Re: Ulterior motive friendships

2003-11-30 Thread E Crowell
Title: Re: Ulterior motive friendships Dear David, Being a BahaI and an introvert can be very difficult at times. I am friendly but am close to very few people. Some are Bahais, others are not. I am attracted to people who think deeply and are sensitive to the emotional tone of others. Since I

Ulterior motive friendships

2003-11-29 Thread David Friedman
In general people only have as friends those whom they have personal interest in. In describing the gradual method of teaching 'Abdu'l-Baha speaks of making friends with receptive people. Since He doesn't say that one shouldn't make friends (and by friend I mean a person whom one sees for at

Re: Ulterior motive friendships

2003-11-29 Thread Popeyesays
In a message dated 11/29/03 7:17:38 PM Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: So what is the correct way to respond? To tell the person you aren't interested in them? Would the ideal response differ depending on whether they were a Baha'i or not? That's a very strange question,

Re: Ulterior motive friendships

2003-11-29 Thread David Friedman
Dear Scott, That's a very strange question, David. Why would you think that Abdu'l Baha wishes one to make false friendships? I wouldn't see it like that. It seems that the concept of friendship in the Faith is just more liberal than the norm. 'Friendship' in the Writings seems based totally

Re: Ulterior motive friendships

2003-11-29 Thread Popeyesays
In a message dated 11/29/03 7:45:23 PM Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Are we supposed to make friends with people regardless of interest in them, even if they aren't a potential convert? We're supposed to meet all with the utmost amity and accord. I think that is a good

Ulterior motive friendships

2003-11-29 Thread Richard H. Gravelly
I would think that a Bah'i would be interested in all individuals for the sake of God. -- You are subscribed to Baha'i Studies as: mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] To unsubscribe send a blank email to mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Baha'i Studies is available through the following: mailto:[EMAIL

Re: Ulterior motive friendships

2003-11-29 Thread BURL BARER
The key to success is absolute sincerity -- once you learn to fake that, you've got it made. -- George Burns BROKEN DOLL A shocking true story of kidnapping, rape, and murder Coming this spring from Pinnacle True Crime -- You are subscribed to Baha'i Studies as: mailto:[EMAIL