace] What would YOU do?

Hi All,

I am just looking at the lace pillow I spent all yesterday afternoon/evening
attempting to untangle - I haven't touched it for several months since the
'accident' happened., but will have to sit and work at it again today, and
until it is OK again.

To explain.I was demonstrating with several 'Have-a-Go' pillows, and
others on display, and with this one displayed, but with elastic across the
bobbins, so that it couldn't be disturbed.   However, I was sitting with one
little girl, with the snake, when I noticed that another girl - probably about
14/15 - had undone the elastic, and was fiddling with the bobbins. I asked
her not to touch, when the accompanying lady told me that the girl was very
accomplished, had won prizes at school for handwork, and could only help me to
finish the lace.   I again asked her not to touch it, as it was quite special
to me.I was very restrained, and polite, as I again told them it was a
special piece, being a chalice cover I was making in memory of my late
husband, but the lady took offence, as did the girl, and, as they turned away
making impolite remarks, the woman 'accidentally' knocked the pillow and
table, whereupon the pillow fell.   The resulting tangle is what I am still
attempting to remedy.

In all the years I have demonstrated, I have never before had such an
experience!Which explains the subject line - I was (and still am )
horrified that anyone could do such a thing, and although it has never
happened before, it does make me wonder whether I will ever take pillows with
complicated work, and many beautiful bobbins, to a display again.   As I said
- what woud you do?

Carol - in Suffolk UK
'Deliver us, Lord, from every evil, and grant us peace in our day.'

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Re: [lace] What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Malvary J Cole
Carol - what a shame that happened to you.  I hope you can get the rest of 
the 'mess' sorted out with no broken threads etc.


I had an incident, but with no malicious intent, when I was making lace at 
an old heritage farm - 1850's houses with earth and straw floors.  I had 
temporarily put my pillow on my chair while I stretched and had turned away 
to look at someone else's lace.  There were no visitors in the farmhouse at 
the time.  While my back was turned, a little boy of about 6 came in and 
walked over to look at my pillow.  He put his hands on the front corners of 
the pillow and leaned over.  Of course, the pillow flipped over and landed 
face down in the straw.  The look on the kidlet's face was a picture of 
horror and alarm, especially as his mum came in just at that moment.


I did Jacquie's trick of holding the pillow upside down while the bobbins 
untangle themselves and then carefully tipped it flat again.  Luckily there 
were no broken bobbins or threads.


Malvary in Ottawa where it is only -5c with windchill of -12c today. 


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Re: [lace] What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Clay Blackwell
I am s sorry to hear about your experience.  Look at it this way:  
once you have untangled the mess and finished the lace, it will 
represent even more than a memorial to your late husband.  It will also 
represent your ability to rise above the obstacles that you meet in a 
gracious and successful way - you are a true lady!


I, on the other hand, know that I would have responded differently.  I 
would have immediately gone over to the pillow and told the brat not to 
touch.  If her mother didn't get it, I would have stopped the girl and 
moved the pillow away from her.  I would have asked them both to leave 
if they couldn't respect the property of others.   And, in so doing, I 
would have given lacemakers a black eye, perhaps.


When I demo, if I take a nice project (and I have been known to do 
that), I put it on a display table slightly out of reach to the public, 
but within my own reach and eyesight (just so my bobbins don't become 
souvenirs!).


I was demonstrating once with a large pillow filled with beautiful 
bobbins (although the project was quite simple), and a woman came over 
with two brats who were eating dripping ice cream cones.  The little 
girl reached into my pillow with a grubby hand and tried to pick up a 
bobbin.  I caught her by the wrist (gently) and moved her hand away.  
She started screaming and throwing a tantrum, and her mother said, Oh 
why can't she have one?  You have so many!.  I asked the woman to 
please take the children out of the display area until they had finished 
their ice cream and had had a good wash of hands and face.  She looked 
stunned, but did as I asked and left.  They did not come back.


Clay

On 2/12/2011 5:12 AM, Carol wrote:

   As I said
- what woud you do?

Carol - in Suffolk UK
'Deliver us, Lord, from every evil, and grant us peace in our day.'





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[lace] Re: What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Susan Reishus
girl...about14/15 - had undone the elastic, and was fiddling with the bobbins. 
 
   I asked
her not to touch...took offence...the woman 'accidentally' knocked the pillow 
and
table, whereupon the pillow fell.  Carol in Suffolk

Here is where they say No good deed goes unpunished!  You bring something to 
benefit and share, and someone thinks of only themselves.

It reminds me of when taking a painting class, sometimes the instructor reaches 
in, sans permission, and adulterates the painting. Or someone invited for tea, 
thinks they can ask for (or take) a tour of your home. 


The world has changed, and entitlement seems to empower takers, taking a toll 
on 
givers.  I have learned to try to not offer up things that are more important 
to 
me than whom I am considering sharing them with, whether that is to not give a 
lace shawl to someone who may throw it in the washer, or think about the 
possibility of loss when things are on display.  (I worked in a store where the 
most beautiful needlework pieces, were often stolen.)

The best I have found, is to say a prayer about the situation and them 
(including yourself), and ask God to handle it.  Amazing things can result, but 
I pray that they create a new awareness about their effect on others.  I call 
it 
the save myself $2, even if ti ends up costing you $200 or $2000 mentality.  
You are either a part of the problem, or the solution, which many are never 
taught to think of.  You took care of your part in the situation, trying to 
benefit.

Then as I would unfurl every twist or knot, I would see it as a blessing of 
removing any negativity from myself, and as a blessing of the love between my 
husband and myself and that our legacy of love, lives on in the piece.  Just as 
your marriage and relationship always transformed negativity to love, so does 
it 
repeat itself in the actions of creating this beautiful piece of work.

Best blessings to you!
Susan Reishus

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Re: [lace] What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Nancy Neff
Now THAT is a hubby to treasure!!





From:
The Lace Bee thelace...@btinternet.com
To: lace@arachne.com; Carol
nestalace.ca...@btopenworld.com
Sent: Sat, February 12, 2011 8:09:38 AM
Subject: Re: [lace] What would YOU do?

 
BTW hubby has just come back and is
still muttering about 'don't they
understand the amount of work that goes into
it  '

Kind Regards

Liz Baker

thelace...@btinternet.com

My chronicle of
my bobbins can be found at my website:
http://thelacebee.weebly.com/


Here is
my husband's horrified reply to your question. 
 
Actually you'd do nothing
because you are too nice (believe me he's wrong - it
would have ended with
blood but ...).  You would not have said anything but I
would have.  I know
how much time and effort goes into your work and for them
to have done that
(and in muttering as he left room to get lunch .
muttering continues as he
comes back ) I'd have told them in no uncertain
terms  (muttering
continues as he goes out back door).
...

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Re: [lace] What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Dmt11home
Although I don't dispute that there are a lot of people out there that are  
so rude as to take your breath away, there are also people who are mentally 
ill,  autistic, or have attention deficit disorder. Sometimes the people 
who are  with them, rather than disclosing this information (and that can be 
risky if the  disabled person is prone to anger) try to cover for them. I 
have to wonder if  something like this is happening when the situation is that 
weird. And yes, what  can you do to protect yourself from these situations, 
except leave things  home.
 
Devon
who once visited a museum in Spain with someone who was having a  
schizophrenic break

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Re: [lace] What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Sue Duckles
Whereas when I asked my hubby the same question the answer was  
you'd have called them everything from a pig to a dog and told them  
how long it had taken you to get that far!!

If she had been a lacemaker she a. wouldn't have fiddled with it, and  
b. would have appreciated what she'd done!!

Sue in East Yorks
On 12 Feb 2011, at 13:09, The Lace Bee wrote:


 BTW hubby has just come back and is still muttering about 'don't they
 understand the amount of work that goes into it  '

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[lace] Re: What Would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Adele Shaak
Hi Everybody:

An elderly lacemaker told me this story back in 1981. She was interviewed by a 
reporter for a special interest article on her lacemaking and had her biggest 
work-in-progress on display, a Beds piece with hundreds of bobbins attached. 
The pillow had to be moved for a photo, and she insisted she move it herself, 
explaining it was trickier to move than it looked. But she was old and looked 
frail and when it came time to move it back, the nice young reporter leapt up 
and grabbed it to move it for her. And of course he dumped it on the floor.

Spurting apologies, he knelt down and quickly hauled it back up onto the table, 
tangling the bobbins even further. At which point the lacemaker spoke sharply 
to stop him, and then, so he would know exactly what kind of trouble he had 
caused, she made him sit down and watch as she fixed the entire pillow. I 
believe she said it took about two and a half hours.

I admit I would not have had the nerve to insist that he sit there for hours on 
end, but I admire her for doing it. 

Adele
North Vancouver, BC
(west coast of Canada)

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[lace] Finishing off traditionally and cutting yardage?

2011-02-12 Thread Lora
I'm sure someone far more knowledgeable than me will
Know what the traditional way of finishing off lace was. I'm only familiar with 
the fray check on braided or knotted pairs but surely there was a secure way of 
finishing before they came on the scene.

Also are there any special steps to cutting into a length of yardage? I have 
gathered quite alot and would like to trim some items but I'm terrified to cut 
for fear of it all unraveling!

What uses do you find for using trims Besides the usual?

Kindest regards,
L

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Re: [lace] What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Brenda Paternoster
Good for you!

Brenda

On 12 Feb 2011, at 14:51, Clay Blackwell wrote:

 I asked the woman to please take the children out of the display area until 
 they had finished their ice cream and had had a good wash of hands and face.

Brenda in Allhallows
www.brendapaternoster.co.uk

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Re: [lace] Finishing off traditionally and cutting yardage?

2011-02-12 Thread bev walker
Hello Lora and everyone

I use scissors to cut the yardage ;)
It doesn't unravel vigorously,  and you would be confining the cut end
within a stitched seam of some kind, yes?

If the trim is hanging below the fabric, I would turn the end of the
lace on itself, one or two pattern repeats, hand stitch the folded bit
in place.

On 2/12/11, Lora lorabutter...@btinternet.com wrote:

 Also are there any special steps to cutting into a length of yardage? I have
 gathered quite alot and would like to trim some items but I'm terrified to
 cut for fear of it all unraveling!

-- 
Bev in Shirley BC, near Sooke on beautiful Vancouver Island, west
coast of Canada

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RE: [lace] Finishing off traditionally and cutting yardage?

2011-02-12 Thread C Johnson
The message was:
I'm only familiar with the fray check on braided or knotted pairs but
surely there was a secure way of finishing before they came on the scene.

My comment is:
P l e a s e  do not use fray check for bobbin lace or tatted pieces.  In
my experience, it will yellow your threads in a short amount of time.


Susie Johnson
Morris, Illinois

Susie Johnson
Morris, IL

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Fw: [lace] What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Sue

I think you showed great restraint.
I think that to take beautiful lace for people to see and marvel at is good, 
but I think this particular piece is just too precious and priceless to be 
allowed near people without a real appreciation of the work skill and love 
that goes into that piece.
I hope it is coming right for you, I only had to do this once and through my 
own fault in not making sure the pillow was completely flat on the table 
before I let go, so I have some idea of what you have to do.
Good luck and please let us know when its all untangled and then maybe we 
can see a picture when its finished.

Sue T
Dorset UK


Hi All,
to me.I was very restrained, and polite, as I again told them it was a
special piece, being a chalice cover I was making in memory of my late
husband, but the lady took offence, as did the girl, and, as they turned
away
making impolite remarks, the woman 'accidentally' knocked the pillow and
table, whereupon the pillow fell.   The resulting tangle is what I am 
still

attempting to remedy.

In all the years I have demonstrated, I have never before had such an
experience!Which explains the subject line - I was (and still am )
horrified that anyone could do such a thing, and although it has never
happened before, it does make me wonder whether I will ever take pillows
with
complicated work, and many beautiful bobbins, to a display again.   As I
said
- what woud you do?

Carol - in Suffolk UK
'Deliver us, Lord, from every evil, and grant us peace in our day.'

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[lace] Show and Tell

2011-02-12 Thread Claire Allen
Hello out there in lace land. I did a Milanese workshop with Jenny Macpherson 
today to work her beautiful pendant design. One of my fellow students was the 
lovely Pat Read who taught me to make lace in the first place.

Anyway, I digress. I am so pleased with my lace that I thought I might share it 
with the world. If you are interested have a look here. 
http://bonitocraft.wordpress.com/ if not. Please feel free to ignore my 
ramblings.

Claire
Kent , UK


Claire Allen
www.bonitocrafts.co.uk
Crafty stuff I want to show off.

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Re: [lace] Finishing off traditionally and cutting yardage?

2011-02-12 Thread Laceandbits
Just cut it.  If it is cotton or linen it won't unravel any more than
bought cotton lace.  I assume if you are cutting it you are putting it into
seams.  If you are really worried, machine across the lace just inside the
seam
allowance where the stitches will be hidden.

Don't forget that lace can/will shrink so it's a good idea to preshrink
fabrics by washing them, and also shrink the lace by either washing and
mangling (see the archives for details), or at the very least steam pressing. 
This
will also help to 'set' the threads (just like Jello Malvary - private
joke).

Don't use fray check or similar as they go stiff and can discolour. 

If you are putting a ring of lace around the bottom or top of something and
you are cutting it from yardage, as distinct from making it exactly the
right size and doing sewings into the start, then you can sew a normal seam
across before trimming one seam allowance a little smaller and tucking the
ends
of the longer allowance over it before catching the fold down flat on the
wrong side (Google run and fell seam to get the equivalent in fabric). 

Or you can overlap the ends wrong side of one to the right side of the
other, matching the pattern exactly, before oversewing either side of a
pattern
row and cutting the surplus from front and back in a similar way to the
traditional Flanders or Binche join.  If you look in some old needlework books
it shows this sort of approach.

A very high proportion of old lace was made and cut off the pillow, without
disturbing the work in progress.  Why would you want to waste time keep
setting up the lace?

Jacquie in the UK

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Re: [lace] What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Lorelei Halley

Carol
I'd have been yelling and swearing and using all sorts of animal epithets on 
the two of them.  The kind of spite you describe is way beyond the category 
of normal behavior.  Possibly the real motive was envy.  They knew they 
couldn't match you so spite made them destroy something they couldn't equal.


Possibly it is a good idea not to take something so special as your chalice 
cover to a demonstration.  Non-lacemakers will be impressed even by a 12 
pair lace in torchon.  For reasons other than spiteful visitors (which you 
probably will not encounter again in your lifetime) it might be good to 
leave the really special ones home.  I remember doing an outdoor 
demonstration with my local guild many years ago.  When I got home I worked 
on the Cluny piece some more.  After I had 2 more repeats done I noticed 
that the lace I had just made was not the same color as what I had done 
during the outdoor demo.  The demo portion was definitely gray in color. 
Outdoor dust had blown onto my pillow and dirtied the lace.  There was a 
steady breeze than day, but not high winds.


The one time I had to untangle a mess that somebody else made of my pillow, 
it was my cat.  I had left the pillow on the top of a bookcase where my cats 
never went.  So I thought it was safe.  It was a Bucks point workshop piece 
that I was finishing up, and used lots of fragile Bucks bobbins with glass 
beads.  I came home from work and found it upside down on the floor, with a 
few broken bobbins and several broken beads.  And, of course, a huge tangle. 
I rounded the corner from the living room into the dinning room, saw the 
catastrophe, stopped dead in my tracks, and started yelling.  Since it was 
several hours since the disaster had happened, it was gone from their 
memories and they had no idea why I was yelling.  It took me 2-3 hours to 
untangle the mess, put the threads onto unbroken bobbins.  I can report that 
my cats remained unstrangled, but it was a near thing.


Lorelei 


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Re: [lace] Show and Tell

2011-02-12 Thread bev walker
Hello Claire and everyone

What a fine way to spend a Saturday :) Your Milanese pendant is
beautiful! I was a bit perplexed as to the size comparison, not having
a British ten-p coin handy and I went a-googling. The 10p coin is 24.5
mm in diameter, so just less than an inch. That is a dainty
jewel you have made, with a neat finish. Thank you for sharing!

On 2/12/11, Claire Allen cla...@bonitocrafts.co.uk wrote:

 http://bonitocraft.wordpress.com/

-- 
Bev on a *very rainy* Saturday in Shirley BC, near Sooke on beautiful
Vancouver Island, west coast of Canada (hunkering down, at my lace
pillow: a Torchon bookmark, of honey coloured silk)

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Re: [lace] RE: What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Cherry Knobloch

I'm not sure what I would have done, but.

As an adult with Attention Deficit Disorder, and a parent of 3 children 
with ADD,  I must point out that ADD is not an excuse for bad behavior. Nor 
can it be considered a mental illness. Sometimes people will have other 
issues and ADD.


One of the criteria looked at in the diagnosis is how many projects a 
person starts and doesn't complete!



With many projects in the works,

Cherry Knobloch
Chesapeake, Va USA

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Re: [lace] RE: What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Clay Blackwell

Thank you, Cherry!

As a (former) Mental Health Therapist, I emphasized that with my 
patients.  To do otherwise is an disservice to them.  I also worked for 
quite a few years with persons with developmental disabilities, and only 
the most profoundly affected individuals were unable to understand 
rules.  The caretakers (often parents)  of persons who have 
debilitating conditions are usually well-trained in the methods used to 
modify and control behavior in public situations.


For that reason, my conclusion is that the mother of the child who knew 
no boundaries was also a person who knew no boundaries, and she 
completely lacked the ability to recognize the needs of anyone beyond 
herself and her mini-me.  While she may have serious social issues, 
she does not need the sympathy of the rest of us who are at her mercy.  
It is only when the consequences for her behavior become intolerable 
will she seek a way to improve her situation.


Ok...  hopping off my soap box now.  Back to making Lace!!!

Clay

Clay Blackwell
Lynchburg, VA  USA



On 2/12/2011 5:05 PM, Cherry Knobloch wrote:

I'm not sure what I would have done, but.

As an adult with Attention Deficit Disorder, and a parent of 3 
children with ADD,  I must point out that ADD is not an excuse for bad 
behavior. Nor can it be considered a mental illness. Sometimes people 
will have other issues and ADD.


One of the criteria looked at in the diagnosis is how many projects a 
person starts and doesn't complete!



With many projects in the works,

Cherry Knobloch
Chesapeake, Va USA

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Re: [lace] What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread vilan...@austin.rr.com
Lord, what a pair!   People are just getting more and more spoiled, and 
typically, the adults are more badly spoiled than the kids!


Yours,
Villandra Thorsdottir
Austin, Texas

- Original Message - 
From: Carol nestalace.ca...@btopenworld.com

To: lace@arachne.com
Sent: Saturday, February 12, 2011 4:12 AM
Subject: [lace] What would YOU do?



Hi All,

I am just looking at the lace pillow I spent all yesterday 
afternoon/evening

attempting to untangle - I haven't touched it for several months since the
'accident' happened., but will have to sit and work at it again today, and
until it is OK again.

To explain.I was demonstrating with several 'Have-a-Go' pillows, and
others on display, and with this one displayed, but with elastic across 
the
bobbins, so that it couldn't be disturbed.   However, I was sitting with 
one
little girl, with the snake, when I noticed that another girl - probably 
about
14/15 - had undone the elastic, and was fiddling with the bobbins. I 
asked
her not to touch, when the accompanying lady told me that the girl was 
very
accomplished, had won prizes at school for handwork, and could only help 
me to
finish the lace.   I again asked her not to touch it, as it was quite 
special

to me.I was very restrained, and polite, as I again told them it was a
special piece, being a chalice cover I was making in memory of my late
husband, but the lady took offence, as did the girl, and, as they turned 
away

making impolite remarks, the woman 'accidentally' knocked the pillow and
table, whereupon the pillow fell.   The resulting tangle is what I am 
still

attempting to remedy.

In all the years I have demonstrated, I have never before had such an
experience!Which explains the subject line - I was (and still am )
horrified that anyone could do such a thing, and although it has never
happened before, it does make me wonder whether I will ever take pillows 
with
complicated work, and many beautiful bobbins, to a display again.   As I 
said

- what woud you do?

Carol - in Suffolk UK
'Deliver us, Lord, from every evil, and grant us peace in our day.'

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[lace] bobbins

2011-02-12 Thread Elizabeth Ligeti
Thank you, Brian, for posting that Ebay number for the Abbott bobbins,. As
soon as I saw them I realized I had a similar one, - had a look for it, -
and Yes! I have one!!  So now I can add the makers name to it!! It is fairly
slim, and I see I have spangled it, so it came down from Grandma without its
original spangle. - Nevertheless, it works well!! - as do most of my old
bobbins.  I have one bone bobbin put away in the safe, as it has a damaged
head which snags threads,  but I use all the others.

 

 

On another question, - I have the Digest form of Lace, and I have started
getting messages (in this digest - 2 messages) that are total gobbledygook -
from

 helene3...@yahoo.com
Subject: [lace] OMG! did you block me on Yahoo?

 

Are others getting it like this too?   They scroll down quite a way, so take
up a lot of the digest. 

 

Regards from Liz in Melbourne, Oz

lizl...@bigpond.com

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Re: [lace] bobbins

2011-02-12 Thread bertrans1
Yes, this is the second time this has happened.  Maybe, there is somerthing 
wrong with her e-mail server.
Sallie
--Original Message--
From: Elizabeth Ligeti
Sender: owner-l...@arachne.com
To: arachne lacing
ReplyTo: Elizabeth Ligeti
Subject: [lace] bobbins
Sent: Feb 12, 2011 17:55

Thank you, Brian, for posting that Ebay number for the Abbott bobbins,. As
soon as I saw them I realized I had a similar one, - had a look for it, -
and Yes! I have one!!  So now I can add the makers name to it!! It is fairly
slim, and I see I have spangled it, so it came down from Grandma without its
original spangle. - Nevertheless, it works well!! - as do most of my old
bobbins.  I have one bone bobbin put away in the safe, as it has a damaged
head which snags threads,  but I use all the others.

 

 

On another question, - I have the Digest form of Lace, and I have started
getting messages (in this digest - 2 messages) that are total gobbledygook -
from

 helene3...@yahoo.com
Subject: [lace] OMG! did you block me on Yahoo?

 

Are others getting it like this too?   They scroll down quite a way, so take
up a lot of the digest. 

 

Regards from Liz in Melbourne, Oz

lizl...@bigpond.com

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Re: [lace] Finishing off traditionally and cutting yardage?

2011-02-12 Thread The Lace Bee
I have a piece of lace on my travel pillow that every few metres I have cut
and given away.
 
As the others have said, I allow extra in the length for shrinkage and always
roll it up and tack it then gentle wet, wash and dry so it shrinks.  I also
pre wash the material it's going with to make sure neither is going to shrink
and the lace pucker.
 
If the piece is being put into a seam (so the ends are invisible) then I would
and have finished the end off with super glue (cheaper than fray check) so
it's secure whilst I sew it in.  And, standard super glue fails under heat and
water so it will disappear in the first wash.
 
If I want to join the ends then I would be tempted to actually make the piece
from scratch rather than cut a lenght from an ongoing piece.  Then I could
make a sewing join from the end to the beginning.
 
On my first piece of lace the teacher told me to cut the bobbins off after I
sewed and knotted each pair about 3 inches from the knots.  Then to roll the
dangly bits of thread together and over sew them.
 
I'd spent months making a beautiful piece of extremely find torchon only to
completely ruin it in the finish.
 
These days I do an invisible join - I make a sewing back into the first pin
hole, cut the threads to about 5 inches then with a needle take each thread
and sewing into the actual lace.  It really does work and give a beautiful
invisible join.
 
L

Kind Regards

Liz Baker

thelace...@btinternet.com

My chronicle of my bobbins can be found at my website:
http://thelacebee.weebly.com/

--- On Sat, 12/2/11, Lora lorabutter...@btinternet.com wrote:


From: Lora lorabutter...@btinternet.com
Subject: [lace] Finishing off traditionally and cutting yardage?
To: lace@arachne.com
Date: Saturday, 12 February, 2011, 19:48


I'm sure someone far more knowledgeable than me will
Know what the traditional way of finishing off lace was. I'm only familiar
with the fray check on braided or knotted pairs but surely there was a secure
way of finishing before they came on the scene.

Also are there any special steps to cutting into a length of yardage? I have
gathered quite alot and would like to trim some items but I'm terrified to cut
for fear of it all unraveling!

What uses do you find for using trims Besides the usual?

Kindest regards,
L

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Re: [lace] bobbins/weird message

2011-02-12 Thread bev walker
Hi everyone - not about bobbins, but the weird message is spam of some
kind. Delete it.
A shame it has to clutter the digests though :(

On 2/12/11, bertra...@gmail.com bertra...@gmail.com wrote:
 Yes, this is the second time this has happened. ...

  On another question, - I have the Digest form of Lace, and I have started
  getting messages (in this digest - 2 messages) that are total gobbledygook -

-- 
Bev in Shirley BC, near Sooke on beautiful Vancouver Island, west
coast of Canada

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[lace] What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Elizabeth Ligeti
You said, in the original message, that the lady said the girl did a lot of
handcrafts -

Well, I wonder about that!  If she had done so much, she should have known
that things take a lot of time to finish, and therefore should have been
even more aware of the fine work you were doing on the pillow.

 

That makes the whole thing even Worse, to my mind.  If she never did any
handcrafts, then perhaps there was an excuse for fiddling with the pretty
bobbins, - but if she was as knowledgeable as the lady with her said, - then
even more reason that she should have known better.

 

I do hope you have got it sorted out now, but that will cast a bit of a
shadow over the whole piece. I am so sorry.

 

That Milanese pendant is beautiful. Well done.

 

Regards from Liz in Melbourne, Oz.

lizl...@bigpond.com

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[lace] Individual help required by Brian

2011-02-12 Thread Brian Lemin
I am going through a bad time realizing how much I do not know and how
handicapped I am by not being a lace maker :(

I have a special area of need that for a few reasons I am troubled about.  It
is probably best if a knowledgeable person and patient (very!) person who
thinks that they can talk to me in idiot language, emails me personally.

I need to get clear in my mind the historical use of (in simple, general
terms) the following types of bobbins.

I will need to know their use in geographical areas of England  (Devon to east
Midland) of the following types of bobbins ( I emphasize in general as I am
sure I am asking a huge question)

1. Trailer  and or trolly bobbins (Probably the the same)
2. Gimp bobbins
3. Tally bobbins

and any other special bobbins on or near the pillow!.  It might involve the
type of lace even... who knows?

I do know about quills and Yaks. (that at least is something!) Also you can
assume that I know how to recognize these bobbins  (I.e. 1,2,3) as a
collector.

Your very confused bobbin friend.

Brian












Brian and Jean
From Cooranbong. Australia
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[lace] Spanier arbeit

2011-02-12 Thread Avital
Dear spiders,

I received an email from someone in NY who wanted to know whether I
knew of anyone who makes Spanier arbeit today. Here's an article, if
you're not sure what it is:

http://www.thejewishpress.com/printArticle.cfm?contentid=17496

The person who emailed me contacted David Farkas, mentioned in the
article, but he wasn't interested in helping him. I was approached
because he found this photo I took in the Israel Museum:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/spindexr/5076972597/in/photostream/

Best wishes,

Avital

-- 

Blog: http://apinnick.wordpress.com
Photos: http://www.flickr.com/photos/spindexr

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RE: [lace] RE: What would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Jenny Brandis
...One of the criteria looked at in the diagnosis is how many projects a 
person starts and doesn't complete!

Cherry Knobloch


Oh dear, this just confirms my suspicions - I have ADD but definitely NOT
ADHD :-) Actually my daughter and 4 of my grandchildren have been diagnosed
with ADD and I fear it stems from both my DH and I having mild doses that
double whammies the descendants. 

Jenny Brandis
Kununurra, Western Australia

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RE: [lace] What Would YOU do?

2011-02-12 Thread Jenny Brandis
-Original Message-
From: On Behalf Of Adele Shaak

 she made him sit down and watch as she fixed the entire pillow. I
believe she said it took about two and a half hours

I love it !

Jenny Brandis
Kununurra, Western Australia

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Re: [lace] bobbins

2011-02-12 Thread Diana Smith

Yes I've received two as well.

Diana in Northants

- Original Message - 
From: Elizabeth Ligeti lizl...@bigpond.com

To: lace@arachne.com
Sent: Saturday, February 12, 2011 11:55 PM
Subject: [lace] bobbins



Thank you, Brian, for posting that Ebay number for the Abbott bobbins,. As
soon as I saw them I realized I had a similar one, - had a look for it, -
and Yes! I have one!!  So now I can add the makers name to it!! It is 
fairly
slim, and I see I have spangled it, so it came down from Grandma without 
its

original spangle. - Nevertheless, it works well!! - as do most of my old
bobbins.  I have one bone bobbin put away in the safe, as it has a damaged
head which snags threads,  but I use all the others.





On another question, - I have the Digest form of Lace, and I have started
getting messages (in this digest - 2 messages) that are total 
gobbledygook -

from

helene3...@yahoo.com
Subject: [lace] OMG! did you block me on Yahoo?



Are others getting it like this too?   They scroll down quite a way, so 
take

up a lot of the digest.



Regards from Liz in Melbourne, Oz

lizl...@bigpond.com

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