Re: I need help finding a certain text to speech voice.
Re: I need help finding a certain text to speech voice. it's called softvoice.you can find it some ware. on grossgang.com URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/623080/#p623080 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help downloading something
Re: I need help downloading something ooh. thanks. just gonna gobble these plugins...yum. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/611090/#p611090 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help downloading something
2021-01-29
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : GrannyCheeseWheel via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help downloading something Oatmeal, Dext, Tunefish, and Oxe FM are all free and good. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/611088/#p611088 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help downloading something
Re: I need help downloading something ah. thanks. it didn't ask for that before. thanks alot bro.edit.another question. do you recommend any other vsts plugins other than Kontakt?I don't have the hardware for it. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/611084/#p611084 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help downloading something
Re: I need help downloading something ah. thanks. it didn't ask for that before. thanks alot bro. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/611084/#p611084 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help downloading something
2021-01-29
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : GrannyCheeseWheel via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help downloading something When you click the download for win button, go to the bottom of the page, it wants your email and then click download there. I ain't gonna put my email. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/611082/#p611082 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: i need help
Re: i need help I thought there was a walkthrough quite a while back in the articles room but could be wrong. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/597572/#p597572 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: i need help
2020-12-10
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AudioGames . net Forum — General Game Discussion : Mayana via Audiogames-reflector
Re: i need help Most of the things you need to find will be close to the road. Only a few sidequests will require more exploration than that. So enter those scary ruins, explore them, and see where they take you! URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/597508/#p597508 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: i need help
2020-12-10
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AudioGames . net Forum — General Game Discussion : unisabbas via Audiogames-reflector
Re: i need help i have a problem with this Getting at the HeartI've met a ranger named Matthias who has offered to help me in my quest. He says that the source of Deepwood's corruption lies along an ancient road, to the west.i don't know what to do after i enter to the ruins URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/597283/#p597283 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: i need help
2020-12-10
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AudioGames . net Forum — General Game Discussion : Mayana via Audiogames-reflector
Re: i need help I don't think so. But generally most quests are solvable with enough patience and exploration. And for those that aren't as easy, like finding all the bandit campsites, it is pretty difficult to provide a walkthrough anyway.Which quest are you having trouble with? Let's see if we can offer tips. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/597192/#p597192 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: i need help
Re: i need help Sorry but no, I really don't think so. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/597189/#p597189 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: i need help
Re: i need help sorry but no, I really don't think so URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/597189/#p597189 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help @73 I'd asume she does, ahem, remember about a year ago we had a spat in Ivan's topic? lma. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595486/#p595486 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Wow Cookie, you know he's underaged ,right? URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595332/#p595332 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Hello! Soo now i just saw this topic. I know that is too late but. I hope that you are much better now. I dont know the feeling because until recenttly i didnt have any friends. But whatever you feel right now that it will pass. It will be hard but one day you will smile again. If you ever need someone to talk or just to lisen you can pm here. I check my pm . Dont be sad, be happy. I know that is easy for me to say but you can do it. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595297/#p595297 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help i'll try to be there if I can, love your streams. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595278/#p595278 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help eh how are virtual parties like, never attended one. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595263/#p595263 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-03
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : TheEvilChocolateCookie via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help If you want to come to the party, be my gueest. No biting me though. I bite back. LOL URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595170/#p595170 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Oh, erm, thanks for pointing that out, ewhwhwhwhwhwh. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595150/#p595150 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help @64, maybe I should try out a variation of that line on females. I'll even record myself getting slapped across the face. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595129/#p595129 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help @haily_merry, If I'm to follow my own advice in 58, the correct answer would be that, it matters not who you are, but who you want to be. :d URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595128/#p595128 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help 58, guessing I'm 1 of the latter? And yeah, defender you're probably right. I brought it up publicly, partly because I actually wanted her / them to see it, but I appreciate the impact that this sort of thing can have on other people. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595119/#p595119 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help @59 can I come and vertually take a giant bite out of you then become evil myself? URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595118/#p595118 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-03
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Julia Stockburger via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help Thank goodness. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595114/#p595114 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-03
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : TheEvilChocolateCookie via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help Well well, it's all right now. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595094/#p595094 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-03
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Julia Stockburger via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help No @TheEvilChocolateCookie I never told you. I registered in April but forgot about it until I needed to find a way for the two of us to keep in touch, and I never put in a post to have my account unrestricted. I also remember you telling me you had an account here, plus you mention it a bunch on YouTube. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595091/#p595091 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help This really should have been dealt with more privately with Jade as a go between. Those who were concerned should have taken it to PMs if they truly didn't want to make things worse.@haily_merry I backed down because Julia did, even if I actually was right, it wasn't worth it any more to potentially be wrong and hurt people more. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595092/#p595092 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-03
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : TheEvilChocolateCookie via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help I didn't even know she had an account here until recently. Maybe she told me and it slipped my mind. My nerves have been strained to the max this year. However, I'm not mad. In fact, you're all invited to a virtual Christmas party on the 18th. Bring your friends. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595076/#p595076 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help For what it's worth, I'm glad this situation was dealt with quite nicely. Jayde, thank you for doing what you do and doing it diligently. To Cookie and Julia, I'm sorry some of our more outspoken members have gotten in the way of you two having good interactions with those of us who mean well here on this forum. Cookie has indeed caused a fair amount of discomfort on this forum in the past, but that's hardly a reason to assume the worst on a regular basis. If we do that we may as well just turn our backs on anyone who's ever commited any kind of offense against anyone else on this forum no matter how slight, and then what kind of forum if any would we have? Some of our greatest contributors started off as massive troublemakers. Some of our greatest troublemakers were originally awesome contributors. Some are a bit of both; you never judge a book by its cover. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595072/#p595072 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-03
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : TheEvilChocolateCookie via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help I do want to take a minute to thank everyone who tried to help out. I think I'm mostly ok now except I'm freezing and worried about keeping BookShare next year, but that's not something I should involve the rest of the community in. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595032/#p595032 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-03
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Julia Stockburger via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help @Jayde Understood. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595031/#p595031 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Julia, please don't kick dirt on good intentions here.So the first half of your message? Totally fine. I get how it must feel to be unfairly maligned. That's not cool.But the rest of it? I recognize that you want to defend your partner, and that you might be especially well equipped to feel sympathy for her. I'm okay with that. But the bit where you say people shouldn't use a specific name "if you know what's good for you" is basically a threat. Don't be that person. You do not have to threaten me, or anyone else on this forum. No one else to my knowledge has used her given name, particularly lately, and given that I don't think it's public knowledge and also given how I said we'd come down hard on someone misusing that sort of thing, you (and more importantly, she) have nothing to worry about. We punish the involuntary divulgence of personally identifiable info via the rules. I promise that we don't need your threatening language in order to do our job here.You are welcome here as a user, and you're also welcome to bring valid problems to our attention or to call someone out if they've done something wrong. But what I advise against you doing is trying to be a watchdog. It combines with your revival of years-old topics and your other posts to paint a very unflattering image of you, and it's not going to help folks take you seriously or to treat you as anything but an adjunct to ECC. Trust the mod team, please. We tend not to play favourites. Maybe you're too new to get that yet, but take it from someone who just fought to get people to stop accusing you as being someone you weren't. And please don't threaten other users, not even indirectly. It won't go well for anyone if that keeps occurring. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595028/#p595028 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-03
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Julia Stockburger via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help I would like to say a huge thank-you to both Jayde and ECC for defending my case. I'm not sure what else to say here besides that, but I do hope you will stop accusing me of being fake when I am in fact a legitimate second person in this scenario. I know Eliza's real name too, and trust me, if you know what she's been through, not just her "alters" (or at least that's what you believe them to be), if you knew that, you would know that the name Eliza is permanent for her now, and would be advised not to call her K.E if you know what's good for you. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595025/#p595025 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Okay, so, two things:1. Playing devil's advocate here just for a sec. An audio file doesn't actually prove anything. It might prove that Julia exists in the first place, but it technically doesn't prove that her account here actually belongs to her. Let me be clear. I think it very likely does, and I'm adhering to my own innocent-till-proven-guilty thing. I'm just saying that if we're being rational about this, accepting that Julia is real and does exist does not necessarily mean her account here is real. I have said this without listening to the YouTube video. If it turns out that said youtube video is two people talking in such a way as do disprove everything I just said, I can accept that.2. Uh...who was involved in this video? Were they name-dropped? Were they all given a chance to consent? If not, this is serious business, ECC. I believe you may recall a user who did this just over a year ago, trying to get us to figure out the name of a woman he was in a call with, and everyone dogpiled him for it.I'm just gonna go have a peek at this and see what I find.Edit:So the "call" is not actually a call, not really, not in the way that word is usually used; it is basically a stream of Manamon 1 from almost a year ago, which seems to prove that Julia is a separate person who does exist. It does not definitively prove that the account here is hers, though, since it happened almost eleven months ago and thus can't deal with current-day questions of truthfulness. It is very clearly not ECC talking to herself. Clearly any issues of name-dropping are moot as well, since in the bits I've heard, at least, nothing untoward actually happened.Moderation:Now, you know how I said that this video doesn't prove that Julia actually owns her account? It's true. But that really isn't the point.It's not up to Julia to prove that this account belongs to her. It is actually up to any of the rest of you to prove that it doesn't belong to her. The burden of proof is on you folks, not on Julia and not on ECC. And right now, I'm seeing precious little evidence to that end, so I'd like the subject dropped until or unless there is more credible evidence.To be clear: Julia is to be treated as any other new member of the forum at this point. If she breaks the rules, we will deal with it. If she says something silly, then you can deal with her the same way you'd deal with anybody else, so long as you don't break the rules in the process. But the witch-hunt about how this might just be ECC making another alt stops right here and now, until such time that you present credible evidence. Regardless of the questionable impression Julia might have left upon arriving here recently, she deserves a chance to be a part of this forum if that is what she wants, and that includes not being dogged by baseless alligations. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595018/#p595018 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-03
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : TheEvilChocolateCookie via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help I wouldn't put someone on YouTube if they didn't want to be there. If someone asks to be on my streams, I make sure they know they will be heard online, if that's what you're worried about. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595019/#p595019 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Okay, so, two things:1. Playing devil's advocate here just for a sec. An audio call doesn't actually prove anything. It might prove that Julia exists in the first place, but it technically doesn't prove that her account here actually belongs to her. Let me be clear. I think it very likely does, and I'm adhering to my own innocent-till-proven-guilty thing. I'm just saying that if we're being rational about this, accepting that Julia is real and does exist does not necessarily mean her account here is real. I have said this without listening to the YouTube video. If it turns out that said call and youtube video is two people talking in such a way as do disprove everything I just said, I can accept that.2. Uh...who was involved in this call? Were they name-dropped? Were they all given a chance to consent? If not, this is serious business, ECC. I believe you may recall a user who did this just over a year ago, trying to get us to figure out the name of a woman he was in a call with, and everyone dogpiled him for it.I'm just gonna go have a peek at this and see what I find. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595018/#p595018 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-03
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : TheEvilChocolateCookie via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help I think the exact time is 33:44 or something like that. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595016/#p595016 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-03
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : TheEvilChocolateCookie via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help Check around the 34-minute mark. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595014/#p595014 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Cookie, can you give me a timestamp there? When does she join the call? That's a rather long stream. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595010/#p595010 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Jayde,Yeah, ok. You're right, and I've definitely gotten ahead of myself on this 1, and let my personal feelings cloud my judgement.I was trying not to cross this line last night, but I'll admit, seeing otherwise extremely intelligent people such as defender back down with such haphazard evidence was, frustrating to say the least. You could say that it's none of my business, and you'd be correct, but as we stand, we're giving this person a platform. A small 1 perhaps, but a platform none the less. And if we just stand by and play along, we may be indirectly making the situation worse than it already is. I understand that you can't just ban on a whim though.Oh and, nice little 1984 reference, BTW. Yeah, I read things, believe it or not. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595005/#p595005 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Yeah, ok. You're right, and I've definitely gotten ahead of myself on this 1, and let my personal feelings cloud my judgement.I was trying not to cross this line last night, but I'll admit, seeing otherwise extremely intelligent people such as defender back down with such haphazard evidence was, frustrating to say the least. You could say that it's none of my business, and you'd be correct, but as we stand, we're giving this person a platform. A small 1 perhaps, but a platform none the less. And if we just stand by and play along, we may be indirectly making the situation worse than it already is. I understand that you can't just ban on a whim though.Oh and, nice little 1984 reference, BTW. Yeah, I read things, believe it or not. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595005/#p595005 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-03
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : TheEvilChocolateCookie via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help Here. No, I'm not promoting anything. This is proof to back up what I said earlier.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kRLjQL2pD9Q URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595003/#p595003 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help As 44 says, I'd like to leave the analysis to the experts, but I'll just say that ECC is giving me really conflicting messages. I don't know what it is, but several of these posts throughout this and other topics, all just feel different, like a very subtle change in writing style or a tiny conflict of information, I'm not sure. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595001/#p595001 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Haily, I just want to point out that when I said yesterday that there was no evidence that Julia and ECC were the same person, I'd already used some of the tools at our disposal to check. I do this as a matter of course when something peculiar happens, and most of the time it turns out to be inconclusive.What you're doing right now is tantamount to doublespeak. On one hand, you're saying that we should do our job (which almost implies, if not straight out, that we haven't yet in this specific situation). On the other hand, you're still talking to ECC as if Julia is part of her problem when there is no demonstrable evidence at this point that it's true. I've already asked gently that this witch-hunt mentality stop. Now I'm asking not so nicely. Stop. Right here, right now. Stop. You, and anyone else who wants to keep barking up this tree. Trust me, please, when I tell you that if Julia turns out to be another alt after all, we will deal with the situation directly and thoroughly; mental illness is no excuse when it comes to breach of rules. But until that proof is brought to light - proof, mind you, not conjecture or supposition - Julia is to be presumed innocent till proven guilty, because that's kind of how our little community works.I'll spell it out for you, shall I?Let's say Julia is exactly who and what she says she is. All you've done is tarnish ECC's already questionable reputation without cause, as well as needlessly antagonizing a new user who, while she did come off a bit badly upon actually joining the community, has done nothing wrong otherwise and does not deserve to be antagonized. I trust I don't have to explain any further why this is bad.Even if your supposition is correct, however, you're doing that whole backseat-mod thing. Speaking personally, I'm totally fine with people who want to present actual evidence or tell us stuff we legitimately don't know. But you haven't done that. You haven't even come close. At this point, you're basically just stirring the pot, and I would have expected better from you than this.Tl.dr: just hold your horses on this. If there's trouble, we're going to find it. But if there isn't, we're not going to just sit still and let people get badgered for no real reason. And until proof of that trouble is presented, we're going to operate under the assumption that this accusation is false. Are we clear? URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/595000/#p595000 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help 41, you're barking up the wrong tree here.I'm going to let the professionals, IE Jayde, handle this 1. I don't have the experience, and frankly the last thing I want to do is cause more damaged. For what it's worth, you're right. The past is indeed the past, a past I was very much hoping, that with your name change and considerably more positive attitude in posts, not to mention PM you sent me back in, Febuary? That you'd moved on from. I'm talking about the present now.however alone you might feel, or be, being delusional will only trap you in that vicious cycle. Believe it or not, I actually don't wish any harm come to you. I want you to wake up and smell the coffee. I prommis you, that though you may be fooling some of us here, your antics, if they continue as they are, will only come back to bite you later.Jayde, seriously. Do IP checks. If said IP's don't match, check against popular VPN's. I'm more than willing to assist with this if necessary, but in your administration panel, you have an option right there to do advanced user searches. I don't think punBB will give you hostnames, unfortunately, but even routers which change IP's regularly tend to stick to more or less the same range, so manual checks on the posts of stevejobs / her other accounts should be effective as well. This includes VPN's, if she's been using the same ones. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594993/#p594993 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-03
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : TheEvilChocolateCookie via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help first question, no, we are 2 separate people. Second question, yes, I'm in a relationship, which really shouldn't be anyone's business unless I trust them enough for them to know. I'm not the type to shout from the rooftops that I'm in a relationship or something. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594990/#p594990 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help @41 you completely avoided the task at hand. Are you, or are you not Julia Stockburger, and is she or is she noot your significant other? Its a simple no yes yes no situation. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594988/#p594988 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-03
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : TheEvilChocolateCookie via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help Normally I would turn a blind eye to this, but someone else is getting attacked here. I can't help it that someone cares enough to be concerned. I'm going to start quoting song lyrics at you now. I'm never going back, the past is in the past. And there's the very name of the song itself, let it go. I have far more important things to do here. I'm doing the best I can here, and everywhere. Do I have problems? Sure. Do I have a really bad past, definitely. Am I going to let it ruin my whole life? Nope. Like I said, I would really stay out of this if someone else wasn't getting hurt. Oh, and in case you didn't know, holding a grudge is bad for your health. It'll mess up your blood pressure. To those of you who won't drop it, well, that's your choice. I am allowed to be happy though, and nothing said here is going to get in the way of that. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594987/#p594987 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Uh. I can't speak for eliza, but I could quite comfortably talk to someone whilst having a totally different conversation via text, or, in eliza's case, pretending to be someone else in the same conversation. Just saying.I really don't like to be the bad cop here, but you guys need to look at her past. This is someone who, from personal experience, used to use skype alts back when the /secondary command was a thing. This is someone who has made multiple alts on this very forum, several of which concern now dead celebrities.Like it or not, if you've had experience with this person in the past and are choosing to turn a blind eye, you're enabling her. This has the potential to be extremely damaging to not only herself but also this forum. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594978/#p594978 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help @38 ironcheese is acceptable also, ahem, but yeah it happens all the time on this forum, moonwalker was still refurred to as such when she became death star, i calll Gaki shonen adel still, and there are probably other examples. Speaking of alts, are you mods gonna do anything about her alts? I'm guessing the sevejobs person is her alt. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594967/#p594967 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Defender, nothing is wrong with that.What I'm saying is that if you know ECC's real name (not Eliza, I mean) it would be unreasonable to name-drop it just because ECC herself has done questionable stuff. If folks want to call her Eliza, that's fine. I guarantee you I'm going to refer to Ironcross at least once in future, even though his name has changed. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594938/#p594938 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help @JaydeTo be fare without last names or other identifying details, first names are first names especially if they are pretty common ones. This isn't a privacy breech it's just weird.Also, while it's polite, unless they specifically tell you to stop, I don't see what's wrong with calling someone by a username they previously had before changing it. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594935/#p594935 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help @JaydeTo be fare without last names or other identifying details, first names are first names especially if they are pretty common ones. This isn't a privacy breech it's just weird. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594935/#p594935 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Ah okay, thanks for clearing that up, my bad. They talk in a very similar way but I guess that's what happens when you hang out around someone else for long enough LOL.Eliza had made alts in the past and posted weird stuff so I figured it was the same thing. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594934/#p594934 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Ah okay, thanks for clearing that up, my bad. They talk in a very similar way but I guess that's what happens when you hang out around someone else for long enough LOL. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594934/#p594934 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-02
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : mechaSkyGuardian via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help I can say for a fact that julia is not an alt of the evil chocolate cookie. Before she had to leave the discord server that I hung out on for reasons I shall not name due to confidentiality we interacted on voice many times. She also shows up on her live streams. When Eliza is talking Julia would also send chats to the stream. I don’t know about anyone else but it would be hard for me to focus on talking and typing at the same time URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594932/#p594932 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help No, it...actually doesn't though.I'm not sure where ECC has name-dropped people when she shouldn't have, but if she has, that's not great either, BTW. It doesn't make name-dropping her acceptable, however. Two wrongs don't make right.Eliza might be how she wants to be called, and it might be how Julia refers to her in public, but that doesn't mean it's her real name, and it further doesn't mean we should use her real name if we know it, regardless of how we might feel about her or whatever she's done. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594931/#p594931 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help @31, that would make sense, however..."If you all look at her profile closely enough (@TheEvilChocolateCookie), you'll see that her real name is Eliza" End quote from Julia. Again backs up Jimmy's point. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594929/#p594929 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help @31, that would make sense, however..."If you all look at her profile closely enough (@TheEvilChocolateCookie), you'll see that her real name is Eliza" URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594929/#p594929 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Yeah but she doesn’t really care about exposing other peoples personal names, so I don’t see any reason she should care URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594916/#p594916 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Again though, that's actually...not entirely fair. Eliza is a name she's gone by, and thus it might be a name a partner might use in public. Name-dropping her real name if she doesn't want it done might be kinda shooting her in the foot, you know? URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594911/#p594911 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help I don’t actually know cookie personally, but I am very good friends with a friend of hers. I know her name isn’t Eliza actually, so this just feels made up, because if you were actually her partner you would know her real name. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594905/#p594905 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help I will only say 2 things here:1.I'm sorry for what you are going through. No one should have to go through tese things.2: TO everyone else who is making accusations without knowing the facts first, can you all just back off and leave her be? If you have nothing nice to say, then simply don't say anything. That's not why she created this topic. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594845/#p594845 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help I have background with Cookie as well. Remember, she submitted a moderator application, and while I'm not going to get into the fine points of what happened as a result, I can tell you that I've interacted with her off and on for over four years now, and not just on this website. You may actually be right. I just think it's important not to start a witch-hunt.JayJay, I'm mixed on your response. On the one hand...you're stating much more strongly what I'm feeling. On the other hand...bro, don't make fun of the name. Not cool. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594816/#p594816 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Jayde, I know who this is, too. I wouldn't be throwing around assumptions like this if I didn't have a good amount of background. I was kind of hoping she'd moved on from her past. Clearly she hasn't. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594814/#p594814 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Erm, not sure of the relationship between those 2, but reading through her post history made me barf a little, and I'm not even exagerating. It looks like some kind of lifetime obsessive person, and well, erm, ewwwhwhwhwhwhwhwhwwhwhw, (Read that with espeak), is all I can possibly say. Also, if you 2 aren't in contact, maybe its because Iliza doesn't want to be n contact perhaps? I mean, there are so many ways of communication, and I'm about sure ECC is on twitter, skyper, and probably facebook. Also, your name, looks made up, I can't say for sure, but it looks like you took some random word, then added burger to make it seem like a legit German/Jewwish name and said hi ho to pay our taxes we go. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594812/#p594812 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-02
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : GrannyCheeseWheel via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help Why the drama? Why bring romantic interests onto the forum? Not just romantic interests as an abstract form, which would be not a big deal, but why drag people into this and so forth. You have all the time and space to talk about things in private, which is where I might add, things of this nature ought to stay. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594807/#p594807 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help A few points here:Julia, the issue isn't whether or not your partner would care about the name-dropping. The issue is whether or not Steve would care. If Cynthia is now dead, then she's unlikely to care much either way, of course. The point I'm trying to get across - and the reason I gave you a caution - is because we generally frown on throwing first names of potential community members around here unless A) the person being talked about has previously disclosed that info, B) the person in question's personal info is widely available and they don't mind it being bandied about, or C) the person is dead and therefore unable to give consent. And even then, bringing up first names is probably pointless and sort of in bad taste. People know my first name on this forum, mostly because I haven't taken pains to keep it quiet, but almost nobody uses it because I'd generally prefer that they didn't. They call me Jayde; that's my username here. Basically, name-dropping people when it isn't strictly necessary just seems loaded for no good reason.As I pointed out, a caution is not a punishment. I'll repeal it if there is strong evidence that either 1. Steve is dead, 2. Steve himself is fine with it or 3. Steve has already made his name well-known enough that trying to hide it is pointless. In the meantime though, just try to avoid name-dropping where you don't have to. If you want to talk about your partner and use her name, assuming she's fine with that - and you'd know if you're her partner - then that's permissible, though bear in mind that if she shows up and for whatever reason speaks against you on this, claims she doesn't want people using her name this way, there may be consequences.Haily and others: the writing style between Julia and Cookie (whose real name I actually know, and no, it's not what has been stated here, either) is different enough that I'm pretty sure these are two different people. I think that trying to flag this as the same person without evidence is edging into potential witch-hunt territory. Now, if it turns out to be so, then of course we'll deal with it, and we'll keep an eye out...but until such time that that builds up a head of steam, I'm going to kindly ask you folks to take a step back on the Julia = Cookie insinuations.To the point about "stalker behaviour"? Uh...so my main question here - and of course you don't have to answer this - is why you're using audiogames.net as a means of communication. Why aren't you talking via Facebook, Twitter, Discord, Skype, Zoom, email, telephone or some other method, particularly as you've been dating for awhile? Reviving months-old topics just to comment on your partner's posts seems weird to me too, I've gotta say. I'm not sure what exactly you're trying to accomplish. There are guidelines against excessive thread necromancy; I'd say you're not really in any danger of this just yet, but I'd also gently urge you to find other and more active ways to stay in touch with your partner. If I had a partner who was doing to my old threads and posts what you are doing to your partner's threads and posts, I would have some pretty pointed words for her, and we'd ben having a conversation about the security and stability of our relationship. I've been in several adult relationships, and most adults don't feel the need to shadow their partner and support them/back them up when they weren't around for the situation in the first place. That behaviour smacks of insecurity on your part, Julia, and no...before you ask, I won't apologize for this assessment of your character. I'm not going to pick on you, or invent reasons to punish you under the rules, and I'm not going to hound you unduly. But when you say things in public, you open yourself to public scrutiny. Consider this a polite form of public scrutiny. I think that your behaviour is peculiar, at the very least, but nothing is technically stopping you from doing this. Just don't be surprised if people who are a lot more judgmental than I am write you off as desperate, clingy or immature as a result.For what it's worth, if your relationship is, in fact, stable and mutually fulfilling, then that's awesome, and I hope it continues to be so for as long as makes sense for both of you. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594806/#p594806 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help @Julia StockburgerI will not be apologizing for making an observation.Also, people know her name, dragging other people into it is different.@haily_merryI know, I just didn't want to say that quite yet but hey, now you did so. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594801/#p594801 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-02
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Julia Stockburger via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help @haily_merry What on Earth do you mean? It's not good to make assumptions. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594779/#p594779 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-02
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Julia Stockburger via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help That's the problem. We're not in contact. I understand this is a public community and everyone can see these and what-not, and I apologize if I came off as overly defensive. If you all look at her profile closely enough (@TheEvilChocolateCookie), you'll see that her real name is Eliza (won't give the last name). So if I shared that name in a forum post, would people throw cautions at me? Huh?I don't think the caution was necessary at all, unless @TheEvilChocolateCookie comes on here or something and says otherwise. Be it as it may. Sorry if I upset anyone.And I am her partner. I am not a stalker. I'd appreciate an apology for even suggesting it, or that I give off some kind of vibe. Thanks very much!Again, sorry if I upset anyone, including the mods. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594775/#p594775 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Defender, let's just remember who we're dealing with here. She already mentioned someone called steve. That, and the obviously similar writing stile / bad acting, already tells me all I need to know.I personally don't understand why we've allowed this self destructive coping mechanism to persist here for literally years. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594777/#p594777 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-02
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Julia Stockburger via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help That's the problem. We're not in contact. I understand this is a public community and everyone can see these and what-not, and I apologize if I came off as overly defensive. If you all look at her profile closely enough (@TheEvilChocolateCookie), you'll see that her real name is Eliza (won't give the last name). So if I shared that name in a forum post, would people throw cautions at me? Huh?I don't think the caution was necessary at all, unless @TheEvilChocolateCookie comes on here or something and says otherwise. Be it as it may. Sorry if I upset anyone. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594775/#p594775 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help @Julia StockburgerPrivate conversations belong in private, you're in contact with her already so why use this forum as your personal messaging system? Don't come down on the mods for doing their job, especially when you only got a caution. Or at least do it via PMs...Maybe you don't mean it to come off like this, but the way you keep reviving months old topics to comment on things she said (when again none of the rest of us need to see it) just gives a stalker vibe.These aren't Facebook posts from your friend's timeline for you to comment on, this is a public community.And the overly defensive attitude is a bad look, I'd quit while you're ahead before you screw up your first impression more. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594770/#p594770 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help @Julia StockburgerPrivate conversations belong in private, you're in contact with her already so why use this forum as your personal messaging system? Don't come down on the mods for doing their job, especially when you only got a caution.Maybe you don't mean it to come off like this, but the way you keep reviving months old topics to comment on things she said (when again none of the rest of us need to see it) just gives a stalker vibe.These aren't Facebook posts from your friend's timeline for you to comment on, this is a public community.And the overly defensive attitude is a bad look, I'd quit while you're ahead before you screw up your first impression more. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594770/#p594770 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help @Julia StockburgerPrivate conversations belong in private, you're in contact with her already so why use this forum as your personal messaging system? Don't come down on the mods for doing their job, especially when you only got a caution.Maybe you don't mean it to come off like this, but the way you keep reviving months old topics to comment on things she said (when again none of the rest of us need to see it) just gives a stalker vibe.These aren't Facebook posts from your friend's timeline, this is a public community.And the overly defensive attitude is a bad look, I'd quit while you're ahead before you screw up your first impression more. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594770/#p594770 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help @Julia StockburgerPrivate conversations belong in private, you're in contact with her already so why use this forum as your personal messaging system? Don't come down on the mods for doing their job, especially when you only got a caution.Maybe you don't mean it to come off like this, but the way you keep reviving months old topics to comment on things she said (when again none of us need to see it) just gives a stalker vibe.The overly defensive attitude is a bad look, I'd quit while you're ahead before you screw up your first impression more. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594770/#p594770 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-02
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Julia Stockburger via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help Steve is a mutual friend of mine and TheEvilChocolateCookie. I know she won't mind. And as I said in my post, Synthia is someone she lost two years ago without knowing about it till this past July. So keep your "I don't know who the two people you name-dropped are," "don't give out personal information without consent," caution BS to yourself if you please.I also disclosed I was not giving out personal information in the post, so why bother saying anything?And if they weren't common knowledge before now, aren't I just doing everyone a favor by knowing the situation well? Most of the people here probably won't even pay attention to all of that anyway, since this forum topic was created almost two months ago, and I am late in replying to it. Last time I checked, concern for a partner's well-being, especially if long-distance and unable to communicate nearly as often as we'd both like, wasn't a reason to throw cautions at someone.Please edit and repeal! URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594763/#p594763 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-02
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Julia Stockburger via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help Steve is a mutual friend of mine and TheEvilChocolateCookie. I know she won't mind. And as I said in my post, Synthia is someone she lost two years ago without knowing about it till this past July. So keep your "I don't know who the two people you name-dropped are," "don't give out personal information without consent," caution BS to yourself if you please.I also disclosed I was not giving out personal information in the post, so why bother saying anything?Please edit and repeal! URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594763/#p594763 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-02
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Julia Stockburger via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help Steve is a mutual friend of mine and TheEvilChocolateCookie. I know she won't mind. And as I said in my post, Synthia is someone she lost two years ago without knowing about it till this past July. So keep your "I don't know who the two people you name-dropped are," causion BS to yourself if you please.I also disclosed I was not giving out personal information in the post, so why bother saying anything?Please edit and repeal! URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594763/#p594763 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Moderation:Julia Stockburger, I'm issuing a caution here. Please don't give out personally identifiable info about people without their consent.I didn't do a deep search through the entire forum, but I don't know who the two people you name-dropped are, which suggests that their names probably weren't common knowledge before now.If I turn out to be wrong about this, I will edit this post and repeal the caution.Be aware that a caution isn't a punishment. It's just a heads-up to be more careful. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594731/#p594731 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-12-02
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : Julia Stockburger via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help I can imagine Steve was going through a lot on 10/5. I miss my friend, I wish I could've been there to help him too.I remember how much emotional pain you were in when you found out about Synthia (the friend you lost two years ago and didn't find out about till July).Who did you lose in May, if you don't mind my asking? I don't remember that.And I'm sorry a good friend you've known for a long time decided to "attack" you for your relationship preferences. We should be able to love whomever we please without outside criticism. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/594719/#p594719 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-10-08
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : TheEvilChocolateCookie via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help You guys are incredible. I was hesitant to post anything in the first place because of things I've seen with previous topics like this one, but it's like I said, I'm at the end of my rope. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/578547/#p578547 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help There's no timeline for grief. Even when you think you've handled a majority of it, there are still days where it will hit you like a truck. It really is your timeline here. However long it takes you is fine. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/578466/#p578466 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help How on earth could I possibly say that I understand, when I can clearly point out, that even if I have gone through similar experiences, they're not exactly the same? If that serves as an encouraging preface because it is at the very least honest, I'd be more than happy to try and help however I can. follow me on twitter, friend me on facebook, or add live:.cid.e66a231b8e11073c on skype. I may not solve your problems, but I can at least lend an ear, help think things through, reexamine questions from various angles and as has always been my history, with an unbiased perspective. I can inject myself into or take myself out of a situation to evaluate the picture as a whole rather than just assuming I'm right because it feels right and well, really, how can I be wrong!Actually, the other thing we seem to have in common is that we do our best to help people and people don't generally help us. IN my case I can say it's probably my fault, as I don't usually give off the vibe that I seriously ever need help... I've gone on for far too long as a self-sufficient know enough about far too many subjects to continually roll on through life with little to stop me for long, without giving help for myself a second thought until things start crashing and burning around my ears, and then I'm the proverbial deer caught in headlights trying to still find some way out of the situation, while softly, sheepishly going, help help? Please please?I lost an uncle a week ago to covid and there was no one to talk to about it. I lost a grandfather to old age and deteriorating health last year, but I was in the middle of taking care of a prematurely born daughter with a fair amount of health issues. I never asked for parenting advice though I should have, but didn't know who to ask because on the sighted side everyone I would have considered asking already judged me for lesser offenses other than wanting to live a normal life, such as my parents who never thought I should have been a dad and my mother-in-law who resents me, while on the blind side I don't know any completely blind couples who have already had a successful go at raising children. I know of blind guys married to sighted girls and vice versa, but in my mind that just feels like cheating. Nah, I don't actually have a logical argument for that last thought. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/578371/#p578371 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help How on earth could I possibly say that I understand, when I can clearly point out, that even if I have gone through similar experiences, they're not exactly the same? If that serves as an encouraging preface because it is at the very least honest, I'd be more than happy to try and help however I can. follow me on twitter, friend me on facebook, or add live:.cid.e66a231b8e11073c on skype. I may not solve your problems, but I can at least lend an ear, help think things through, reexamine questions from various perspectives and as has always been my history, with an unbiased perspective. I can inject myself into or take myself out of a situation to evaluate the picture as a whole rather than just assuming I'm right because it feels right and well, really, how can I be wrong!Actually, the other thing we seem to have in common is that we do our best to help people and people don't generally help us. IN my case I can say it's probably my fault, as I don't usually give off the vibe that I seriously ever need help... I've gone on for far too long as a self-sufficient know enough about far too many subjects to continually roll on through life with little to stop me for long, without giving help for myself a second thought until things start crashing and burning around my ears, and then I'm the proverbial deer caught in headlights trying to still find some way out of the situation, while softly, sheepishly going, help help? Please please?I lost an uncle a week ago to covid and there was no one to talk to about it. I lost a grandfather to old age and deteriorating health last year, but I was in the middle of taking care of a prematurely born daughter with a fair amount of health issues. I never asked for parenting advice though I should have, but didn't know who to ask because on the sighted side everyone I would have considered asking already judged me for lesser offenses other than wanting to live a normal life, such as my parents who never thought I should have been a dad and my mother-in-law who resents me, while on the blind side I don't know any completely blind couples who have already had a successful go at raising children. I know of blind guys married to sighted girls and vice versa, but in my mind that just feels like cheating. Nah, I don't actually have a logical argument for that last thought. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/578371/#p578371 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-10-07
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : TheEvilChocolateCookie via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help It really hits me when there's an Apple event. We would always watch those together and end up shouting at the screen 9 times out of 10. WWDC just about cut me in half. I wanted to skip it altogether, but my other friends wouldn't hear of it. The one in September didn't mess with me until later. Then I realized I had to watch another one alone, and it was like a kick straight to the heart. I really dread next week. There's an event, and I know I'll be right there in front of the screen, trying to act like it isn't killing me inside. There are other things, certain songs, some jokes only we shared that pop into my head, the fact that I haven't deleted a contact from my phone since 2014, and a few other things. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/578368/#p578368 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help There's nothing wrong with that. I think it hits people in different ways. For me, it comes in waves, though less over time. Loss isn't something that's been prevalent in my life. I've lost a great grandma, and grandpas on both sides. I wasn't especially close with them though, so there was a bit of detachment. My grandpa on my mom's side, the one that died last November though, In a way, I was glad to see him go.I think he was suffering in a way that I can't imagine anyone should have to deal with. He had two hospital stints. One in 2017, and one in 2019. After the one in 2019, his memory loss, which was maybe low intermediate had gotten much worse and had started to accelerate rapidly. He would have violent outbursts where he would bang on walls and yell and scream, and then other times, would appear almost normal. he ate so much though there toward the end. I think he was forgetting that he had already eaten. He'd make eggs so many times in a day.His home situation wasn't ideal. He and my grandmother had been divorced since my aunt was in high school, so he was living with his other wife. He was almost living a double life, having two relationships. He would come over to my grandma's most days. I think he felt bad for her and wanted to take care of her. At the same time though, I feel like he lied to not only her, but to a lot of people.Despite the things he has done, I don't think he was a bad person. I just sort of see that his life clashed against some things in the way he was brought up. Like, he would never talk about any of this openly, and wanted to maintain as much of a separation between his two families as possible.Of course, after his hospital stay the first time, that sort of eroded. Sometimes my mom and aunt would have to go over there and sit with him and try to calm him down. His wife is in her 70s, and despite still being reasonably healthy, keeping up with him was a lot for her. I often told my mom that he really should be in a home, that we as the family were foisting the burden of care onto her and that it wasn't fair, but it never came to that.So his loss was a weird thing, because it didn't really affect me in the same way it did everyone else. I did care, but I wasn't completely blown away like they were. I had been to see him on the Friday before he died. He wasn't in good shape, and I remember the doctor being pretty up front about that. I remember my aunt and my other aunt, someone I had only met maybe one other time trying to badger the doctor and tell him that they weren't ready to give up on him. I don't know why, but I've never seen things that way. I feel like it's our duty to stand with our family during times like that and do what they would have wished had they still possessed the ability to communicate with us.I told this very thing to my mother when my grandma was in the hospital earlier that same year. I told her that it's our duty to be her champions in these times, to look at things from her perspective, no matter what the cost is to us. That extending someone's life who already did all the things they wanted to do, just to prolong their suffering isn't right to me.Anyway, the family gathered at the hospital on that Friday, and we were getting ready to leave. Now, I don't really do the whole I love you thing. It's just not me and it's hard for me to bring emotions that close to the surface, but I shook his hand that day and I told him I loved him. Then, on Monday morning, my mom got the call that he'd passed. So my aunt and uncle came over, and we all stood around and talked and whatnot.Then the funeral came around. I didn't cry at the funeral, but most of the family did. On one hand, I was glad because I can't stand doing that in front of people, it feels utterly personal in a way I can't describe, like rubbing at your soul with sand paper. On the other, I had begun to wonder if something was wrong with me. I mean, it's true that we weren't that close, but there was never any animus between us. It was probably a week or two, but then it did come. But not like you'd think either. I didn't sit around crying for hours or anything, really a few minutes. But the same pattern would repeat. Something would just trigger the thought that he wasn't around anymore and that he was never coming back.One of those moments was on Christmas that same year. I've always done Christmas morning at my dad's. But recently, I've started to do all day there, just because things get too crazy at my grandma's and I don't want to be around that atmosphere if I can help it. SO I get there, because I am living there now. I come through the door and set all my stuff down and while most people are still there, we do the gift opening and it's good.One of the things my family always does is scratch off lottery tickets. It's jsut a tradition. So I usually do them with someone else to read them, and tell me if I need to scratch more. I sit down at the table and I'm doing
Re: I need help
2020-10-07
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : TheEvilChocolateCookie via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help Yeah, I lost one of my best friends at the end of May, someone I had a really strong bond with. Maybe it shouldn't hurt anymore, but it does. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/578332/#p578332 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Yeah that's a good point. You really want to evaluate the people in your life. If you have a bunch who just take and take and take, it's probably time to cut them out. Especially true if you are the type to give emotional support, which can be exhausting. I have had times in my life where being that person for someone got to be pretty wearing on me. Not that I didn't want to do it, or that I would have abandoned them, but it was getting to be a constant in my life having to help them sift through their options and have them unload on me about their struggles.Even if these are people you care about, if it's starting to drag you down to a point where you're not sure if you can cope, you need to put some distance between yourself and that person. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/578330/#p578330 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help I think this is slightly difficult. On one hand you want to help people struggling through emotional periods in their lives. On the other, that only adds to what you're going through emotionally and makes you worse off long run. My advice, obviously general, is to cut the draining aspects out of your life, assist who you can to the point where it isn't draining you emotionally, and most importantly give yourself time to grieve. Putting other things ahead of that just makes it more difficult for you. My friend, another stranger on the internet wants you to know: "'she is not responsible for the emotions of other people. If she needs some time to herself, she should take it. If she is drained then she isn't going to be able to help anyone, more importantly herself. Taking a step back and focusing on herself is a good thing.'" URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/578325/#p578325 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help I don't think I am the best person at doing this, but just so you know, I am always here, you have me on Skype, just send me a message if you need anyone to talk to you.Actually, I will send one myself. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/578263/#p578263 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-10-07
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : TheEvilChocolateCookie via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help Here are the basics, I've lost 3 people this year, one of which I actually lost 2 years ago and didn't know until July. Monday, I had to help someone get through a lot of emotional pain. Yesterday, while I was still emotionally drained, a friend I have known for about 7 years decided to attack me because of my relationship preferences. I'm just so worn out emotionally. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/578171/#p578171 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help I'm not the best person to help as I tend to try and solve problems (often without the info I need to do it justice) rather than knowing how to just listen and sympathise, otherwise I would.Let me know though if someone hasn't talked to you by tomorrow, and I'll do my best.Good luck and, I'm sorry you're going through this. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/578132/#p578132 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
2020-10-07
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AudioGames . net Forum — Off-topic room : TheEvilChocolateCookie via Audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help It's, kind of a long story. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/578115/#p578115 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help If I can, I will. Is it something you want to talk about privately? If so, add me on Discord. I may have friend requested you, but if I didn't my username is Rich#5531 URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/577986/#p577986 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help
Re: I need help Sure thing. Do you need someone to talk to? URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/577983/#p577983 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help in bypassing the fortinet filtering firewall that is conne
Re: I need help in bypassing the fortinet filtering firewall that is conne SSL protects you from man in the middle attacks even in a school setting, unless the laptop you have was given to you by the school. If the laptop was given to you by the school, don't do anything to it: it's a lost cause, and also even though you could uninstall any root CAs you'll just end up in a situation where nothing changed except that Firefox makes you click some extra dialogs on every web site anyway before they track you.Effectively all they can see are your DNS lookups and the IPs you visit, unless they've had a chance to personally install stuff on your device. They can't get your credit card number or login information or anything like that as long as SSL is in use. In other words they might know you visited bank of America, but that's it.But frankly if you don't just put up with it, this ends at expulsion and if you're very very unlucky the cops get involved. You don't want to be explaining what Tor or a VPN is to the technically-illiterate school admin who got a note from IT that your computer is doing weird internet traffic stuff first thing Monday morning before they've had coffee and also they're right across the hall from your schools enforcement officer/cop for whatever reason and the next thing you know you have some sort of criminal record even though you told everyone it's just a VPN or whatever. It's not worth it. You'll be 18 eventually is my advice to you. Put up with it until then. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/572896/#p572896 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help in bypassing the fortinet filtering firewall that is conne
Re: I need help in bypassing the fortinet filtering firewall that is conne Ok, if you're there only for two weeks, my suggestion is to wait. You'll get into a lot of trouble if they catch you trying to bypass the filters they have in place.Don't worry: if you mean you want your banking info to stay safe, you're fine. Those sites are protected by SSL so traffic to and from them is encrypted anyway.What exactly do you want to stay safe from? If you mean Facebook and the likes, there are plugins for that nowadays like Noscript that block all active content, so Facebook's tracking of you based on your own browser is limited (though not gone.) VPNs don't protect you from such sites tracking you. No one is safe nowadays.If you want to hide your identity by visiting sites that the boarding school has blocked, well... there's your problem.Never heard of anyone using Tor "just because." URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/572887/#p572887 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need help in bypassing the fortinet filtering firewall that is conne
Re: I need help in bypassing the fortinet filtering firewall that is conne Um, i mean i wanna just encrypt or forward packets that i'm sending. I don't mind doing anything bad, but... they even blocked tor, and that's not OK.I could understand it when this is happening in the place where you're spending 7 or 8 hours and going back to your home, but this is actually happening in the boarding school where some of us are sitting 2 weeks, and even can't feel some privacy cause there's no way to use mobile data, just no coverage of the cellular network. So we are forced to use this internet with filtering and 0 privacy. I just wanna to have some vpn and tor, nothing else, i just wanna make sure i'm safe. Regards. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/572839/#p572839 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
