Re: [QUAD-L] parents getting older

2006-02-25 Thread Iqueen201
Hello all,   I visit my son approx 8 hrs daily in a nursing home (we’ve yet to work the maze for getting him home). He is C-1 SCI.   Top among the many emotional issues we are challenged with is his feelings of helplessness for any signs of frustration, fatigue, illness, etc. from me.  This

Re: [QUAD-L] Turning lights on/off in bed

2006-02-25 Thread Mare Albano
ROFLMAO - Original Message - From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ; quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Saturday, February 25, 2006 6:41 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Turning lights on/off in bed In a message dated 2/25/2006 5:31:22 PM Central Standard Time, [EM

Re: [QUAD-L] To all on list that have a Supra Pubic Catheter

2006-02-25 Thread Mare Albano
vinegar kills bacteria, virus and mold I use it for legbag/bed bag. -Maryann - Original Message - From: "KK Batte" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "Danny Hearn" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Cc: Sent: Saturday, February 25, 2006 7:26 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] To all on list that have a Supra Pubic Ca

[QUAD-L] Tingling, what to do?

2006-02-25 Thread Sue Lindequist
Aloha from Kauaii! I'm writing this for Cathy who has a partially severed C-1 and would like to hear from anyone else who has a partially severed spinal cord. Cathy is dealing with  extreme discomfort from tingling in her limbs and buttocks, What solutions have you found? She is taking neurontin a

[QUAD-L] Re: lights in the middle of the night

2006-02-25 Thread wheelchair
In a message dated 2/25/2006 6:41:10 PM Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: One of the guys that this message - Hi All,     How do you guys handle turning lights on and off while your in bed, especially in the middle of the night?   Bobbie   You can

[QUAD-L] lights in the middle of the night

2006-02-25 Thread wheelchair
 

Re: Fwd: [QUAD-L] parents getting older

2006-02-25 Thread Stacy Harim
 That’s how I feel.  It breaks my heart to see her going down hill and there is nothing I can do.  It makes me miserable to even think about it.   Stacy - Original Message - From: William Willis To: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent: Saturday, February 25, 2006 7:28 PM Sub

Re: [QUAD-L] Turning lights on/off in bed

2006-02-25 Thread KK Batte
I just ordered this from QVC.  Hoping the remote will work from the bed.3 Outlet Wireless Lighting System with RemoteQVC Price $25.23Shipping and Handling $4.47Save! Buy two or more and save on S & H. Let this three-outlet wireless system with remote help you take charge of lighting. Well suited fo

FW: Fwd: [QUAD-L] parents getting older

2006-02-25 Thread William Willis
ditto. Makes you feel useless as shit and worth even less. From: "Jeremy Dickinson" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: quadlist Subject: Fwd: [QUAD-L] parents getting older Date: Sat, 25 Feb 2006 17:31:49 -0500 -- Forwarded message -- From: Jeremy Dickinson <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Date: F

Re: [QUAD-L] To all on list that have a Supra Pubic Catheter

2006-02-25 Thread KK Batte
I found that cleaning with alcohol the connectors from the bag to the catheter. That has stopped most infections. Except now I have a drug resistant pseudomonas viral infection. Been on a week of Cipro then another week of Levaquin. Fever is gone since Levaquin.

[QUAD-L] TOO QUICK TO POKE_Re: BLADDER STONES

2006-02-25 Thread Lori Michaelson
  I agree, Eric.  As well as Drs loving to DO/ORDER procedures!  Many unnecessary.  $$$ for eyeballs.   Yup, IF I do this (after exhausting all options/opinions) I'll insist hubby be there watching the recovery.  And having the nitrobid paste on hand at home too (already do .. never had to us

Re: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking

2006-02-25 Thread Bill_J
Hip or knee replacement may make walking distances difficult but may not prevent a person from riding a motorcycle.  I know of a para who rides a tricked-out 3 wheeler.  Some of the big Harleys are very managable for people with walking difficulties.  It's not always leg strength, but often

Re: [QUAD-L] To all on list that have a Supra Pubic Catheter

2006-02-25 Thread Danny Hearn
Yes KK, live with constant infection problems. I'm trying to cover any thing that could be causes. thanks, DanKK Batte <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Female user here -I wear leg bags, belly bags & over night bags depending on what I am wearing that day. My bags are cleaned & dried each change

Re: [QUAD-L] Turning lights on/off in bed

2006-02-25 Thread wheelchair
In a message dated 2/25/2006 5:31:22 PM Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Hi All,     How do you guys handle turning lights on and off while your in bed, especially in the middle of the night?   Bobbie The Clapper, ofcourse.  Just use your knees, lol. W

Re: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking

2006-02-25 Thread wheelchair
Maybe the nation should take Chicago's recent approach, regarding the H/C Parking Issue.   In the very begin, only impair'd drivers were issued license plates.  Then as the responsibility was passed on to other agency, the daffinition, changed and changed, until you see what you are seeing n

[QUAD-L] Turning lights on/off in bed

2006-02-25 Thread Bobbie299
Hi All,     How do you guys handle turning lights on and off while your in bed, especially in the middle of the night?   Bobbie

[QUAD-L] lighters

2006-02-25 Thread wheelchair
In a message dated 2/25/2006 4:55:29 PM Central Standard Time, wheelchair writes: Harvey has asked me to ask the members a question.  Here is it.  You can reply directly to him at his address listed below. W           In a message dated 2/25/2006 4:39:47 PM Central Stand

Re: [QUAD-L] BLADDER STONES

2006-02-25 Thread Eric Olson
Have the doctor prescribe something like nifedipine or some kind of nitro-patch/paste/pill so you can deal with any post procedure AD.  Doctors sure love putting people under.  I refuse it whenever possible.  For most of  us, it's not necessary.  Why take on the extra risk?  If you can't feel t

Re: [QUAD-L] To all on list that have a Supra Pubic Catheter

2006-02-25 Thread Eric Olson
I clean leg/bed bags with vinegar and water every time I switch from one to the other. I never plug catheter. Eric Danny Hearn wrote: I have a question for others like me that have a supra pubic catheter... I change my catheter and bag once a month like my urologist told me- I only use

RE: [QUAD-L] Hours

2006-02-25 Thread Jason Thurston
I'm very fortunate to have a longtime friend rearrange her whole life, in order to prevent me from going into a long-term care facility. The county that I live-in doesn't offer choices for caregivers, even though she had previous experience as a CNA. And after several months of tests and what

Re: [QUAD-L] Getting Older Quad Guy?

2006-02-25 Thread Silas
Thanks Matt for the infoe, I do have great help. My kids are really great they can do most of my care better than some of the nurses, I also have a wonderful girl friend which just happens to be my nurse also. She's the greatest, she will stick with me through thick and thin. Silas - Orig

Fwd: [QUAD-L] parents getting older

2006-02-25 Thread Jeremy Dickinson
-- Forwarded message -- From: Jeremy Dickinson <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Date: Feb 25, 2006 5:30 PM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] parents getting older To: Silas <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sit on my ass and worrry. That is all you can do. I have friends that get sick or my family get sick and I can't

Re: [QUAD-L] parents getting older

2006-02-25 Thread Bobbie299
Now that I'm in the chair, I cant do those things for her and it eats me up inside to think she'll end up in a nursing home.   Has anyone else had any thoughts like that?   Stacy, Yes, I have thought of my Mom. She has been helping me out for over 32 years, she's 75 now. My husband and I ju

Re: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking

2006-02-25 Thread Silas
LOL.  Hey Mark, Im paralyzed from the shoulders down, do you think I could get my motorcycle license's.  Same dam difference as them issueing a handicaped parking permit for a motorcycle.  LOL.  Ive heard it all now.  Silas - Original Message - From: QuadPirate To: quad

[QUAD-L] Getting Older Quad Guy?

2006-02-25 Thread Matt
Hey Silas I know too how you feel. I have been a quad 17 years this year. My parents helped me from 1989 till -nov of 2000. My dad died in 2001 and mom died in 2002. I married my school days sweetheart and we're doing fine-but I surely was concerned for many years before 2002 about what would happ

RE: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking

2006-02-25 Thread QuadPirate
Yea but if a person has the strength to ride and stop and hold up a motorcycle and we all know know how much balance you need to ride one, why should you trust someone in this condition to even have a motorcycle license if you don't even think it's safe for him to walk then how in the hell is

RE: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking

2006-02-25 Thread Steve Oldaker
I do not have a problem with this if they are mobility impaired, i.e. heart condition, respiratory condition, or any other ailment that limits their ability to manage significant distances independently.   Steve From: QuadPirate [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Saturday, February 25

Re: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking

2006-02-25 Thread DiannaL767
In a message dated 2/25/2006 2:29:35 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: The local news WCBS_TV did a story @ NJ legislature wanting to put a bill through to let pregnant women park in handicap spaces. I am trying to find out what idiot proposed this idea so I may wri

Re: [QUAD-L] parents getting older

2006-02-25 Thread Silas
Hey Stacy, My mother is getting older too, ive got 4 sisters that will take care of her.  Still it worries the shit out of me, being stuck in this frigging chair and can't do nothing to help.  Same worry with my kids, if something happens what could I do to help.  A couple nights ago one of

Re: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking

2006-02-25 Thread Stacy Harim
I  rarely use the handicapped spots.  Usually the lift area isnt big enough but I know it's not going to kill me to push a lil further.  I need the exercise anyways.  If you have an electric chair then it shouldn't be that big of a deal IMO.  I just park a lil far away and take up two spots

Re: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking

2006-02-25 Thread QuadPirate
Well I've seen the abuse that people get away with using permits and the one that pisses me off the most is the one issued to people that are diagnosed with obesity!   Mark   ---Original Message---   From: Miss Liz Date: 02/25/06 14:52:16 To: QuadPirate; quad-list@eskimo.com Subject:

RE: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking

2006-02-25 Thread QuadPirate
Steve did you know they issue motorcycles disabled permits too?   Mark    ---Original Message---   From: Steve Oldaker Date: 02/25/06 15:10:04 To: 'QuadPirate'; quad-list@eskimo.com; 'Miss Liz' Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking   If one armed people are actually being issued

RE: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking

2006-02-25 Thread Steve Oldaker
If one armed people are actually being issued handicap parking permits it is absolutely ridiculous.  There is no justifiable reason by any stretch of the imagination unless they have another disability which effects their mobility.   Steve From: QuadPirate [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTE

Re: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking

2006-02-25 Thread Miss Liz
Dear Mark,  I was not clear in my post.  The legislature wants to pass a bill to allow all pregnant women to park in the handicapped spaces.  My point is a bill is being written for this.  If the mother requires the permit due to illness then have the dr. sign away at the form.    There are

Re: [QUAD-L] To all on list that have a Supra Pubic Catheter

2006-02-25 Thread S. Dial
Danny,   I change bags/catheters once a month, but switch between leg and bed bags daily and so my aides clean both once a day. As to plugging catheter to allow bladder to fill, I've heard of it but never done it. I can barely take being irrigated much less being plugged up, I wet myself more

Re: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking

2006-02-25 Thread QuadPirate
That's cool but I would think it's the doctors recommendation that should dictate who is deserving of a disabled permit? I mean maybe not all regular pregnancies deserve these permits but I'm sure some are when you think about it they give one armed people disabled permits but I've never see

Re: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking

2006-02-25 Thread Miss Liz
Dear Mark,   Handicap parking in my area CT,NY,and NJ is totally abused by fake permits, people just running in etc.  I usually park across two spots and hope no one hits me as they are backing out as I traverse the parking lot.   Some stores have "Expectant moms" spots.  Great!!  Pregnancy

Re: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking

2006-02-25 Thread QuadPirate
I'm curious to why this is bugging you?   Mark   ---Original Message---   From: Miss Liz Date: 02/25/06 13:29:34 To: Quad-List Subject: [QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking   The local news WCBS_TV did a story @ NJ legislature wanting to put a bill through to let pregnant women park in handi

[QUAD-L] NJ Handicap parking

2006-02-25 Thread Miss Liz
The local news WCBS_TV did a story @ NJ legislature wanting to put a bill through to let pregnant women park in handicap spaces. I am trying to find out what idiot proposed this idea so I may write a letter. Has anyone heard of this?

[QUAD-L] parents getting older

2006-02-25 Thread Stacy Harim
I  have had my Mom up here the last few weeks.  My brother commited suicide and it was really a stressful time.  I also have another brother who is bi polar in prison and my oldest brother is self absorbed and doesn't call or talk to anyone.   All that aside, my Mom is physically not doing we

RE: [QUAD-L] fishing equipment

2006-02-25 Thread Steve Oldaker
Tom...   I recommend visiting the following web site and speaking to Captain Steve Hair.  He specializes in accessible fishing charters and accessible fishing tackle.   http://anchorsaweighcharters.com/   Steve From: tom garbisch [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Saturday, February 1

[QUAD-L] To all on list that have a Supra Pubic Catheter

2006-02-25 Thread wheelchair
Interesting concept, Dan.  While you are visiting the web, try out urocycler and Dr. Tom.  The UroCycler, does the very same thing using ceramic magnets. Best Wishes W           In a message dated 2/24/2006 8:34:25 PM Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: I have a question for o