Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-15 Thread James King
Paul, I’m so sorry to read that Marlene has finally passed. Please accept my 
sympathy for you and your family during this difficult time.

At least she departed in the way she wanted, with her family and in the embrace 
of hospice care.

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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-12 Thread Steve Cottrell
On 12/11/15, Larry Colen, discombobulated, unleashed:

>I am terribly saddened for your loss. I know that right now there are 
>many things that you need to do to take care of business, to support and 
>care for Grace, as well as the rest of your family. But, please, do not 
>forget to take care of yourself, to acknowledge when you need help, and 
>to ask your friends and family in those times.

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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-12 Thread Larry Colen

Paul,
I am terribly saddened for your loss. I know that right now there are 
many things that you need to do to take care of business, to support and 
care for Grace, as well as the rest of your family. But, please, do not 
forget to take care of yourself, to acknowledge when you need help, and 
to ask your friends and family in those times.


paul stenquist wrote:

As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my inspiration 
and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep thinking I 
have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. Her passing 
was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally grateful. 
Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. The hospice 
nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last days. I can’t 
thank them enough.

This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
over with life.
http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg

Paul


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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-12 Thread Stanley Halpin
Very sorry to hear this Paul. My thoughts are with you as you and the rest of 
your family work to come to terms with her absence.

Stan

> On Nov 11, 2015, at 8:35 PM, paul stenquist  wrote:
> 
> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
> home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep 
> thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. 
> Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally 
> grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. 
> The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last 
> days. I can’t thank them enough.
> 
> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
> over with life.
> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
> 
> Paul



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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-12 Thread John

On 11/11/2015 8:35 PM, paul stenquist wrote:

As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my inspiration 
and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep thinking I 
have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. Her passing 
was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally grateful. 
Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. The hospice 
nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last days. I can’t 
thank them enough.

This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
over with life.
http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg

Paul



Paul,

I grieve for you and your family. No words are adequate at this time, 
but I hope you will find comfort that she is at peace and has surcease 
from pain.



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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-12 Thread Eric Weir

> On Nov 11, 2015, at 8:35 PM, paul stenquist  wrote:
> 
> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
> home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep 
> thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. 
> Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally 
> grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. 
> The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last 
> days. I can’t thank them enough.
> 
> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
> over with life.
> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg

Sorry for your loss, Paul. You are fortunate to have been loved by and to have 
loved such a lovely woman.

At the risk of sounding glib at such a moment a few phrases from a Facebook 
post a couple days ago that struck me as right about grief: 

"My scars are a testament to the love and the relationship that I had for and 
with that person. And if the scar is deep, so was the loveScars are a 
testament that I can love deeply and live deeply and be cut, or even gouged, 
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RE: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-12 Thread John Coyle

 Paul - I am so sorry to hear that Marlene has gone.  You must feel bereft 
after being together for so many years: please accept my sincere condolences.
How is Gracie? I'm sure she feels the loss severely too.

John  (currently in the UK, facing a similar situation)


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My Wife, Marlene


As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can't believe she's gone. I keep 
thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she's no longer here. 
Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally 
grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. 
The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those 
last days. I can't thank them enough.

This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just 
bubbling over with life.
http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg

Paul
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-12 Thread David J Brooks
So sorry to hear Paul, a wonderful photo to remember her by

Dave

On Wed, Nov 11, 2015 at 8:35 PM, paul stenquist  wrote:
> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
> home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep 
> thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. 
> Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally 
> grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. 
> The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last 
> days. I can’t thank them enough.
>
> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
> over with life.
> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
>
> Paul
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-12 Thread Christine Aguila
Hi Paul:

I am so very sorry for your loss.  The photo is lovely, and from it one can 
tell Marlene had a lovely spirit!  I’m glad the end was peaceful and painless.

Darrel and I send our heartfelt condolences and have you in our thoughts.

With sympathy, Christine & Darrel


> On Nov 11, 2015, at 7:35 PM, paul stenquist  wrote:
> 
> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
> home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep 
> thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. 
> Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally 
> grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. 
> The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last 
> days. I can’t thank them enough.
> 
> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
> over with life.
> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
> 
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-12 Thread Mark Roberts
My condolences, Paul.
Hope you're (relatively) OK.
 
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-12 Thread Bruce Walker
Paul, I was saddened to hear of this. I hope that you can take solace
in the fact of your wife's untroubled release.

On Wed, Nov 11, 2015 at 8:35 PM, paul stenquist  wrote:
> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
> home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep 
> thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. 
> Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally 
> grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. 
> The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last 
> days. I can’t thank them enough.
>
> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
> over with life.
> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
>
> Paul
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-12 Thread Carlos R.
My deepest condolences, Paul. I am out of words to express my feelings, 
but my thoughts are with you and your family.


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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-12 Thread Toine
So sorry to hear this. My condolences to you and your family.

Toine

On 12 November 2015 at 08:38, Malcolm Smith  wrote:
> paul stenquist wrote:
>
>> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in
>> our home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my
>> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I
>> keep thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no
>> longer here. Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for
>> that I am eternally grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer
>> Center and Angela Hospice. The hospice nurses were constantly available
>> and at my side during those last days. I can’t thank them enough.
>>
>> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just
>> bubbling over with life.
>> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
>
> No words can convey how sad I am to hear of your loss.
>
> Beautiful photograph.
>
> Malcolm
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My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-12 Thread Bipin Gupta
It was a blessing Paul that pretty Marlene was with you for 45 beautiful years.
And that she left for her heavenly abode peacefully is God's blessing
and your good deeds.

We pray that the Lord give you strength to bear the great loss and to
help you fill the
emptiness in your life.

May the Force be with you.
Bipin
camp: Bangalore, India.

PS: That photo of Marlene was pretty endearing. What a wonderful angelic face.

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RE: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Malcolm Smith
paul stenquist wrote:

> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in
> our home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my
> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I
> keep thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no
> longer here. Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for
> that I am eternally grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer
> Center and Angela Hospice. The hospice nurses were constantly available
> and at my side during those last days. I can’t thank them enough.
> 
> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just
> bubbling over with life.
> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg

No words can convey how sad I am to hear of your loss.

Beautiful photograph.

Malcolm


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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread WILSON MICHAEL
My deepest sympathies.  I hope you are able to concentrate on the good times.

> On 12 November 2015 at 01:35 paul stenquist  wrote:
> 
> 
> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our
> home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my
> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep
> thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here.
> Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally
> grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice.
> The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last
> days. I can’t thank them enough.
> 
> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling
> over with life.
> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
> 
> Paul
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Paul

Paul -

Words seem so inadequate at a time like this - please accept my deepest 
condolences.


-p

On 11/11/2015 7:35 PM, paul stenquist wrote:

As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my inspiration 
and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep thinking I 
have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. Her passing 
was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally grateful. 
Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. The hospice 
nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last days. I can’t 
thank them enough.

This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
over with life.
http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg

Paul



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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Dario Bonazza
I know how it feels. My deepest condolences to you and your lovely family, 
dear friend.

Dario

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From: paul stenquist

Sent: Thursday, November 12, 2015 2:35 AM
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Subject: My Wife, Marlene

As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep 
thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. 
Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally 
grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. 
The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those 
last days. I can’t thank them enough.


This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just 
bubbling over with life.

http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg

Paul
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Bulent Celasun
Paul,

I am sorry...
I must say, watching her photo made me feel more strongly about your loss.
I don't know if stressing the fact that
"she was not alone" in her last minutes may ease your pain a bit.

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2015-11-12 3:35 GMT+02:00 paul stenquist :
> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
> home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep 
> thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. 
> Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally 
> grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. 
> The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last 
> days. I can’t thank them enough.
>
> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
> over with life.
> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
>
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Daniel J. Matyola
My heart goes out to you and your family, Paul.

She has found her peace.

Be happy for the time you had together and that you could be there for
her when she needed you.

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On Wed, Nov 11, 2015 at 8:35 PM, paul stenquist  wrote:
> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
> home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep 
> thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. 
> Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally 
> grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. 
> The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last 
> days. I can’t thank them enough.
>
> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
> over with life.
> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
>
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Ken Waller

Paul, so sorry to hear of your loss.

Words are inadequate at time like this.



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From: "paul stenquist" 

Subject: My Wife, Marlene


As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in 
our home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I 
keep thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer 
here. Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am 
eternally grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and 
Angela Hospice. The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my 
side during those last days. I can’t thank them enough.


This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just 
bubbling over with life.

http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg

Paul



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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Brian Walters
Paul

I'm so very sorry to hear this.  My very sincere condolences.

That's a lovely photo and one you will undoubtedly treasure always.

My best wishes to you and your family


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On Thu, Nov 12, 2015, at 12:35 PM, paul stenquist wrote:
> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in
> our home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my
> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I
> keep thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no
> longer here. Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for
> that I am eternally grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer
> Center and Angela Hospice. The hospice nurses were constantly available
> and at my side during those last days. I can’t thank them enough.
> 
> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just
> bubbling over with life.
> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
> 
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Godfrey DiGiorgi
Paul, 

My condolences on your loss. 

A lovely photo, and a wonderful remembrance for her eternity in your memory. 
With loving thoughts, these our family stay with us all the rest of our days. 
And beyond.

Godfrey


Only in silence the word, 
Only in dark the light, 
Only in dying, life;
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> On Nov 11, 2015, at 5:35 PM, paul stenquist  wrote:
> 
> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
> home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep 
> thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. 
> Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally 
> grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. 
> The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last 
> days. I can’t thank them enough.
> 
> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
> over with life.
> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
> 
> Paul


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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Boris Liberman

Paul,

I am so sorry about your loss. Please accept my most heartfelt 
condolences. I wish I had more words, but I have none. As you know, I 
have experienced a loss myself, quite recently. So, the wound is still 
very much burning. This year hasn't been a good year at all...


Boris


On 11/12/2015 3:35, paul stenquist wrote:

As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my inspiration 
and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep thinking I 
have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. Her passing 
was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally grateful. 
Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. The hospice 
nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last days. I can’t 
thank them enough.

This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
over with life.
http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg

Paul



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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread P.J. Alling

I'm so sorry Paul.  I wish there was more that I could say.

On 11/11/2015 8:35 PM, paul stenquist wrote:

As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my inspiration 
and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep thinking I 
have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. Her passing 
was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally grateful. 
Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. The hospice 
nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last days. I can’t 
thank them enough.

This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
over with life.
http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg

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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Alan C
Such sad news, Paul. Sincere condolences to you and yours. Peace to you all 
at this difficult time.


Alan C

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Subject: My Wife, Marlene

As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep 
thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. 
Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally 
grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. 
The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those 
last days. I can’t thank them enough.


This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just 
bubbling over with life.

http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg

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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread steve harley
i haven't said much as you've shared your journey with Marlene, but i have 
experiences that helped me empathize along the way, and now


i am glad to hear that she was able to be at home; it is both courageous and 
sweet of you to share that beautiful photo



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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Igor PDML-StR


Paul,

My deepest condolences to you and your family!

That photo is a great memory of Marlene. It is emanating bright light.
Thank you for sharing it.

Igor





On Wed, Nov 11, 2015 at 7:35 PM, paul stenquist wrote:


As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our
home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my
inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can.t believe she.s gone. I keep
thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she.s no longer here.
Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally
grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice.
The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last
days. I can.t thank them enough.

This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just 

bubbling

over with life.
http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg

Paul


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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Paul Stenquist
Thanks To all.

Paul via phone

> On Nov 11, 2015, at 10:47 PM, Mark C  wrote:
> 
> I am so sorry to hear this, Paul. My deepest condolences to you and your 
> family.
> 
> Mark
> 
>> On 11/11/2015 8:35 PM, paul stenquist wrote:
>> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
>> home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
>> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep 
>> thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. 
>> Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally 
>> grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. 
>> The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those 
>> last days. I can’t thank them enough.
>> 
>> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just 
>> bubbling over with life.
>> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
>> 
>> Paul
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Paul Stenquist
Thanks pal.

Paul via phone

> On Nov 11, 2015, at 10:39 PM, knarf  wrote:
> 
> That photo made me cry, Paul. Such a beautiful keepsake.
> 
> My deepest condolences to you, Gracie and the rest of your family. I'm so 
> sorry...
> 
> Regards,
> 
> frank
> 
>> On November 11, 2015 8:35:58 PM EST, paul stenquist 
>>  wrote:
>> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in
>> our home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my
>> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I
>> keep thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no
>> longer here. Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for
>> that I am eternally grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer
>> Center and Angela Hospice. The hospice nurses were constantly available
>> and at my side during those last days. I can’t thank them enough.
>> 
>> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just
>> bubbling over with life.
>> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
>> 
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Mark C
I am so sorry to hear this, Paul. My deepest condolences to you and your 
family.


Mark

On 11/11/2015 8:35 PM, paul stenquist wrote:

As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my inspiration 
and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep thinking I 
have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. Her passing 
was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally grateful. 
Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. The hospice 
nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last days. I can’t 
thank them enough.

This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
over with life.
http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg

Paul



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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread knarf
That photo made me cry, Paul. Such a beautiful keepsake.

My deepest condolences to you, Gracie and the rest of your family. I'm so 
sorry...

Regards,

frank

On November 11, 2015 8:35:58 PM EST, paul stenquist  
wrote:
>As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in
>our home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my
>inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I
>keep thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no
>longer here. Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for
>that I am eternally grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer
>Center and Angela Hospice. The hospice nurses were constantly available
>and at my side during those last days. I can’t thank them enough.
>
>This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just
>bubbling over with life.
>http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
>
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Darren Addy
Paul, please accept my sincere condolences.

I speak from some experience when I say that there are some holes in
our hearts that can never be fully healed, but we can celebrate the
chapters of our lives that were written alongside them and, in the
wake of their loss, turn our attention to the generations of our
family that will be writing the chapters to follow ours. Celebrate the
memories of the good times and please take some solace from knowing
that you were there for her through to the end. That is True Love.

It is also wonderful that you could make it possible for her to avoid
the impersonal setting of a hospital for her final days and weeks.
That is no small accomplishment. I feel confident in speaking for most
here, that we feel honored that you have shared what you have with us,
and we hope we can, in some small (and inadequate) way, share with you
in bearing the immense burden of your grief.

Respectfully,
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread ann sanfedele
Paul - I wondered if you would have wanted me to tell the list, as I 
knew sooner being on facebook but thought perhaps not and never

got around to asking you..

But wanted to share with the list that I had been lucky enough to meet 
her twice... what a sweet woman and fabulous hostessand cook.


Love this photo of her.. So glad you had home hospice - hospice staffers 
are simply the best.. they became like friends to me

when Richard was leaving and helped so much in getting through it all.

ann

On 11/11/2015 8:35 PM, paul stenquist wrote:

As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my inspiration 
and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep thinking I 
have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. Her passing 
was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally grateful. 
Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. The hospice 
nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last days. I can’t 
thank them enough.

This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
over with life.
http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg

Paul



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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Jack Davis
Can't adequately express my sincere
sorrow, Paul.

J



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> On Nov 11, 2015, at 5:49 PM, Marco Alpert  wrote:
> 
> Paul,
> 
> I'm so very, very sorry.
> 
> m
> 
>> On Nov 11, 2015, at 5:35 PM, paul stenquist wrote:
>> 
>> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
>> home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
>> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep 
>> thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. 
>> Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally 
>> grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. 
>> The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those 
>> last days. I can’t thank them enough.
>> 
>> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just 
>> bubbling over with life.
>> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
>> 
>> Paul
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Yolanda Rowe
Paul, my heartfelt sympathy go out to you and your family. Rest in
peace, Marlene.

Yolanda

On Wed, Nov 11, 2015 at 7:35 PM, paul stenquist  wrote:
> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
> home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep 
> thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. 
> Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally 
> grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. 
> The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last 
> days. I can’t thank them enough.
>
> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
> over with life.
> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
>
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread Marco Alpert
Paul,

I'm so very, very sorry.

m

On Nov 11, 2015, at 5:35 PM, paul stenquist wrote:

> As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
> home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my 
> inspiration and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep 
> thinking I have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. 
> Her passing was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally 
> grateful. Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. 
> The hospice nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last 
> days. I can’t thank them enough.
> 
> This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
> over with life.
> http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg
> 
> Paul


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My Wife, Marlene

2015-11-11 Thread paul stenquist
As many of you know, my wife, Marlene, succumbed to cancer yesterday in our 
home, without the angst of a hostpital environment. She has been my inspiration 
and partner for 45 years, and I can’t believe she’s gone. I keep thinking I 
have to go check on her, but then remember she’s no longer here. Her passing 
was peaceful and apparently painless and for that I am eternally grateful. 
Kudos to the doctors at Karmanos Cancer Center and Angela Hospice. The hospice 
nurses were constantly available and at my side during those last days. I can’t 
thank them enough.

This is my favorite photo of her. She was 23 years old here and just bubbling 
over with life.
http://photo.net/photodb/photo?photo_id=17112934&size=lg

Paul
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RE: Marlene

2015-10-30 Thread John Coyle
Thinking of you Paul - sometimes that course is the only way to go.


John in Brisbane



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Sent: Friday, 30 October 2015 13:04
To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List 
Subject: Marlene

Marlene doesn't want me to discuss her condition, and I find myself reaching 
out on other topics,
which feels heartless, but deflecting may well be worse.

A peaceful and painless conclusion is now the goal.. I've pretty much known 
this was inevitable
since Dr. Kim, the surgeon, met with me outside the OR, 13 months ago. After 
six hours in surgery he
looked defeated. "I wish I had gotten to this years ago," he said. "Is there 
hope? I asked. There is
always hope," he said, head hanging. 

Today,Marlene's best friend drove up from Chicago and they laughed and even 
danced a little. (She
was with Marlene when we met at a bar in February 1971.) A rare good day, but 
all we can
realistically do now is wait and hug and whisper words of love.

Did I tell you I deeply resent the ads from a cancer hospital that suggest 
they're beating the
disease? They're not. It's a blatant lie aimed at getting more Medicare and 
insurance dollars. Fuck
them.

Paul via phone
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Re: Marlene

2015-10-30 Thread John
I hope that she will have peace & surcease from pain. I hope that you 
will find them as well.


On 10/29/2015 11:39 PM, Paul Stenquist wrote:

Marlene doesn't want me to discuss her condition, and I find myself reaching 
out on other topics, which feels heartless, but honesty may well be worse.

A peaceful and painless conclusion is now the goal.. I've pretty much known this was inevitable 
since Dr. Kim, the surgeon, met with me outside the OR, 13 months ago. After six hours in surgery 
he looked defeated. "I wish I had gotten to this years ago," he said. "Is there 
hope? I asked. There is always hope," he said, head hanging.

Today,Marlene's best friend drove up from Chicago and they laughed and even 
danced a little. (She was with Marlene when we met at a bar in February 1971.) 
A rare good day, but all we can realistically do now is wait and hug and 
whisper words of love.

Did I tell you I deeply resent the ads from a cancer hospital that suggest 
they're beating the disease? They're not. It's a blatant lie aimed at getting 
more Medicare and insurance dollars. Fuck them.

Paul via phone
Paul via phone

Paul via phone



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Re: Marlene

2015-10-30 Thread David J Brooks
Very sorry to here this paul

Dave

On Thu, Oct 29, 2015 at 11:03 PM, Paul Stenquist
 wrote:
> Marlene doesn't want me to discuss her condition, and I find myself reaching 
> out on other topics, which feels heartless, but deflecting may well be worse.
>
> A peaceful and painless conclusion is now the goal.. I've pretty much known 
> this was inevitable since Dr. Kim, the surgeon, met with me outside the OR, 
> 13 months ago. After six hours in surgery he looked defeated. "I wish I had 
> gotten to this years ago," he said. "Is there hope? I asked. There is always 
> hope," he said, head hanging.
>
> Today,Marlene's best friend drove up from Chicago and they laughed and even 
> danced a little. (She was with Marlene when we met at a bar in February 
> 1971.) A rare good day, but all we can realistically do now is wait and hug 
> and whisper words of love.
>
> Did I tell you I deeply resent the ads from a cancer hospital that suggest 
> they're beating the disease? They're not. It's a blatant lie aimed at getting 
> more Medicare and insurance dollars. Fuck them.
>
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Re: Marlene

2015-10-30 Thread Daniel J. Matyola
I'm saddened to hear of Marlene's present condition, and I hope and
pray that she achieves the peaceful and painless conclusion that is
her goal and yours.  Continue to be strong for her and for the family.

I have gone through similar trials over the past 12 years with first
my father, then my mother, then my mother in law and then my younger
sister.  As my mother used to say "life is not for sissies."

I agree with your comments on cancer ads.  We have a very long way to
go.  A friend of mine from our local Rotary Club lost her 16 year old
daughter to pediatric brain cancer a decade ago.  She and her husband
started a foundation, which supports cancer research at Columbia
Presbyterian in NYC.  At the annual fundraising gala a few weeks ago,
the head of the research team reported that they have made significant
progress in the last year towards developing a vaccine for that
particular kind of cancer, but is will be years yet before they will
know how effective it might be.

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On Fri, Oct 30, 2015 at 7:15 AM, Paul Stenquist  wrote:
> Marlene is very private, do Im loathe to discuss her condition, but I find 
> myself mentioning her battle when I'm speaking on other topics, and that 
> feels heartless.  Perhaps  honesty is better.
>
> A peaceful and painless conclusion is now the goal.. I've pretty much known 
> this was inevitable since Dr. Kim, the surgeon, met with me outside the OR, 
> 13 months ago. After six hours in surgery he looked defeated. "I wish I had 
> gotten to this years ago," he said. "Is there hope? I asked. There is always 
> hope," he said, head hanging.
>
> Today, Marlene's best friend drove up from Chicago. Marlene got out of bed 
> for several hours, and they laughed and even danced a little. (She was with 
> Marlene when we met at a bar in February 1971.) A rare good day, but 
> rewarding for all. But it remains that all we can realistically do now is 
> wait and hug and whisper words of love.
>
> Did I tell you I deeply resent the ads from a cancer hospital that suggest 
> they're beating the disease? They're not. It's a blatant lie aimed at getting 
> more Medicare and insurance dollars. Fuck them.
>
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Re: Marlene

2015-10-30 Thread Eric Weir
Thanks for letting us know, Paul. Sorry that you—both of you—have to go through 
this. It sounds like you’re making good use of the time you have. Again, 
you—both of you—will remain in the thoughts of many. Certainly many here.

Eric 

> On Oct 30, 2015, at 7:15 AM, Paul Stenquist  wrote:
> 
> Marlene is very private, do Im loathe to discuss her condition, but I find 
> myself mentioning her battle when I'm speaking on other topics, and that 
> feels heartless.  Perhaps  honesty is better.
> 
> A peaceful and painless conclusion is now the goal.. I've pretty much known 
> this was inevitable since Dr. Kim, the surgeon, met with me outside the OR, 
> 13 months ago. After six hours in surgery he looked defeated. "I wish I had 
> gotten to this years ago," he said. "Is there hope? I asked. There is always 
> hope," he said, head hanging. 
> 
> Today, Marlene's best friend drove up from Chicago. Marlene got out of bed 
> for several hours, and they laughed and even danced a little. (She was with 
> Marlene when we met at a bar in February 1971.) A rare good day, but 
> rewarding for all. But it remains that all we can realistically do now is 
> wait and hug and whisper words of love.
> 
> Did I tell you I deeply resent the ads from a cancer hospital that suggest 
> they're beating the disease? They're not. It's a blatant lie aimed at getting 
> more Medicare and insurance dollars. Fuck them.
> 
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Marlene

2015-10-30 Thread Paul Stenquist
Marlene is very private, do Im loathe to discuss her condition, but I find 
myself mentioning her battle when I'm speaking on other topics, and that feels 
heartless.  Perhaps  honesty is better.

A peaceful and painless conclusion is now the goal.. I've pretty much known 
this was inevitable since Dr. Kim, the surgeon, met with me outside the OR, 13 
months ago. After six hours in surgery he looked defeated. "I wish I had gotten 
to this years ago," he said. "Is there hope? I asked. There is always hope," he 
said, head hanging. 

Today, Marlene's best friend drove up from Chicago. Marlene got out of bed for 
several hours, and they laughed and even danced a little. (She was with Marlene 
when we met at a bar in February 1971.) A rare good day, but rewarding for all. 
But it remains that all we can realistically do now is wait and hug and whisper 
words of love.

Did I tell you I deeply resent the ads from a cancer hospital that suggest 
they're beating the disease? They're not. It's a blatant lie aimed at getting 
more Medicare and insurance dollars. Fuck them.

Paul via phone
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Re: Marlene

2015-10-30 Thread Dario Bonazza

I've been there, for my father, exactly one year ago.
Following his ordeal hour after hour, day after day.
So I understand well, dear friend.
You are in my heart and thoughts.
Dario

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From: Larry Colen

Sent: Friday, October 30, 2015 7:48 AM
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Paul Stenquist wrote:
Marlene doesn't want me to discuss her condition, and I find myself 
reaching out on other topics, which feels heartless, but deflecting may 
well be worse.


We all understand.



A peaceful and painless conclusion is now the goal.. I've pretty much 
known this was inevitable since Dr. Kim, the surgeon, met with me outside 
the OR, 13 months ago. After six hours in surgery he looked defeated. "I 
wish I had gotten to this years ago," he said. "Is there hope? I asked. 
There is always hope," he said, head hanging.


Today,Marlene's best friend drove up from Chicago and they laughed and 
even danced a little. (She was with Marlene when we met at a bar in 
February 1971.) A rare good day, but all we can realistically do now is 
wait and hug and whisper words of love.


Did I tell you I deeply resent the ads from a cancer hospital that suggest 
they're beating the disease? They're not. It's a blatant lie aimed at 
getting more Medicare and insurance dollars. Fuck them.


As I see friends commenting all too often these days,
Fuck Cancer

Know that you are in the thoughts and hearts of your friends all over the 
world.




Paul via phone
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Re: Marlene

2015-10-29 Thread Larry Colen



Paul Stenquist wrote:

Marlene doesn't want me to discuss her condition, and I find myself reaching 
out on other topics, which feels heartless, but deflecting may well be worse.


We all understand.



A peaceful and painless conclusion is now the goal.. I've pretty much known this was inevitable 
since Dr. Kim, the surgeon, met with me outside the OR, 13 months ago. After six hours in surgery 
he looked defeated. "I wish I had gotten to this years ago," he said. "Is there 
hope? I asked. There is always hope," he said, head hanging.

Today,Marlene's best friend drove up from Chicago and they laughed and even 
danced a little. (She was with Marlene when we met at a bar in February 1971.) 
A rare good day, but all we can realistically do now is wait and hug and 
whisper words of love.

Did I tell you I deeply resent the ads from a cancer hospital that suggest 
they're beating the disease? They're not. It's a blatant lie aimed at getting 
more Medicare and insurance dollars. Fuck them.


As I see friends commenting all too often these days,
Fuck Cancer

Know that you are in the thoughts and hearts of your friends all over the world.



Paul via phone
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Re: Marlene

2015-10-29 Thread Boris Liberman

Paul,

Nowadays you often come up in my thoughts... You know why...

Boris

On 10/30/2015 5:03, Paul Stenquist wrote:

Marlene doesn't want me to discuss her condition, and I find myself reaching 
out on other topics, which feels heartless, but deflecting may well be worse.

A peaceful and painless conclusion is now the goal.. I've pretty much known this was inevitable 
since Dr. Kim, the surgeon, met with me outside the OR, 13 months ago. After six hours in surgery 
he looked defeated. "I wish I had gotten to this years ago," he said. "Is there 
hope? I asked. There is always hope," he said, head hanging.

Today,Marlene's best friend drove up from Chicago and they laughed and even 
danced a little. (She was with Marlene when we met at a bar in February 1971.) 
A rare good day, but all we can realistically do now is wait and hug and 
whisper words of love.

Did I tell you I deeply resent the ads from a cancer hospital that suggest 
they're beating the disease? They're not. It's a blatant lie aimed at getting 
more Medicare and insurance dollars. Fuck them.

Paul via phone
Paul via phone



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Re: Marlene

2015-10-29 Thread ann sanfedele
Whatever you need to do to keep yourself together for her is what you 
do... and all you can do.


ann

On 10/29/2015 11:39 PM, Paul Stenquist wrote:

Marlene doesn't want me to discuss her condition, and I find myself reaching 
out on other topics, which feels heartless, but honesty may well be worse.

A peaceful and painless conclusion is now the goal.. I've pretty much known this was inevitable 
since Dr. Kim, the surgeon, met with me outside the OR, 13 months ago. After six hours in surgery 
he looked defeated. "I wish I had gotten to this years ago," he said. "Is there 
hope? I asked. There is always hope," he said, head hanging.

Today,Marlene's best friend drove up from Chicago and they laughed and even 
danced a little. (She was with Marlene when we met at a bar in February 1971.) 
A rare good day, but all we can realistically do now is wait and hug and 
whisper words of love.

Did I tell you I deeply resent the ads from a cancer hospital that suggest 
they're beating the disease? They're not. It's a blatant lie aimed at getting 
more Medicare and insurance dollars. Fuck them.

Paul via phone
Paul via phone

Paul via phone



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Marlene

2015-10-29 Thread Paul Stenquist
Marlene doesn't want me to discuss her condition, and I find myself reaching 
out on other topics, which feels heartless, but honesty may well be worse.

A peaceful and painless conclusion is now the goal.. I've pretty much known 
this was inevitable since Dr. Kim, the surgeon, met with me outside the OR, 13 
months ago. After six hours in surgery he looked defeated. "I wish I had gotten 
to this years ago," he said. "Is there hope? I asked. There is always hope," he 
said, head hanging. 

Today,Marlene's best friend drove up from Chicago and they laughed and even 
danced a little. (She was with Marlene when we met at a bar in February 1971.) 
A rare good day, but all we can realistically do now is wait and hug and 
whisper words of love.

Did I tell you I deeply resent the ads from a cancer hospital that suggest 
they're beating the disease? They're not. It's a blatant lie aimed at getting 
more Medicare and insurance dollars. Fuck them.

Paul via phone
Paul via phone

Paul via phone
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Re: Marlene

2015-10-29 Thread Jack Davis
Beautifully stated!

J

- Original Message -
From: "Paul Stenquist" 
To: "Pentax-Discuss Mail List" 
Sent: Thursday, October 29, 2015 8:03:34 PM
Subject: Marlene

Marlene doesn't want me to discuss her condition, and I find myself reaching 
out on other topics, which feels heartless, but deflecting may well be worse.

A peaceful and painless conclusion is now the goal.. I've pretty much known 
this was inevitable since Dr. Kim, the surgeon, met with me outside the OR, 13 
months ago. After six hours in surgery he looked defeated. "I wish I had gotten 
to this years ago," he said. "Is there hope? I asked. There is always hope," he 
said, head hanging. 

Today,Marlene's best friend drove up from Chicago and they laughed and even 
danced a little. (She was with Marlene when we met at a bar in February 1971.) 
A rare good day, but all we can realistically do now is wait and hug and 
whisper words of love.

Did I tell you I deeply resent the ads from a cancer hospital that suggest 
they're beating the disease? They're not. It's a blatant lie aimed at getting 
more Medicare and insurance dollars. Fuck them.

Paul via phone
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Re: Marlene

2015-10-29 Thread knarf
Not sure what to say, Paul. I've never had to go through anything like what you 
and your family and Marlene are right now. I can't imagine...

I hope she's mostly comfortable and at peace. We know she has the love of her 
life at her side, along with the light of her life in Gracie. 

Hold her and treasure your time with her. She needs that now.

Your anger is to be expected, and probably a good thing.

Best,

frank

On October 29, 2015 11:03:34 PM EDT, Paul Stenquist  
wrote:
>Marlene doesn't want me to discuss her condition, and I find myself
>reaching out on other topics, which feels heartless, but deflecting may
>well be worse.
>
>A peaceful and painless conclusion is now the goal.. I've pretty much
>known this was inevitable since Dr. Kim, the surgeon, met with me
>outside the OR, 13 months ago. After six hours in surgery he looked
>defeated. "I wish I had gotten to this years ago," he said. "Is there
>hope? I asked. There is always hope," he said, head hanging. 
>
>Today,Marlene's best friend drove up from Chicago and they laughed and
>even danced a little. (She was with Marlene when we met at a bar in
>February 1971.) A rare good day, but all we can realistically do now is
>wait and hug and whisper words of love.
>
>Did I tell you I deeply resent the ads from a cancer hospital that
>suggest they're beating the disease? They're not. It's a blatant lie
>aimed at getting more Medicare and insurance dollars. Fuck them.
>
>Paul via phone
>Paul via phone

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Marlene

2015-10-29 Thread Paul Stenquist
Marlene doesn't want me to discuss her condition, and I find myself reaching 
out on other topics, which feels heartless, but deflecting may well be worse.

A peaceful and painless conclusion is now the goal.. I've pretty much known 
this was inevitable since Dr. Kim, the surgeon, met with me outside the OR, 13 
months ago. After six hours in surgery he looked defeated. "I wish I had gotten 
to this years ago," he said. "Is there hope? I asked. There is always hope," he 
said, head hanging. 

Today,Marlene's best friend drove up from Chicago and they laughed and even 
danced a little. (She was with Marlene when we met at a bar in February 1971.) 
A rare good day, but all we can realistically do now is wait and hug and 
whisper words of love.

Did I tell you I deeply resent the ads from a cancer hospital that suggest 
they're beating the disease? They're not. It's a blatant lie aimed at getting 
more Medicare and insurance dollars. Fuck them.

Paul via phone
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-13 Thread Bulent Celasun
Paul,

I have seen many, many patients living without problems after proper
colorectal surgery.

I hope Marlene will be among them.

Kind regards to you both.

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2014-09-13 20:39 GMT+03:00 Larry Colen :
> Best wishes to her and all of your family. Even when things go well this is 
> hard on every one.
>
> On September 11, 2014 8:17:15 PM PDT, Paul Stenquist 
>  wrote:
>>Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No
>>other organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed,
>>including one next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was
>>diagnosed last month. Not easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt.
>>Prayers and positive thoughts appreciated.
>>
>>Paul
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-13 Thread Larry Colen
Best wishes to her and all of your family. Even when things go well this is 
hard on every one.

On September 11, 2014 8:17:15 PM PDT, Paul Stenquist  
wrote:
>Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No
>other organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed,
>including one next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was
>diagnosed last month. Not easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt.
>Prayers and positive thoughts appreciated.
>
>Paul

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RE: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-12 Thread John Coyle
Please give Marlene my best wishes for successful surgery and a speedy 
recovery.  My thoughts are
with you both.

John Coyle
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Subject: My Wife, Marlene

Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
organs involved but
quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one next to the aorta. Been 
sorting this out
since she was diagnosed last month. Not easy, but It's the hand we were dealt. 
Prayers and positive
thoughts appreciated.

Paul
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My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-12 Thread James King
Paul Stenquist wrote on Thu, 11 Sep 2014 20:18:06 -0700:

> Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
> organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one 
> next 
> to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last month. Not 
> easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts 
> appreciated.

My thoughts will be with you and your family during this difficult time. I join 
the others in this thread in hoping for a positive outcome and a speedy 
recovery for Marlene.

Regards, Jim
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-12 Thread Ken Waller

Paul, my prayers for Marlene, you and your family.

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- Original Message - 
From: "Paul Stenquist" 

Subject: My Wife, Marlene


Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one 
next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last month. 
Not easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts 
appreciated.


Paul
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-12 Thread John

On 9/11/2014 11:17 PM, Paul Stenquist wrote:

Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one next 
to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last month. Not 
easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts 
appreciated.

Paul



I hope the surgery will be successful & that you two will have a long 
time left together.


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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-12 Thread David J Brooks
Best wishes coming from the great white north Paul

Dave

On Thu, Sep 11, 2014 at 11:17 PM, Paul Stenquist
 wrote:
> Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
> organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one 
> next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last month. 
> Not easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts 
> appreciated.
>
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-12 Thread Doug Brewer
Hey Paul, I hope her surgery turns out as well as mine did, and that
her recovery is quick and uncomplicated. It's common to remove lymph
nodes along with the affected area in order to help with staging.
Here's wishing her negative margins and a clean follow-up report.

On Fri, Sep 12, 2014 at 7:51 AM, Jack Davis  wrote:
> Truly sorry to read of your wife's diagnosis. I'll hold you both in my 
> thoughts with the hope of
> a completely successful surgical result followed by speedy recovery.
>
> Jack
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> - Original Message -
> From: "Paul Stenquist" 
> To: "PDML" 
> Sent: Thursday, September 11, 2014 8:17:15 PM
> Subject: My Wife, Marlene
>
> Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
> organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one 
> next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last month. 
> Not easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts 
> appreciated.
>
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-12 Thread Jeffery Johnson

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On 9/11/2014 10:17 PM, Paul Stenquist wrote:

Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one next 
to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last month. Not 
easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts 
appreciated.

Paul



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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-12 Thread Jack Davis
Truly sorry to read of your wife's diagnosis. I'll hold you both in my thoughts 
with the hope of 
a completely successful surgical result followed by speedy recovery.

Jack


- Original Message -
From: "Paul Stenquist" 
To: "PDML" 
Sent: Thursday, September 11, 2014 8:17:15 PM
Subject: My Wife, Marlene

Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one next 
to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last month. Not 
easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts 
appreciated.

Paul
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-12 Thread Marco Alpert
Wishing Marlene the best and thinking positive thoughts for you all. 

- Marco


On Sep 11, 2014, at 8:17 PM, Paul Stenquist  wrote:

> Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
> organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one 
> next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last month. 
> Not easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts 
> appreciated.
> 
> Paul


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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-11 Thread Steve Cottrell
On 11/9/14, Paul Stenquist, discombobulated, unleashed:

>Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No
>other organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed,
>including one next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was
>diagnosed last month. Not easy, but It's the hand we were dealt. Prayers
>and positive thoughts appreciated.

Of course. Always, Paul. Best wishes.

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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-11 Thread Paul
All the best to both of you for a positive outcome.  May her doctor's 
hands be sure and steady.


-p

On 9/11/2014 10:17 PM, Paul Stenquist wrote:

Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one next 
to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last month. Not 
easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts 
appreciated.

Paul



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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-11 Thread Ann Sanfedele

Knowing about this earlier, mine have been in place for a little while
it was good to see the outpouring of support here this evening.  It's 
hard on you, too, we all know.  Glad Marlene has you. Please give her my 
love.


ann

On 9/11/2014 23:17, Paul Stenquist wrote:

Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer.

No other organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed,
including one next to the aorta.
 Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last month.
Not easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts 
appreciated.


Paul



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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-11 Thread steve harley

on 2014-09-11 21:17 Paul Stenquist wrote

Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer.


i'll have Marlene in my thoughts, Paul

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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-11 Thread Christine Aguila
Hi Paul:

Darrel and I send the very best wishes and positive thoughts to Marlene and the 
rest of the Stenquist family!

Christine & Darrel

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> On Sep 11, 2014, at 10:17 PM, Paul Stenquist  wrote:
> 
> Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
> organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one 
> next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last month. 
> Not easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts 
> appreciated.
> 
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-11 Thread Bill

On 11/09/2014 9:17 PM, Paul Stenquist wrote:

Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No
other organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed,
including one next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was
diagnosed last month. Not easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt.
Prayers and positive thoughts appreciated.

Paul



I'm not a Christian boy, I doubt if prayer will do anything, but as many 
positive thoughts as I can muster are being sent your way.

Stay positive and she will need you to be as strong as you are able.

bill

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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-11 Thread Alan C
May the peace of the Lord be with you all at this difficult time. You are in 
our prayers.


Alan & Ann C

-Original Message- 
From: Paul Stenquist

Sent: Friday, September 12, 2014 5:17 AM
To: Pentax-Discuss Mail List
Subject: My Wife, Marlene

Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one 
next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last month. 
Not easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts 
appreciated.


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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-11 Thread knarf
She couldn't have a better man by her side.

Thoughts with Marlene, Grace and you at this difficult time. Hoping for the 
best possible outcome for tomorrow. 

All the best,

frank

On 11 September, 2014 11:17:15 PM EDT, Paul Stenquist  
wrote:
>Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No
>other organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed,
>including one next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was
>diagnosed last month. Not easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt.
>Prayers and positive thoughts appreciated.
>
>Paul

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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-11 Thread Darren Addy
Sorry to hear it, as well. Stressful for everyone, I'm sure (to say
the least). Best wishes for coming through with flying colors. We are
with you and Marlene in spirit. Looking forward to your sharing good
news out the other side.

On Thu, Sep 11, 2014 at 10:30 PM, Brian Walters
 wrote:
> Quoting Paul Stenquist :
>
>> Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No
>> other organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including
>> one next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last
>> month. Not easy, but It?s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive
>> thoughts appreciated.
>
>
>
> I'm really sorry to hear that, Paul.
>
> As a cancer survivor I know that this is a stressful time for all concerned.
> My thoughts and best wishes for a complete recovery to Marlene, yourself and
> your family.
>
>
> Best wishes
>
> Brian
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-11 Thread Brian Walters

Quoting Paul Stenquist :

Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer.  
No other organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be  
removed, including one next to the aorta. Been sorting this out  
since she was diagnosed last month. Not easy, but It?s the hand we  
were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts appreciated.



I'm really sorry to hear that, Paul.

As a cancer survivor I know that this is a stressful time for all  
concerned. My thoughts and best wishes for a complete recovery to  
Marlene, yourself and your family.



Best wishes

Brian

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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-11 Thread Igor PDML-StR


Paul,

Good luck, and all the best!

Igor

On September 12, 2014 6:17:48 AM Paul Stenquist wrote:


Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other
organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one
next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last
month. Not easy, but It.s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive
thoughts appreciated.

Paul


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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-11 Thread Bob Sullivan
Paul,
We will keep her in our thoughts.
You too.
Hope the surgery goes well.
Bob & Lynn

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> Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
> organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one 
> next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last month. 
> Not easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts 
> appreciated.
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-11 Thread Rob Studdert
Best wishes to Marlene for a positive outcome, I'm betting that you've
made sure that she's in the best of hands, positive thoughts to
Marlene, you and your family.

On 12 September 2014 13:17, Paul Stenquist  wrote:
> Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
> organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one 
> next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last month. 
> Not easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts 
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Re: My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-11 Thread Boris Liberman

You and your wife are in my thoughts, Paul.

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On September 12, 2014 6:17:48 AM Paul Stenquist  
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Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one 
next to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last 
month. Not easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive 
thoughts appreciated.


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My Wife, Marlene

2014-09-11 Thread Paul Stenquist
Marlene is having surgery at 10 am tomorrow for colorectal cancer. No other 
organs involved but quite a few lymph nodes must be removed, including one next 
to the aorta. Been sorting this out since she was diagnosed last month. Not 
easy, but It’s the hand we were dealt. Prayers and positive thoughts 
appreciated.

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