Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-17 Thread Gina WN
Nina, you and Spencer were meant to have this time together and I think you are right in wanting to make it quality time.  I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.   Gina Nina <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Hello Everyone,That was my first reaction too.  I even said to the vet's assistant that I

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-16 Thread Lernermichelle
Nina, so glad he is feeling better.  Strong steroids are sort of like a miracle, aren't they? I do not understand why vets do not regularly use them when cats are terminal, instead of just saying to pts. if they are worried about long-term effects, surely it is still better to give good quali

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-16 Thread Marylyn
ancis - Original Message - From: Nina To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Saturday, September 16, 2006 11:55 AM Subject: Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called) Thank you Beth and everyone that has been so supportive about Spencer

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-16 Thread ETrent
Every day is a blessing.  I am so glad that Spencer is doing so well!   elizabeth   In a message dated 9/16/2006 9:55:37 A.M. Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Thank you Beth and everyone that has been so supportive about Spencer.  I can't tell you what a difference havi

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-16 Thread Nina
Thank you Beth and everyone that has been so supportive about Spencer.  I can't tell you what a difference having you guys to lean on has made during this very trying time.  It's unbelievable how well Spencer feels.  Last night he took off after my Instigator like a bolt of lighting.  Poor In

RE: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-16 Thread Gary Murphy
Nina, I think that you and Spencer have made a good choice.  Peace and strength and joy to you in enjoying your time together.   Beth   

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-15 Thread ETrent
Nina, I am so sorry the news isn't more encouraging.  My prayers are with you and Spencer.   elizabeth   In a message dated 9/14/2006 12:21:32 P.M. Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: I just called to cancel my appointment today and send the message about my disappointment

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread Marylyn
w man. St. Francis - Original Message - From: "Belinda" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: Sent: Thursday, September 14, 2006 1:47 PM Subject: Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called) Nina, I have actually made

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread wendy
Nina, I'm finally caught up with all the updates on Spencer. As I was reading your last post, your decision for Spencer for right now felt right to me. Sending encouragement your way and healing prayers for Spencer. I'm glad you have finally found some peace. Please keep us posted on him. :)

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread Belinda
I know of a FeLV cat in Kansas City that is 2 years post cancer diagnosis and still going strong, Nina you may remember Stacy and Samba from the lymphoma list, she doesn't post hardly at all anymore but I check Samba's daily calendar every once in a while and he is still in remission. -- B

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread Belinda
Oh believe me as much as I love my vet, I know she thinks I'm a giant pain in the ass, but who cares as long as I get the care I need for my furkid!! -- Belinda happiness is being owned by cats ... Be-Mi-Kitties http://bemikitties.com Post Adoptable FeLV/FIV/FIP Cats/Kittens http://adopt.b

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread Sherry DeHaan
Nina mt thoughts and prayers are with you and Spencer.I know you are doing the right thing with him,give him the best love that you can.I know that you already do.Take care and hugs to you. SherryNina <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Hello Everyone,That was my first reaction too.  I even said to the ve

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread Nina
Oh Hideyo, your words are so wise and evolved!  You're absolutely right, we are all "terminal" from the moment we are born.  Everyone and everything has their time here and then passes away.  We sometimes forget that life here on earth is a transient gift; how it all seems to go by in the blink

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread kelly
At 12:49 PM 9/14/2006, you wrote: I would not taper off the steroids either. Cats in general tolerate them so well...and the side effects are quite far down the road. I know many a cat to be on 10 mgs every day for years and years,,,Steroids improve the appetite,,slow down the lymphoma increase

RE: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Nina Sent: Thursday, September 14, 2006 1:49 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)   I know for a fact that they are "pessimistic" because of his felv/fiv status, I don't know for ce

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread Lernermichelle
I think that hugging him is probably the best thing, all around. It is pretty much the only thing that has ever made me feel better, when going through this.   lots of love, michelle    In a message dated 9/14/2006 3:48:21 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: I know for

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread Nina
I know for a fact that they are "pessimistic" because of his felv/fiv status, I don't know for certain, but I suspect they also feel his cancer is in an advanced stage.  I've asked for their opinions based on their intuition and experience and they've given it to me.  You're right, our nature

RE: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto
:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Nina Sent: Thursday, September 14, 2006 1:22 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)   I just called to cancel my appointment today and send the message about my disappointment that the vet was unwi

RE: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread Doljan, Joan
Title: Message   -Original Message-From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of [EMAIL PROTECTED]Sent: Thursday, September 14, 2006 3:28 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office c

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread Lernermichelle
well, I certainly understand your decision.  Oncologists are usually pretty optimistic, at least in terms of months, with treating lymphoma with chemo, unless there is something particular about the case and how advanced it is.  Are they pessimistic because he is positive, or because they th

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread Nina
Hi Belinda, Thanks for the advice. That was what I had intended to do if I couldn't get answers over the phone. I did just post that my vet talked to me. I've actually set up appointment times for consultations over the phone to insure that the vet would have time scheduled for me. I've off

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread Nina
I just called to cancel my appointment today and send the message about my disappointment that the vet was unwilling to discuss things over the phone.  They put me on hold and the vet came on with apologies for the misunderstanding.  She said she had some blunt advice for me and thought it bett

RE: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread Rosenfeldt, Diane
ssage- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Belinda Sent: Thursday, September 14, 2006 1:47 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called) Nina, I have actually made an appointment with my vet before to

Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

2006-09-14 Thread Belinda
Nina, I have actually made an appointment with my vet before to get all my questions answered. I wrote them all down and made a regular appointment to just talk with her, and not have to stress my cat by bringing them in. I fully intended to pay for my appointment which lasted about 25 t