Re: Rude and insulting

2008-11-17 Thread Julia Thompson
On Sun, 16 Nov 2008, Nick Arnett wrote: > On Sun, Nov 16, 2008 at 6:52 PM, David Hobby <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > >> >> That's too bad, and sounds like an extreme >> response. May I suggest simply killfiling >> the source of your irritation as an intermediate >> option? > > > I'd agree, or ju

Re: Rude and insulting

2008-11-16 Thread Nick Arnett
On Sun, Nov 16, 2008 at 6:52 PM, David Hobby <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > That's too bad, and sounds like an extreme > response. May I suggest simply killfiling > the source of your irritation as an intermediate > option? I'd agree, or just consider asking yourself this question before hittin

Re: Rude and insulting

2008-11-16 Thread David Hobby
Jon Louis Mann wrote: >> I find mysel beginning to ignore messages not only from >> "trolls" but from those who constantly vent their anger >> at the trolls. > >> If your'e concerned about community, consider the effect >> of everyone else on the list of having our inboxes flooded >> with the

Rude and insulting

2008-11-16 Thread Jon Louis Mann
> I find mysel beginning to ignore messages not only from > "trolls" but from those who constantly vent their anger > at the trolls. >If your'e concerned about community, consider the effect > of everyone else on the list of having our inboxes flooded > with these arguments. good point; yo

Rude and insulting

2008-11-16 Thread Jon Louis Mann
> > any theories why this person has such a mean streak. > I don't think that's my business. He is what he is. > > I find greater peace when I manage to accept people as they > are, rather than as I think they should be. > Nick as i said, you're a better man than i am. i can accept honest cr

Re: rude and insulting

2008-11-16 Thread Olin Elliott
lse has the ability to make me mad over and over, it has more to do with me than it does with the other person. Olin - Original Message - From: Jon Louis Mann<mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: Killer Bs (David Brin et al) Discussion<mailto:brin-l@mccmedia.com> Sen

Rude and insulting

2008-11-16 Thread Jon Louis Mann
> being called a loser on an internet list... > not really have any emotional reaction... > Dan M. i do, but then i consider the source... ___ http://www.mccmedia.com/mailman/listinfo/brin-l

rude and insulting

2008-11-16 Thread Jon Louis Mann
> in a community, there is behaviour that is simply > unacceptable. Ad hominem, falsehoods and abuse > (particularly unprovoked) are among those. It is > hard to accept trolling. It is best to start by > explaining where the offender is outside the range > of acceptable behaviour or agreed code

Re: rude and insulting

2008-11-16 Thread Alberto Vieira Ferreira Monteiro
Ronn! Blankenship wrote: > > If someone _physically_ attacks one of my kids or my wife (all > hypothetical atm), they may find themselves suddenly with one or > several surplus body openings in whatever caliber I can lay my hands > on at the time . . . > So, your kid (or wife) is playing with a 4-y

Re: rude and insulting

2008-11-16 Thread Wayne Eddy
> any theories why this person has such a mean streak. > either he was bullied as a child, or he was the bully!~) > it's not like he isn't aware and just lacking in social > skills. he probably never leaves his house and spends > all his time picking arguments on line. > he won't reveal any info m

Re: rude and insulting

2008-11-15 Thread Doug Pensinger
Dan wrote: > But, being called a looser on an internet list, that I might analyze, but > not really have any emotional reaction to. Excellent attitude, Dan; attack the argument ignore the puerile aspects of the communication and don't take anything too personally. Doug __

Re: rude and insulting

2008-11-15 Thread Nick Arnett
On Sat, Nov 15, 2008 at 7:20 PM, Charlie Bell <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote: > > There's two sides to that. Yes, people have different opinions, > viewpoints and characters, and it is good to be accepting of a range > of views and opinions. One should certainly at least hear many views > in order to ex

Re: rude and insulting

2008-11-15 Thread Nick Arnett
On Sat, Nov 15, 2008 at 6:45 PM, Ronn! Blankenship < [EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > ... > and > try to guess at his/her motivation(s) and the > shortcomings of his/her personality and/or history . . . That's just because you're weak-minded. Nick GSV Can't Resist Irony

Re: rude and insulting

2008-11-15 Thread Charlie Bell
On 16/11/2008, at 1:10 PM, Nick Arnett wrote: > > I don't think that's my business. He is what he is. > > I find greater peace when I manage to accept people as they are, > rather than > as I think they should be. I would invite others to do the same, > but I''m > not saying they should. Th

Re: rude and insulting

2008-11-15 Thread Ronn! Blankenship
At 08:32 PM Saturday 11/15/2008, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: >If someone attacks one of my kids or my wife >I will put in some effort to have them realize that it will not be helpful >to their own goals to keep up with such activity. If someone _physically_ attacks one of my kids or my wife (all

Re: rude and insulting

2008-11-15 Thread Ronn! Blankenship
At 08:10 PM Saturday 11/15/2008, Nick Arnett wrote: >On Sat, Nov 15, 2008 at 5:43 PM, Jon Louis Mann ><[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote: > > > > > any theories why this person has such a mean streak. > > >I don't think that's my business. He is what he is. > >I find greater peace when I manage to accept p

Re: rude and insulting

2008-11-15 Thread Julia Thompson
On Sat, 15 Nov 2008, Nick Arnett wrote: > On Sat, Nov 15, 2008 at 5:43 PM, Jon Louis Mann <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote: > >> >> any theories why this person has such a mean streak. > > > I don't think that's my business. He is what he is. > > I find greater peace when I manage to accept people as t

Re: rude and insulting

2008-11-15 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Original Message: - From: Nick Arnett [EMAIL PROTECTED] Date: Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:10:37 -0800 To: brin-l@mccmedia.com Subject: Re: rude and insulting On Sat, Nov 15, 2008 at 5:43 PM, Jon Louis Mann <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote: >I don't think that's my busin

Re: rude and insulting

2008-11-15 Thread Nick Arnett
On Sat, Nov 15, 2008 at 5:43 PM, Jon Louis Mann <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote: > > any theories why this person has such a mean streak. I don't think that's my business. He is what he is. I find greater peace when I manage to accept people as they are, rather than as I think they should be. I woul

rude and insulting

2008-11-15 Thread Jon Louis Mann
> It is such cynical and sarcastic statements that > makes you appear to run "Asshole" as a native app. > Not trying to be insulting, just an observation on > why you catch so much flak. Your remarks were > uncalled for, and if you are trying to draw my > ire..try harder. any theories why t