Re: Balance of puddy cats

2008-03-31 Thread Debi Holmes
I agree that you should call.  Something is calling you to this boy and I agree 
that the trip to Iowa would be way too much stress on him!  You would never had 
thought twice had it not been meant for you to get him.
   
  Debi H.

Tracy Weese [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
body{font-family: 
Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;font-size:9pt;background-color: 
#ff;color: black;}Then I say...go for it.  I understand being tired and 
wondering if you can do it (again) but something is pulling you to this cat. 

  - Original Message - 
  From: Sally Davis 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  Sent: Sunday, March 30, 2008 5:52 PM
  Subject: Re: Balance of puddy cats ~ new cat?
  

  I am really on the fence about this. On one hand I would like to think fate 
is intervening. A felk near me. He was just neutered 1.5 yo needs a home. May 
have a home in IOWA I am in VA. The person in IA cannot take until May but 
deals with FELV cats. I have not talked to the owner or I should say caretaker 
she is not able to keep the cat until then. Right now the cat is still at the 
Vet clinic. i have only spoken with a siamese rescue person who got involved bc 
it is siamese. They cannot house due to teh felk. I had a part Siamese cat 4 
years ago and will always miss the funny boy named 
  Puttyrat See my email addy. I am just too tired to talk to this lady today. I 
had a root canal started Friday and my mouth still hurts. Hard to be upbeat 
when I am in pain. I think the cats will be taken care of, but I kinda would 
like the Siamese boy.
   
  Sally



   
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Re: Balance of puddy cats

2008-03-30 Thread Kelley Saveika
I know mine miss the stolen ones.  Shimmer is my eldest, he is 12 now, and
not too much into the antics of the young ones.

Missy is my kitty with congenital heart disease, and she self-limits her
play.

That leaves Tuffy no one really to play with when I am gone, and I think she
is lonely and confused.

On Sat, Mar 29, 2008 at 10:38 PM, laurieskatz [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  I am sure mine do. After Stripes died, Squeaky kept urinating on the
 paper towel roll. I would replace and he'd urinate again. The vet said it
 was grief. It stopped after a couple weeks ~ dind't have this behavior
 before or after. They were best pals for 15 years.

 After Teddy died, I almost lost Coco. I know she was grieving for him.
 They were inseparable. It was heartbreaking. She has never been like that
 with another cat but is with me now.

 L



 - Original Message -
 *From:* Sally Davis [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 *To:* felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
 *Sent:* Saturday, March 29, 2008 9:02 PM
 *Subject:* Balance of puddy cats

 Hi Folks,

 You never know if the other cats miss a deceased cat. I figure for the
 most part mine don't. I am now rethinking that. Being cats they are subtle
 about their emotions. Well Right now I have 5 cats on my bed, no room for me
 unless I move one. And Grey and White who shows her dislike for me more
 often than not has been lovey dovey towards me. Not sure that will last but
 there does seem to be a change in her behavior.

 I am was not sure...contemplating taking on another felk cat who is at a
 Vet Clinic not far from me. However I am not sure how the stress of many
 cats would affect this cat. I am not sure how a new cat will affect my cats.
 Mostly they will go OH another one I have not talked with the owner yet.
 She has a home for it in May but cannot house the cat until that time.
 Anyway, just thinking out loud. Emotionally I am not sure I can handle
 another 'sick' cat. I know it is a crap shoot with these guys even with the
 best care. Maybe I will keep him until May.

 Well I hope everyone is well and the kitties slaves as well :-)

 Sally

 --
 Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior(angel), Tiny(angel) Fluffy(soul mate
 angel), Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy,
 Pewter, Junior Junior (newest) I call him JJ , Silver, and Spike Please
 Visit my Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up.

 http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed3




-- 
Rescuties - Saving the world, one cat at a time.

http://www.rescuties.org

Vist the Rescuties store and save a kitty life!

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/redirect-home?tag=rescuties-20

Check out our Memsaic!
http://www.memsaic.com/app/launch.cfm?sid=08D2CAB2A6E9

http://www.zazzle.com/rescuties*

Please help Clarissa!

http://rescuties.chipin.com/clarissasheart

http://www.change.org/rescuties


Re: Balance of puddy cats ~ new cat?

2008-03-30 Thread laurieskatz
ps re adding another. You never know. My friend just added a third cat to his 2 
female cat, 2 male golden retriever household. Rocco has been a perfect 
addition, bringing out the best in each of the other cats. The dogs are 
terrified of him! Part of it, I think, is he kept Rocco isolated for quite a 
while and did slow introductions (followed Pam Johnson Bennett's suggestions). 
Another friend introduced a male kitten to her two old boy cats and dog. They 
do mostly fine with occasional annoyance directed toward the kitten, now one 
year old. 

White I still had 6 cats (now only 5), I tried to introduce an older, disabled 
male foster cat and then a neglected male foster kitten. My youngest boys would 
have none of it. They harrassed and chased and fought with the new one. The 
older boy was adopted by one friend and the kitten by another. The kitten was 
accepted warmly by the 2 resident (adult male litter mate cats) in his new 
home. The older boy got along with the dogs in his new home.

I think, like people, the personalities make a difference. 
L
  - Original Message - 
  From: Kelley Saveika 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  Sent: Sunday, March 30, 2008 1:53 PM
  Subject: Re: Balance of puddy cats


  I know mine miss the stolen ones.  Shimmer is my eldest, he is 12 now, and 
not too much into the antics of the young ones.

  Missy is my kitty with congenital heart disease, and she self-limits her play.

  That leaves Tuffy no one really to play with when I am gone, and I think she 
is lonely and confused.


  On Sat, Mar 29, 2008 at 10:38 PM, laurieskatz [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I am sure mine do. After Stripes died, Squeaky kept urinating on the paper 
towel roll. I would replace and he'd urinate again. The vet said it was grief. 
It stopped after a couple weeks ~ dind't have this behavior before or after. 
They were best pals for 15 years. 

After Teddy died, I almost lost Coco. I know she was grieving for him. They 
were inseparable. It was heartbreaking. She has never been like that with 
another cat but is with me now.

L


  - Original Message - 
  From: Sally Davis 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  Sent: Saturday, March 29, 2008 9:02 PM
  Subject: Balance of puddy cats


  Hi Folks, 

  You never know if the other cats miss a deceased cat. I figure for the 
most part mine don't. I am now rethinking that. Being cats they are subtle 
about their emotions. Well Right now I have 5 cats on my bed, no room for me 
unless I move one. And Grey and White who shows her dislike for me more often 
than not has been lovey dovey towards me. Not sure that will last but there 
does seem to be a change in her behavior.

  I am was not sure...contemplating taking on another felk cat who is at a 
Vet Clinic not far from me. However I am not sure how the stress of many cats 
would affect this cat. I am not sure how a new cat will affect my cats. Mostly 
they will go OH another one I have not talked with the owner yet. She has a 
home for it in May but cannot house the cat until that time. Anyway, just 
thinking out loud. Emotionally I am not sure I can handle another 'sick' cat. I 
know it is a crap shoot with these guys even with the best care. Maybe I will 
keep him until May. 

  Well I hope everyone is well and the kitties slaves as well :-)

  Sally

  -- 
  Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior(angel), Tiny(angel) Fluffy(soul mate 
angel), Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, 
Junior Junior (newest) I call him JJ , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my 
Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up.

  http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed3 



  -- 
  Rescuties - Saving the world, one cat at a time.

  http://www.rescuties.org

  Vist the Rescuties store and save a kitty life!

  http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/redirect-home?tag=rescuties-20

  Check out our Memsaic!
  http://www.memsaic.com/app/launch.cfm?sid=08D2CAB2A6E9 

  http://www.zazzle.com/rescuties*

  Please help Clarissa!

  http://rescuties.chipin.com/clarissasheart

  http://www.change.org/rescuties 

Re: Balance of puddy cats ~ new cat?

2008-03-30 Thread Sally Davis
I am really on the fence about this. On one hand I would like to think fate
is intervening. A felk near me. He was just neutered 1.5 yo needs a home.
May have a home in IOWA I am in VA. The person in IA cannot take until May
but deals with FELV cats. I have not talked to the owner or I should say
caretaker she is not able to keep the cat until then. Right now the cat is
still at the Vet clinic. i have only spoken with a siamese rescue person who
got involved bc it is siamese. They cannot house due to teh felk. I had a
part Siamese cat 4 years ago and will always miss the funny boy named
Puttyrat See my email addy. I am just too tired to talk to this lady today.
I had a root canal started Friday and my mouth still hurts. Hard to be
upbeat when I am in pain. I think the cats will be taken care of, but I
kinda would like the Siamese boy.

Sally

On Sun, Mar 30, 2008 at 4:57 PM, laurieskatz [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  ps re adding another. You never know. My friend just added a third cat to
 his 2 female cat, 2 male golden retriever household. Rocco has been a
 perfect addition, bringing out the best in each of the other cats. The dogs
 are terrified of him! Part of it, I think, is he kept Rocco isolated for
 quite a while and did slow introductions (followed Pam Johnson Bennett's
 suggestions). Another friend introduced a male kitten to her two old boy
 cats and dog. They do mostly fine with occasional annoyance directed toward
 the kitten, now one year old.

 White I still had 6 cats (now only 5), I tried to introduce an older,
 disabled male foster cat and then a neglected male foster kitten. My
 youngest boys would have none of it. They harrassed and chased and fought
 with the new one. The older boy was adopted by one friend and the kitten by
 another. The kitten was accepted warmly by the 2 resident (adult male litter
 mate cats) in his new home. The older boy got along with the dogs in his new
 home.

 I think, like people, the personalities make a difference.
 L

 - Original Message -
 *From:* Kelley Saveika [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 *To:* felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
 *Sent:* Sunday, March 30, 2008 1:53 PM
 *Subject:* Re: Balance of puddy cats

 I know mine miss the stolen ones.  Shimmer is my eldest, he is 12 now, and
 not too much into the antics of the young ones.

 Missy is my kitty with congenital heart disease, and she self-limits her
 play.

 That leaves Tuffy no one really to play with when I am gone, and I think
 she is lonely and confused.

 On Sat, Mar 29, 2008 at 10:38 PM, laurieskatz [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 wrote:

   I am sure mine do. After Stripes died, Squeaky kept urinating on the
  paper towel roll. I would replace and he'd urinate again. The vet said it
  was grief. It stopped after a couple weeks ~ dind't have this behavior
  before or after. They were best pals for 15 years.
 
  After Teddy died, I almost lost Coco. I know she was grieving for him.
  They were inseparable. It was heartbreaking. She has never been like that
  with another cat but is with me now.
 
  L
 
 
 
  - Original Message -
  *From:* Sally Davis [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  *To:* felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
  *Sent:* Saturday, March 29, 2008 9:02 PM
  *Subject:* Balance of puddy cats
 
  Hi Folks,
 
  You never know if the other cats miss a deceased cat. I figure for the
  most part mine don't. I am now rethinking that. Being cats they are subtle
  about their emotions. Well Right now I have 5 cats on my bed, no room for me
  unless I move one. And Grey and White who shows her dislike for me more
  often than not has been lovey dovey towards me. Not sure that will last but
  there does seem to be a change in her behavior.
 
  I am was not sure...contemplating taking on another felk cat who is at a
  Vet Clinic not far from me. However I am not sure how the stress of many
  cats would affect this cat. I am not sure how a new cat will affect my cats.
  Mostly they will go OH another one I have not talked with the owner yet.
  She has a home for it in May but cannot house the cat until that time.
  Anyway, just thinking out loud. Emotionally I am not sure I can handle
  another 'sick' cat. I know it is a crap shoot with these guys even with the
  best care. Maybe I will keep him until May.
 
  Well I hope everyone is well and the kitties slaves as well :-)
 
  Sally
 
  --
  Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior(angel), Tiny(angel) Fluffy(soul mate
  angel), Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy,
  Pewter, Junior Junior (newest) I call him JJ , Silver, and Spike Please
  Visit my Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up.
 
 
  http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed3
 
 


 --
 Rescuties - Saving the world, one cat at a time.

 http://www.rescuties.org

 Vist the Rescuties store and save a kitty life!

 http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/redirect-home?tag=rescuties-20

 Check out our Memsaic!
 http://www.memsaic.com/app/launch.cfm?sid

Re: Balance of puddy cats ~ new cat IA sancutary?

2008-03-30 Thread laurieskatz
Sally, Is the Iowa contact a sanctuary? Is it Carmen? If not, BEWARE. Please 
feel free to email me privately. I am from Iowa and know the folks here.
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
  - Original Message - 
  From: Sally Davis 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  Sent: Sunday, March 30, 2008 5:52 PM
  Subject: Re: Balance of puddy cats ~ new cat?


  I am really on the fence about this. On one hand I would like to think fate 
is intervening. A felk near me. He was just neutered 1.5 yo needs a home. May 
have a home in IOWA I am in VA. The person in IA cannot take until May but 
deals with FELV cats. I have not talked to the owner or I should say caretaker 
she is not able to keep the cat until then. Right now the cat is still at the 
Vet clinic. i have only spoken with a siamese rescue person who got involved bc 
it is siamese. They cannot house due to teh felk. I had a part Siamese cat 4 
years ago and will always miss the funny boy named 
  Puttyrat See my email addy. I am just too tired to talk to this lady today. I 
had a root canal started Friday and my mouth still hurts. Hard to be upbeat 
when I am in pain. I think the cats will be taken care of, but I kinda would 
like the Siamese boy.

  Sally


  On Sun, Mar 30, 2008 at 4:57 PM, laurieskatz [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

ps re adding another. You never know. My friend just added a third cat to 
his 2 female cat, 2 male golden retriever household. Rocco has been a perfect 
addition, bringing out the best in each of the other cats. The dogs are 
terrified of him! Part of it, I think, is he kept Rocco isolated for quite a 
while and did slow introductions (followed Pam Johnson Bennett's suggestions). 
Another friend introduced a male kitten to her two old boy cats and dog. They 
do mostly fine with occasional annoyance directed toward the kitten, now one 
year old. 

White I still had 6 cats (now only 5), I tried to introduce an older, 
disabled male foster cat and then a neglected male foster kitten. My youngest 
boys would have none of it. They harrassed and chased and fought with the new 
one. The older boy was adopted by one friend and the kitten by another. The 
kitten was accepted warmly by the 2 resident (adult male litter mate cats) in 
his new home. The older boy got along with the dogs in his new home.

I think, like people, the personalities make a difference. 
L
  - Original Message - 
  From: Kelley Saveika 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  Sent: Sunday, March 30, 2008 1:53 PM
  Subject: Re: Balance of puddy cats


  I know mine miss the stolen ones.  Shimmer is my eldest, he is 12 now, 
and not too much into the antics of the young ones.

  Missy is my kitty with congenital heart disease, and she self-limits her 
play.

  That leaves Tuffy no one really to play with when I am gone, and I think 
she is lonely and confused.


  On Sat, Mar 29, 2008 at 10:38 PM, laurieskatz [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

I am sure mine do. After Stripes died, Squeaky kept urinating on the 
paper towel roll. I would replace and he'd urinate again. The vet said it was 
grief. It stopped after a couple weeks ~ dind't have this behavior before or 
after. They were best pals for 15 years. 

After Teddy died, I almost lost Coco. I know she was grieving for him. 
They were inseparable. It was heartbreaking. She has never been like that with 
another cat but is with me now.

L


  - Original Message - 
  From: Sally Davis 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  Sent: Saturday, March 29, 2008 9:02 PM
  Subject: Balance of puddy cats


  Hi Folks, 

  You never know if the other cats miss a deceased cat. I figure for 
the most part mine don't. I am now rethinking that. Being cats they are subtle 
about their emotions. Well Right now I have 5 cats on my bed, no room for me 
unless I move one. And Grey and White who shows her dislike for me more often 
than not has been lovey dovey towards me. Not sure that will last but there 
does seem to be a change in her behavior.

  I am was not sure...contemplating taking on another felk cat who is 
at a Vet Clinic not far from me. However I am not sure how the stress of many 
cats would affect this cat. I am not sure how a new cat will affect my cats. 
Mostly they will go OH another one I have not talked with the owner yet. 
She has a home for it in May but cannot house the cat until that time. Anyway, 
just thinking out loud. Emotionally I am not sure I can handle another 'sick' 
cat. I know it is a crap shoot with these guys even with the best care. Maybe I 
will keep him until May. 

  Well I hope everyone is well and the kitties slaves as well :-)

  Sally

  -- 
  Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior(angel), Tiny(angel) Fluffy(soul mate 
angel), Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, 
Junior Junior (newest) I call him

Re: Balance of puddy cats

2008-03-30 Thread Tracy Weese

Then I say...go for it. I understand being tired and wondering if you can do it (again) but something is pulling you to this cat. 


- Original Message - 
From: Sally Davis 
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
Sent: Sunday, March 30, 2008 5:52 PM
Subject: Re: Balance of puddy cats ~ new cat?

I am really on the fence about this. On one hand I would like to think fate is intervening. A felk near me.He wasjust neutered 1.5 yo needs a home. May have a home in IOWA I am in VA. The person in IA cannot take until May but deals with FELV cats. I have not talked to the owner or I should say caretaker she is not able to keep the cat until then. Right now the cat is still at the Vet clinic. i have only spoken with a siamese rescue person who got involved bc it is siamese. They cannot house due to teh felk. I had a part Siamese cat 4 years ago and will always miss the funny boy named 
Puttyrat See my email addy. I am just too tired to talk to this lady today. I had a root canal started Friday and my mouth still hurts. Hard to be upbeat when I am in pain. I think the cats will be taken care of, but I kinda would like the Siamese boy.

Sally



Re: Balance of puddy cats ~ new cat IA sancutary?

2008-03-30 Thread Sally Davis
Laurie

I do not think so. The person is a guy who supposedly looks after Felk cats
possibly holistically his email is [EMAIL PROTECTED] Does this match
your information. Belinda who is in Siamese rescue lead me to believe he has
been checked out. I may be able to get more information tomorrow. What is
the sanctuaries name?

Sally

On Sun, Mar 30, 2008 at 9:17 PM, laurieskatz [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  Sally, Is the Iowa contact a sanctuary? Is it Carmen? If not, BEWARE.
 Please feel free to email me privately. I am from Iowa and know the folks
 here.
 [EMAIL PROTECTED]

 - Original Message -
 *From:* Sally Davis [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 *To:* felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
 *Sent:* Sunday, March 30, 2008 5:52 PM
 *Subject:* Re: Balance of puddy cats ~ new cat?

 I am really on the fence about this. On one hand I would like to think
 fate is intervening. A felk near me. He was just neutered 1.5 yo needs a
 home. May have a home in IOWA I am in VA. The person in IA cannot take until
 May but deals with FELV cats. I have not talked to the owner or I should say
 caretaker she is not able to keep the cat until then. Right now the cat is
 still at the Vet clinic. i have only spoken with a siamese rescue person who
 got involved bc it is siamese. They cannot house due to teh felk. I had a
 part Siamese cat 4 years ago and will always miss the funny boy named
 Puttyrat See my email addy. I am just too tired to talk to this lady
 today. I had a root canal started Friday and my mouth still hurts. Hard to
 be upbeat when I am in pain. I think the cats will be taken care of, but I
 kinda would like the Siamese boy.

 Sally

 On Sun, Mar 30, 2008 at 4:57 PM, laurieskatz [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 wrote:

   ps re adding another. You never know. My friend just added a third cat
  to his 2 female cat, 2 male golden retriever household. Rocco has been a
  perfect addition, bringing out the best in each of the other cats. The dogs
  are terrified of him! Part of it, I think, is he kept Rocco isolated for
  quite a while and did slow introductions (followed Pam Johnson Bennett's
  suggestions). Another friend introduced a male kitten to her two old boy
  cats and dog. They do mostly fine with occasional annoyance directed toward
  the kitten, now one year old.
 
  White I still had 6 cats (now only 5), I tried to introduce an older,
  disabled male foster cat and then a neglected male foster kitten. My
  youngest boys would have none of it. They harrassed and chased and fought
  with the new one. The older boy was adopted by one friend and the kitten by
  another. The kitten was accepted warmly by the 2 resident (adult male litter
  mate cats) in his new home. The older boy got along with the dogs in his new
  home.
 
  I think, like people, the personalities make a difference.
  L
 
  - Original Message -
  *From:* Kelley Saveika [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  *To:* felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
  *Sent:* Sunday, March 30, 2008 1:53 PM
  *Subject:* Re: Balance of puddy cats
 
  I know mine miss the stolen ones.  Shimmer is my eldest, he is 12 now,
  and not too much into the antics of the young ones.
 
  Missy is my kitty with congenital heart disease, and she self-limits her
  play.
 
  That leaves Tuffy no one really to play with when I am gone, and I think
  she is lonely and confused.
 
  On Sat, Mar 29, 2008 at 10:38 PM, laurieskatz [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  wrote:
 
I am sure mine do. After Stripes died, Squeaky kept urinating on the
   paper towel roll. I would replace and he'd urinate again. The vet said it
   was grief. It stopped after a couple weeks ~ dind't have this behavior
   before or after. They were best pals for 15 years.
  
   After Teddy died, I almost lost Coco. I know she was grieving for him.
   They were inseparable. It was heartbreaking. She has never been like that
   with another cat but is with me now.
  
   L
  
  
  
   - Original Message -
   *From:* Sally Davis [EMAIL PROTECTED]
   *To:* felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
   *Sent:* Saturday, March 29, 2008 9:02 PM
   *Subject:* Balance of puddy cats
  
   Hi Folks,
  
   You never know if the other cats miss a deceased cat. I figure for the
   most part mine don't. I am now rethinking that. Being cats they are subtle
   about their emotions. Well Right now I have 5 cats on my bed, no room for 
   me
   unless I move one. And Grey and White who shows her dislike for me more
   often than not has been lovey dovey towards me. Not sure that will last 
   but
   there does seem to be a change in her behavior.
  
   I am was not sure...contemplating taking on another felk cat who is at
   a Vet Clinic not far from me. However I am not sure how the stress of many
   cats would affect this cat. I am not sure how a new cat will affect my 
   cats.
   Mostly they will go OH another one I have not talked with the owner 
   yet.
   She has a home for it in May but cannot house the cat until that time.
   Anyway, just thinking out loud. Emotionally I am

Re: Balance of puddy cats ~ new cat IA sancutary?

2008-03-30 Thread laurieskatz
Sally, I prefer not to discuss in the forum format. Would be happy to discuss 
via private email or by phone. Thanks
Laurie
  - Original Message - 
  From: Sally Davis 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  Sent: Sunday, March 30, 2008 7:43 PM
  Subject: Re: Balance of puddy cats ~ new cat IA sancutary?


  Laurie

  I do not think so. The person is a guy who supposedly looks after Felk cats 
possibly holistically his email is [EMAIL PROTECTED] Does this match your 
information. Belinda who is in Siamese rescue lead me to believe he has been 
checked out. I may be able to get more information tomorrow. What is the 
sanctuaries name?

  Sally


  On Sun, Mar 30, 2008 at 9:17 PM, laurieskatz [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Sally, Is the Iowa contact a sanctuary? Is it Carmen? If not, BEWARE. 
Please feel free to email me privately. I am from Iowa and know the folks here.
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
  - Original Message - 
  From: Sally Davis 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  Sent: Sunday, March 30, 2008 5:52 PM
  Subject: Re: Balance of puddy cats ~ new cat?


  I am really on the fence about this. On one hand I would like to think 
fate is intervening. A felk near me. He was just neutered 1.5 yo needs a home. 
May have a home in IOWA I am in VA. The person in IA cannot take until May but 
deals with FELV cats. I have not talked to the owner or I should say caretaker 
she is not able to keep the cat until then. Right now the cat is still at the 
Vet clinic. i have only spoken with a siamese rescue person who got involved bc 
it is siamese. They cannot house due to teh felk. I had a part Siamese cat 4 
years ago and will always miss the funny boy named 
  Puttyrat See my email addy. I am just too tired to talk to this lady 
today. I had a root canal started Friday and my mouth still hurts. Hard to be 
upbeat when I am in pain. I think the cats will be taken care of, but I kinda 
would like the Siamese boy.

  Sally


  On Sun, Mar 30, 2008 at 4:57 PM, laurieskatz [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

ps re adding another. You never know. My friend just added a third cat 
to his 2 female cat, 2 male golden retriever household. Rocco has been a 
perfect addition, bringing out the best in each of the other cats. The dogs are 
terrified of him! Part of it, I think, is he kept Rocco isolated for quite a 
while and did slow introductions (followed Pam Johnson Bennett's suggestions). 
Another friend introduced a male kitten to her two old boy cats and dog. They 
do mostly fine with occasional annoyance directed toward the kitten, now one 
year old. 

White I still had 6 cats (now only 5), I tried to introduce an older, 
disabled male foster cat and then a neglected male foster kitten. My youngest 
boys would have none of it. They harrassed and chased and fought with the new 
one. The older boy was adopted by one friend and the kitten by another. The 
kitten was accepted warmly by the 2 resident (adult male litter mate cats) in 
his new home. The older boy got along with the dogs in his new home.

I think, like people, the personalities make a difference. 
L
  - Original Message - 
  From: Kelley Saveika 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  Sent: Sunday, March 30, 2008 1:53 PM
  Subject: Re: Balance of puddy cats


  I know mine miss the stolen ones.  Shimmer is my eldest, he is 12 
now, and not too much into the antics of the young ones.

  Missy is my kitty with congenital heart disease, and she self-limits 
her play.

  That leaves Tuffy no one really to play with when I am gone, and I 
think she is lonely and confused.


  On Sat, Mar 29, 2008 at 10:38 PM, laurieskatz [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

I am sure mine do. After Stripes died, Squeaky kept urinating on 
the paper towel roll. I would replace and he'd urinate again. The vet said it 
was grief. It stopped after a couple weeks ~ dind't have this behavior before 
or after. They were best pals for 15 years. 

After Teddy died, I almost lost Coco. I know she was grieving for 
him. They were inseparable. It was heartbreaking. She has never been like that 
with another cat but is with me now.

L


  - Original Message - 
  From: Sally Davis 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  Sent: Saturday, March 29, 2008 9:02 PM
  Subject: Balance of puddy cats


  Hi Folks, 

  You never know if the other cats miss a deceased cat. I figure 
for the most part mine don't. I am now rethinking that. Being cats they are 
subtle about their emotions. Well Right now I have 5 cats on my bed, no room 
for me unless I move one. And Grey and White who shows her dislike for me more 
often than not has been lovey dovey towards me. Not sure that will last but 
there does seem to be a change in her behavior

Re: Balance of puddy cats

2008-03-30 Thread laurieskatz
I agree. The stress of traveling to Iowa won't be the best for the kitty..
  - Original Message - 
  From: Tracy Weese 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  Sent: Sunday, March 30, 2008 7:42 PM
  Subject: Re: Balance of puddy cats


  Then I say...go for it.  I understand being tired and wondering if you can do 
it (again) but something is pulling you to this cat. 


  - Original Message - 
  From: Sally Davis 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  Sent: Sunday, March 30, 2008 5:52 PM
  Subject: Re: Balance of puddy cats ~ new cat?


  I am really on the fence about this. On one hand I would like to think 
fate is intervening. A felk near me. He was just neutered 1.5 yo needs a home. 
May have a home in IOWA I am in VA. The person in IA cannot take until May but 
deals with FELV cats. I have not talked to the owner or I should say caretaker 
she is not able to keep the cat until then. Right now the cat is still at the 
Vet clinic. i have only spoken with a siamese rescue person who got involved bc 
it is siamese. They cannot house due to teh felk. I had a part Siamese cat 4 
years ago and will always miss the funny boy named 
  Puttyrat See my email addy. I am just too tired to talk to this lady 
today. I had a root canal started Friday and my mouth still hurts. Hard to be 
upbeat when I am in pain. I think the cats will be taken care of, but I kinda 
would like the Siamese boy.

  Sally


Balance of puddy cats

2008-03-29 Thread Sally Davis
Hi Folks,

You never know if the other cats miss a deceased cat. I figure for the most
part mine don't. I am now rethinking that. Being cats they are subtle about
their emotions. Well Right now I have 5 cats on my bed, no room for me
unless I move one. And Grey and White who shows her dislike for me more
often than not has been lovey dovey towards me. Not sure that will last but
there does seem to be a change in her behavior.

I am was not sure...contemplating taking on another felk cat who is at a Vet
Clinic not far from me. However I am not sure how the stress of many cats
would affect this cat. I am not sure how a new cat will affect my cats.
Mostly they will go OH another one I have not talked with the owner yet.
She has a home for it in May but cannot house the cat until that time.
Anyway, just thinking out loud. Emotionally I am not sure I can handle
another 'sick' cat. I know it is a crap shoot with these guys even with the
best care. Maybe I will keep him until May.

Well I hope everyone is well and the kitties slaves as well :-)

Sally

-- 
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Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter,
Junior Junior (newest) I call him JJ , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my
Message board for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up.

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Re: Balance of puddy cats

2008-03-29 Thread laurieskatz
I am sure mine do. After Stripes died, Squeaky kept urinating on the paper 
towel roll. I would replace and he'd urinate again. The vet said it was grief. 
It stopped after a couple weeks ~ dind't have this behavior before or after. 
They were best pals for 15 years. 

After Teddy died, I almost lost Coco. I know she was grieving for him. They 
were inseparable. It was heartbreaking. She has never been like that with 
another cat but is with me now.

L


  - Original Message - 
  From: Sally Davis 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  Sent: Saturday, March 29, 2008 9:02 PM
  Subject: Balance of puddy cats


  Hi Folks, 

  You never know if the other cats miss a deceased cat. I figure for the most 
part mine don't. I am now rethinking that. Being cats they are subtle about 
their emotions. Well Right now I have 5 cats on my bed, no room for me unless I 
move one. And Grey and White who shows her dislike for me more often than not 
has been lovey dovey towards me. Not sure that will last but there does seem to 
be a change in her behavior.

  I am was not sure...contemplating taking on another felk cat who is at a Vet 
Clinic not far from me. However I am not sure how the stress of many cats would 
affect this cat. I am not sure how a new cat will affect my cats. Mostly they 
will go OH another one I have not talked with the owner yet. She has a home 
for it in May but cannot house the cat until that time. Anyway, just thinking 
out loud. Emotionally I am not sure I can handle another 'sick' cat. I know it 
is a crap shoot with these guys even with the best care. Maybe I will keep him 
until May. 

  Well I hope everyone is well and the kitties slaves as well :-)

  Sally

  -- 
  Sally, Eric (not a cat),Junior(angel), Tiny(angel) Fluffy(soul mate angel), 
Speedy, Grey and White, Ittle Bitty, Little Black, Lily, Daisy, Pewter, Junior 
Junior (newest) I call him JJ , Silver, and Spike Please Visit my Message board 
for some pictures. You are welcome to sign up.

  http://www.k6az.com/ki4spk/index.php?sid=c57c00cf5804ef13853ed6e77a68eed3