I never found real friends at support groups,
etc.
My only real friends have been neighbors and
friends of my families, people I can see often, not having to rely on someone to
take me. But for many many years I couldn't find any, though had many sort of
friends, what changed was me. I never
In a message dated 12/22/2004 3:44:48 PM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
She's come back from the crypt! Hey Nan!!! I've been off list a lot since June with a wound. Still battling it. Getting old though.
Great to see one of older members resurface!
Lori (your previous
Title: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration
Again, I perceive myself as an attractive person. I smile at
men that I think are attractive and it goes nowhere. You all keep saying
it's how you feel about yourself or perceive yourselves. Doesn't always
make a difference.
Stacy
- Original Messa
Houston,
I have to agree with you. When I am flirtatious I do seem to get responses. Maybe I have not been as open as I was in the past. Perhaps my countenance is too serious lately. I know that I am extremely secure in my abilities and know that I used to be reasonably good-looking man. I guess I
Title: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration
Billy I got a head full of gray hairs & it doesn’t stop me getting smiles & greetings. I’m a firm believer of how you’re feeling about yourself at the time is how others perceive U. if you’re confident it shows. I flirt a lot and sometimes I get positive response
The only thing I have found so far is staying extraordinarily busy. It is when I slow down and don't have a lot to do that the sensations overwhelming. I wish I could provide a panacea for myself and everyone else. I know what you mean when you feel as if no one sees you as a sexual being. I spend
I can say that I miss sex, but I truly miss the companionship and close intimate feelings associated with a good relationship. I never thought I would see the day that it really miss the cuddling, however, that today has really arrived.
BillyTHouston <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Frustration...
I hate to sound mean-spirited here, but I did my part on Nov. 2nd, and did everything in my power to get others to vote for the greater good as well. I don't get medicaid.
Happy Holidays (yea right)
R
Please write letters! Subj: Medicaid May Face Big Cuts in 2005 Date: 12/20/04 7:25:22 PM
I have been injured 10+ years and in that time have been
unable to develop true friendships. A high level c4/5 quad I am dependent
on an aid for personal care, driving etc. I have joined support groups,
local disabled associations and the like but have not had any luck beyond
informal acq
In a message dated 12/22/2004 10:49:00 AM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
CCI dogs are well worth the wait!!
Do you have one? I'm DYING to get mine - I was more than ready the day I went for my personal interview. I can see why the long wait tho... they're awesome! If you hav
Title: Re: [QUAD-L] Spam:*, Frustration!
So you’re going through some real depression right now. I don’t know what 2 say but my sympathy goes out 2 you. I’ve been in several relationships since my injury they’ve ended 4 various reasons but mostly because of things I’ve done or me just backin
Title: Re: [QUAD-L] Thumb sex male quads
Well are you going to feel us in.
- Original Message -
From:
Houston809
To: t crook ; quadlist
Sent: Wednesday, December 22, 2004 1:50
PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Thumb sex male
quads
Tim I just
hate that I have the
Title: Re: [QUAD-L] Thumb sex male quads
Ok I’ll give you a lil tip. Since I’m a complete quad I have no feelings down there even though it’ll stand with some stimulation. I’ll use my thumb as my tool I have feelings in my thumb and if I close my eyes I can imagine it’s my other tool. Try it I g
Title: Re: [QUAD-L] Thumb sex male quads
Tim I just hate that I have the title. If they had a quad porn book my thumb would be Ron Jeremy :)
On 12/22/04 12:41 PM, "t crook" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Lol, that's to funny Houston. You better watch it though you may be giving some on the list th
Please write letters!
Subj: Medicaid May Face Big Cuts in 2005
Date: 12/20/04 7:25:22 PM Central Standard Time
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent from the Internet (Details)
"Medicaid May Face Big Cuts in 2005"
Bob Kafka of ADAPT shares the following new
She's come back from the crypt! Hey Nan!!! I've been off list a lot since June with a wound. Still battling it. Getting old though.
Great to see one of older members resurface!
Lori (your previous NY State semi-neighbor now in Tucson, AZ)
www.michaelsons.org
Title: Thumb sex male quads
From a woman's point of view thinking pre SCI. That is a great trait
to have. I'll leave it to Houston to tell you about it though. Pay
attention because the information will come in handy.
Stacy
- Original Message -
From: Silas Shelburne
To:
I'm sorry. I know that. I should have said most. I know
also that you guys here on the list aren't. I apologize for saying it
because I knew when I said it that ALL men AREN'T superficial.
can you find in your heart to forgive me?,
Stacy
- Original Message -
From: Martin T
Hi everybody,
Dam I could write a book about being
frustrated, this has been the hardest part of being a quad. When I was at
Sheapard center I would wake up in the middle of the night crying knowing I
would never make love to another woman. Before I got hurt I had been
divorced about a y
Title: Thumb sex male quads
Personally I have not even been hit on since my disability. I am sure
that I would try to compensate for what I can't do. For those of you that
say it's how we portray ourselves. I am told often by the people I talk to
that I am so strong for overcoming such ad
Title: Thumb sex male quads
Ok Houston,
Call me old fashiond but what in the hell is
thumb sex? Mite give me a little instrucktions, dam im from the sticks
thought I knew every way to get er done. Lol Silas
- Original Message -
From:
Houston809
To: paul ; quadlist
S
The movie your all talking about is called.. THE SEA INSIDE, I have
not seen it yet but intend to, I heard it has subtitles though . The
Richard Dreyfus movie was pretty good also there has been a few others.
Dan
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Subject: FW: Accident
A married couple is
driving along a highway doing a steady 40 miles per hour. The wife is behind the wheel.
Her husband suddenly looks across at her and
speaks in a clear voice. " I know we've been m
Haven't heard of it yet. But recall the one that Richard Dreyfus starred in in the 80s but never saw it. That one was called WHOSE LIFE IS IT? I believe.
Lori
---Original Message---
From: David K. Kelmer
Date: 12/19/04 17:03:47
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]; quad-list@eskimo.
Lol, that's to funny Houston. You better watch it though you may be giving some on the list thumb-envy ahhahaha And the quadriplegia does teach better foreplay.
Tim
www.geocities.com/onemofortomHouston809 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
U go Paul. ) last yr we talked about sex a lot. And I th
Title: FW: [QUAD-L] Frustration
Stacy
Had you thought that the girl at the party could’ve been interested in you.:) I know that a good friend of mine that is female a quad is GAY. I’ll also have 2 say that the argument or things you’re stating about being female and in a chair is the same thing
Title: Thumb sex male quads
U go Paul. “) last yr we talked about sex a lot. And I think I was voted TOP Quad THUMB SEXPERT of THE YEAR >:) I’m sure you’ve done the thumb sex thing by now. I can swear that I’ve cum & DAMN near BLEW the TOP of MY THUMB OFF as you’ve sex is a mental thing. We
I agree Liz, it is all about how we portray ourselves, disabled or as an a.b. person. I met a gal three months ago and she said she was attracted to me because I am so self assured, and of course my sense of humor.
And for you guys on the list, be creative and let your lady know who's boss (in th
Looking back on the memory ofThe dance we shared 'neath the stars aloneFor a moment all the world was rightHow could i have known that you'd ever say goodbye(chorus)And now i'm glad i didn't knowThe way it all would end the way it all would goOur lives are better left to chance i could have
It disheartens me when I hear women say this. "Being a woman w/ a disability
is really hard to get a man"
It is just as difficult to date for women who do not have a disability. I have
many single friends up and running who find this to be so.
My point is if you FEEL this way you portray it.
CCI dogs are well worth the wait!!
- Original Message -
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Date: Monday, December 20, 2004 10:35 pm
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Hello all/Dogs
> In a message dated 12/20/2004 3:32:23 PM Eastern Standard Time,
> [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
> Hi Nan,
>
> Do you train the labs
[quote] Men are superficial. They just think we can't have sex,
therefore they can't get off. [/quote]
Stacy don't swing this term above
imposing that all men are superficial, we are not.
QuadMedic
- Original Message -
From:
Stacy Harim
To: Steve Oldaker ; andrea
mu
What my friend Andrea said is so true. I'm in the prime of my life at 30.
I'm not a beauty queen, but I think that I am an attractive person. I used
to get hit on all the time. Some of you guys talk about how you have had
girlfriends, partners, wives. A lot of women like men in chairs
bec
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