RE: Chris and Mylo

2007-02-04 Thread catatonya
Chris, I'm so sorry about Mylo. tonya Chris Ramzy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Mylo went to the specialist yesterday. The doctor was very nice and seemed very educated on FeLV. He said that Mylo's kidney's are very inflamed, and that he believe's that Mylo has lymphoma and possibly l

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-31 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]
You have my condolences Chris... it is hard to lose them. Phaewryn

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-31 Thread Chris Ramzy
Thank you for your thoughts Gina. Mylo was already at the stage where he didn't move very much. Very sad. From: Gina WN <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Chris and Mylo Date: Tue, 30 Jan 2007 22:03:49 -0800 (PST

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-31 Thread Chris Ramzy
Again, I agree with your thoughts relating to these types of situations From: TenHouseCats <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Chris and Mylo Date: Tue, 30 Jan 2007 12:40:34 -0500 i will do fluids in a heartbeat for

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-31 Thread Chris Ramzy
I agree. From: TenHouseCats <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Chris and Mylo Date: Tue, 30 Jan 2007 11:52:30 -0500 GLOW for you and mylo. sometimes doing all that is medically possible is NOT the correct choice f

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-31 Thread elizabeth trent
You made a kind and unselfish choice. My heart breaks for you. elizabeth On 1/31/07, Chris Ramzy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: That's the thing. I didn't want to wonder "what if" and I don't. That's why I saw different vets and an oncologist. All of them said the same thing. The oncologist bein

RE: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-31 Thread Chris Ramzy
Thank you Diane. From: "Diane Rosenfeldt" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: Subject: RE: Chris and Mylo Date: Tue, 30 Jan 2007 00:06:03 -0600 Chris, I'm sorry that Mylo is so sick. My heart goes out to both of you as you make these diffic

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-31 Thread Chris Ramzy
est as his fragile little body could not take anymore. From: "[EMAIL PROTECTED]" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: Subject: Re: Chris and Mylo Date: Tue, 30 Jan 2007 00:01:33 -0500 I understand. I chose to euthanise my Moogie when she was really

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-30 Thread Gina WN
ve 4 more months if > successful. I feel that would be putting him through more stress. He hangs > on to me whenever we go to the vet. To hospitalize him again and put him > back on meds (he hated that), would break my heart. > > > > > >From: "[EMAIL PROTECTED]" &g

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-30 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]
No, animals don't FEAR the pain of dying (and don't fear dying, for that matter), because they live in the moment, so they are only fearful when actually in the process of being scared (and they don't have a belief system that registers the end of life or moving to another cycle like we do, so th

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-30 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]
I agree with Belinda... I REGRET not trying all of that for Moogie (I wasn't here on the list long enough to learn enough before I opted to have Moogie euthanised). I don't want anyone else to have second guesses years down the road. I'm just thankful that I've stuck around here and learned about i

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-30 Thread Belinda
Agree with this, I talked with Buddie the day before her surgery and told her if she was ready to go I would be OK, I would miss her physical self but if shwas ready to go home then she should. She survived the surgery but went into cardiac arrest after in recovery. It was her choice ad she m

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-30 Thread TenHouseCats
this is a hard one, because actually, i haven't used veterinary intervention with any of my kids in many years. i HAVE with sanctuary animals who were seizing, or clearly in great pain, and i wouldn't hesitate to do so if one of mine were in that situation. but i agree that letting them go through

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-30 Thread TenHouseCats
i think, too, that i'm talking more about cats who accept treatment quite well for a long time, and then suddenly say, "enough." i am a huge believer in giving fluids, and will do so often at the first sign of punkiness in a cat, and have seen them work wonders--often one application of subq fluid

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-30 Thread Belinda
I used to think this too but since I've heard from many AC's that animals don't fear the pain sometimes associated with dying in some instances and many actually prefer to go through the whole cycle I am really more of the thinking of letting them complete the cycle without my intervention. No

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-30 Thread Belinda
PS. Fred told an AC he wasn't thrilled with the fluids, he didn't understand the reason for it. He said he'd rather not get them but I asked her to explain to him that they would help his kidney's function better and keep him feeling good for some time. His values have improved quite a bit a

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-30 Thread TenHouseCats
i will do fluids in a heartbeat for a cat--until they make it clear that they no longer want it. i remember being really upset with a kitty who just would not let me administer fluids, because i KNEW it would make her feel better--she was clearly terminal (at 22!), and it was the holistic vet who

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-30 Thread Belinda
I agree sometimes you come to a point where you have to consider letting them go but in my opinion and *my opinion only* assist feeding and fluids are in NO way going too far. ANY cat that doesn't feel well for whatever reason can and most likely will stop eating, and dehydration makes a c

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-30 Thread TenHouseCats
stress. He hangs on to me whenever we go to the vet. To hospitalize him again and put him back on meds (he hated that), would break my heart. >From: "[EMAIL PROTECTED]" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org >To: >Subject: Re: Chris and Mylo >Da

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-30 Thread Anna
n. This is the third time in the hospital for him. And today they will take his staples out I will know more later today after I get off work - Original Message - From: "Chris Ramzy" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: Sent: Monday, January 29, 2007 9:50 PM Subject: Re:

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-30 Thread wendy
Hi Chris, Last year I learned to do subQ fluids after my kitty Julie was diagnosed hyperT, and I've done it on two other of my kitties who got sick since then. It's pretty easy, although I was scared at first to learn, because I didn't want to hurt my furbaby. Julie gets 200cc a week because of

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-30 Thread Belinda
Being dehydrated is like having a horrible hangover, of course your going to look and feel crappy, not hydrating is only adding to his discomfort. I can't believe the dr didn't insist on it. This little inexpensive thing could really help him be more comfortable. -- Belinda happiness is bei

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-30 Thread Sally Davis
will not be beside me. >From: "MacKenzie, Kerry N." <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org >To: >Subject: RE: Chris and Mylo >Date: Mon, 29 Jan 2007 09:02:43 -0600 > >I'm so very sorry to hear the diagnosis for Mylo. (I'm glad you ha

RE: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread Diane Rosenfeldt
Chris, I'm sorry that Mylo is so sick. My heart goes out to both of you as you make these difficult choices. Diane R.

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]
I understand. I chose to euthanise my Moogie when she was really sick too... I didn't opt for the transfusions either. Now, I always wonder.. "what if". I just wish I would have joined this group a little sooner than I did. I think that's how a lot of us here feel. Phaewryn

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread Chris Ramzy
s on to me whenever we go to the vet. To hospitalize him again and put him back on meds (he hated that), would break my heart. From: "[EMAIL PROTECTED]" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: Subject: Re: Chris and Mylo Date: Mon, 29 Jan 2007 21:22:54

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread Chris Ramzy
Thank you. From: "elizabeth trent" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Chris and Mylo Date: Mon, 29 Jan 2007 17:50:24 -0600 My heart is with you. elizabeth On 1/29/07, Chris Ramzy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread Chris Ramzy
o move any other part of his body. What happened at the vet today? From: "Anna" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: Subject: Re: Chris and Mylo Date: Mon, 29 Jan 2007 15:31:57 -0700 I feel your pain..We have an appointment this afternoon fo

RE: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread Chris Ramzy
Thank you Wendy for your thoughts much appreciated From: wendy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: RE: Chris and Mylo Date: Mon, 29 Jan 2007 10:23:28 -0800 (PST) Chris, I am so sorry about what you and Mylo are

RE: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread Chris Ramzy
de me. From: "MacKenzie, Kerry N." <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: Subject: RE: Chris and Mylo Date: Mon, 29 Jan 2007 09:02:43 -0600 I'm so very sorry to hear the diagnosis for Mylo. (I'm glad you had an understanding, nice, educated doc

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Peace to both Mylo and you Chris, I will be sending peaceful thoughts of passage and happiness to Mylo! Phaewryn You are aware that you can assist/force feed, right, or even have a feeding tube inserted? And that a combination Dex/Depo injection has given cats JUST as sick as Milo is now severa

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread [EMAIL PROTECTED]
You can do HOME fluids, it's easy! Here are some links with pictures (your vet can give you all the needed supplies): http://www.felinecrf.com/managh.htm http://www.felinecrf.org/giving_sub-qs_giving_set.htm http://www.vetmed.wsu.edu/clientED/cat_fluids.asp http://www.fabcats.org/sq_fluid.html So

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread elizabeth trent
rd crash he has had in a month. Very lethargic and his tummy is having spasms. At least they will be out of misery.. - Original Message - From: "Chris Ramzy" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: Sent: Monday, January 29, 2007 3:24 PM Subject: Re: Chris and Mylo > Mylo has n

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread elizabeth trent
kemia.org >To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org >Subject: Re: Chris and Mylo >Date: Mon, 29 Jan 2007 08:04:00 -0800 > >Chris, >I too am so sorry to hear the news about Mylo. It's the hardest decision >we have to make when we think their suffering warrants it. If we believe >that t

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread Anna
they will be out of misery.. - Original Message - From: "Chris Ramzy" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: Sent: Monday, January 29, 2007 3:24 PM Subject: Re: Chris and Mylo Mylo has not been eating the last couple of days. He is very lethargic. He is very sick beyond

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread Chris Ramzy
the appt. at 5:30. I've struggled with this decision back and forth but I believe this is the best thing for Mylo. :( From: Nina <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Chris and Mylo Date: Mon, 29 Jan 2007 08:04:00 -

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread Belinda
PS. If Mylo isn't eating well he may very well not have cancer but something called hepatic lipidosis, cats who don't eat enough or don't eat for a few days, some as little as 2 days can develop this. It is deadly serious and the ONLY thing that can save a cat with this is food. The liver wo

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread Belinda
Hi Chris, *Can I ask what tests were run to diagnose this?* I know several FeLV+ who are battling cancer and doing very well. One has been in remission for 2 years. What kind of cancer, lymphoma is a broad term, is it small cell, large cell?? My Buddie had small cell, liver cancer an

RE: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread wendy
Chris, I am so sorry about what you and Mylo are going through. I know that sick feeling of realizing that all hope is lost and there's nothing you can do anymore but just let go of your furbaby that you love so deeply. My heart aches for you and Mylo. Mylo is SO lucky to have to love him. And

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread Nina
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] *On Behalf Of *elizabeth trent *Sent:* Sunday, January 28, 2007 10:11 PM *To:* felvtalk@felineleukemia.org *Subject:* Re: Chris and Mylo Oh Chris...this is so hard. I am so sorry the prognosis was not better. You can let him know that you love him and comfort him. I know

RE: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-29 Thread MacKenzie, Kerry N.
be bought online at competitive prices. love and hugs to you and Mylo, Kerry M -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of elizabeth trent Sent: Sunday, January 28, 2007 10:11 PM To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Subject: Re: Chris and Mylo Oh Chr

RE: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-28 Thread Kelly L
At 08:01 PM 1/28/2007, you wrote: I am so very sorry it was not what you had hoped for. It is very hard. Do you give fluids at home. Even if so many things are not going well, those extra fluids just help them feel so very much better. It is not stressful for them to get them at home,,a

Re: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-28 Thread elizabeth trent
Oh Chris...this is so hard. I am so sorry the prognosis was not better. You can let him know that you love him and comfort him. I know it is so hard to talk about - but there comes a time when the kindest gift you can give is freedom from pain and suffering. You will know if that time comes. Ev

RE: Chris and Mylo

2007-01-28 Thread Chris Ramzy
Mylo went to the specialist yesterday. The doctor was very nice and seemed very educated on FeLV. He said that Mylo's kidney's are very inflamed, and that he believe's that Mylo has lymphoma and possibly liver disease. This diagnosis didn't surprise me as I know lymphoma can accompany FeLV. Mylo