Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-23 Thread Chris Frandsen
On Sep 22, 2009, at 7:48 PM, David Hobby wrote: The Christian nation bit rubs me the wrong way too. Probably because I've heard it used to justify things I strongly disagree with. ---David One last comment on my wife's suggestion and I think we may have

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-23 Thread Charlie Bell
On 24/09/2009, at 12:35 AM, Chris Frandsen wrote: On Sep 22, 2009, at 7:48 PM, David Hobby wrote: The Christian nation bit rubs me the wrong way too. Probably because I've heard it used to justify things I strongly disagree with. ---David One last comment

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-23 Thread Jo Anne
Chris wrote: One last comment on my wife's suggestion and I think we may have exhausted this thread. No!!! I'm still getting caught up and haven't found the original post. Add to that I get the digest, and I might have .02 to add. =+)) And what's a Jaffa cake? Amities, Jo Anne

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-23 Thread Charlie Bell
On 24/09/2009, at 7:08 AM, Jo Anne wrote: And what's a Jaffa cake? A kind of biccie (or possibly a cake?). A sort of sponge base with an orangey bit and a chocalate covering on one side. :) Charlie. ___

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread Doug Pensinger
Dave wrote: Amen, brother! I think that the harsh immune response from some quarters to the merest mention of religion is a symptom of our general inability to be generous, kind, civil, open and _listening_. Yes but, calling the U.S. a Christian nation is a little beyond the merest mention.

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread Charlie Bell
On 22/09/2009, at 7:57 AM, Chris Frandsen wrote: A referral to Religion without being specific often sparks a response on this list. Sure, but this isn't one of those times. Asking non-Christians and Christians alike to be more civil is one thing - civility in discourse is one thing.

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread Bruce Bostwick
On Sep 22, 2009, at 1:36 AM, Doug Pensinger wrote: Yes but, calling the U.S. a Christian nation is a little beyond the merest mention. More than a little, although in this case, the usage didn't seem to be malicious. The origin of that phrase is a multilayered equivocation on the part

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread Chris Frandsen
On Sep 22, 2009, at 3:20 AM, Charlie Bell wrote: On 22/09/2009, at 7:57 AM, Chris Frandsen wrote: A referral to Religion without being specific often sparks a response on this list. Sure, but this isn't one of those times. Asking non-Christians and Christians alike to be more civil is

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread Charlie Bell
On 22/09/2009, at 11:24 PM, Chris Frandsen wrote: Being civil has nothing to do with respecting beliefs. Being civil means not being unnecessarily offensive while pointing out where beliefs are damaging our societies. Some beliefs deserve ZERO respect (creationism, anti-vaccinationism

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread Nick Arnett
On Tue, Sep 22, 2009 at 1:20 AM, Charlie Bell char...@culturelist.orgwrote: That's the widely perceived view of them, yes. Doesn't totally hold water if you actually read the New Testament, but yes - if people tried to act a bit nicer to each other we'd be better off. I know what you mean,

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread Charlie Bell
On 23/09/2009, at 1:46 AM, Nick Arnett wrote: I know what you mean, I think, but I've stopped using the word nice to describe it. I know churches that are perfectly nice to gays, for example, but in doing so pretty much fail to accept them. Sort of a welcome to our church, we're glad

RE: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread Pat Mathews
be polite be taken over by the rabid culture warriors? Gaah. http://idiotgrrl.livejournal.com/ Date: Tue, 22 Sep 2009 08:46:21 -0700 Subject: Re: Wife's suggestion! From: nick.arn...@gmail.com To: brin-l@mccmedia.com On Tue, Sep 22, 2009 at 1:20 AM, Charlie Bell char...@culturelist.org wrote

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread Dave Land
Folks, I admire the work done by the Public Conversations Project: http://publicconversations.org/ Their purpose is to facilitate conversations about hotly contested issues, training leaders and participants to avoid position-taking and recitation of talking-points and focus instead on

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread Bruce Bostwick
On Sep 22, 2009, at 3:20 AM, Charlie Bell wrote: I agree with Bruce that in general lessons ascribed to Jesus are about love and acceptance of the other. That's the widely perceived view of them, yes. Doesn't totally hold water if you actually read the New Testament, but yes - if people

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread Bruce Bostwick
On Sep 22, 2009, at 10:46 AM, Nick Arnett wrote: On Tue, Sep 22, 2009 at 1:20 AM, Charlie Bell char...@culturelist.org wrote: That's the widely perceived view of them, yes. Doesn't totally hold water if you actually read the New Testament, but yes - if people tried to act a bit nicer

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread John Horn
On Mon, Sep 21, 2009 at 3:20 PM, Michael Harney dolp...@mikes3dgallery.comwrote: Oh, as for an example of Jesus not respectfully disagreeing, call to your recollection what Jesus did to the vendors in the temple. I believe it had something to do with shouting, throwing over tables, smashing

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread Charlie Bell
On 23/09/2009, at 2:37 AM, Pat Mathews wrote: We started with a plea for civility and niceness. Because it invoked religion and the name of Jesus, the thread was promptly taken over by those who felt it their bounden duty to object to the Christian content - not on the grunds that they

RE: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread Pat Mathews
If I was uncivil, I apologize. I said what it appeared to me to be, but I may be wrong. At any rate, this was addressed, not to those who considered the plea ineffective, but those who began religious arguments. Pat http://idiotgrrl.livejournal.com/ Subject: Re: Wife's suggestion

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread Charlie Bell
On 23/09/2009, at 8:26 AM, Pat Mathews wrote: If I was uncivil, I apologize. I said what it appeared to me to be, but I may be wrong. At any rate, this was addressed, not to those who considered the plea ineffective, but those who began religious arguments. Well, this is a list where we

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-22 Thread David Hobby
Charlie Bell wrote: On 23/09/2009, at 8:26 AM, Pat Mathews wrote: If I was uncivil, I apologize. I said what it appeared to me to be, but I may be wrong. At any rate, this was addressed, not to those who considered the plea ineffective, but those who began religious arguments. Well, this

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-21 Thread Bruce Bostwick
On Sep 21, 2009, at 2:09 PM, Chris Frandsen relayed: Bottom line—We profess to be a Christian nation. It is appropriate to ask, “What would Jesus say and do?” I imagine he disagreed with the actions of those cheating tax collectors and adulterous women he befriended. Yet, we have no

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-21 Thread Michael Harney
Chris Frandsen wrote: My wife suggested this. I always go along with her ideas:-) learner Begin forwarded message: Hey! Let’s circulate a request for common courtesy and civility between individuals and groups with opposing ideas. I don’t know about you, but I have become increasingly

RE: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-21 Thread Pat Mathews
Amen. I second, third, or thousandth the motion. Pat http://idiotgrrl.livejournal.com/ From: lear...@mac.com Subject: Wife's suggestion! Date: Mon, 21 Sep 2009 14:09:36 -0500 To: brin-l@mccmedia.com My wife suggested this. I always go along with her ideas:-) learner Begin forwarded

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-21 Thread Chris Frandsen
On Sep 21, 2009, at 3:20 PM, Michael Harney wrote: I respectfully disagree. Not in appealing to people to be respectful in disagreements, but in appealing to the religious What would Jesus do? to do so. Rationality promotes calm debate. Sadly, religion is not conducive to

Re: Wife's suggestion!

2009-09-21 Thread Dave Land
On Sep 21, 2009, at 2:57 PM, Chris Frandsen wrote: A referral to Religion without being specific often sparks a response on this list. My wife is not a follower so she did not write this with this illustrious group in mind. Guys, I suggest taking her to task on this is part of the problem.