Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-18 Thread Abhijit Menon-Sen
At 2007-02-01 09:34:29 +, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: And yes, when I see eight year girls vomiting their dinner out because they don't want to get fat - it makes me want to weep. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Luisel_Ramos Summary: 22-year-old Uruguayan model dies of a heart attack caused by

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-04 Thread Calvin
Neha Viswanathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: An aggregate of human judgment is not the same as one human making a choice. I perfectly understand how one human being can be altruistic. For their own selfish reasons or otherwise. Through our actions, we hope to achieve what we think we are capable

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Kiran Jonnalagadda
On 01-Feb-07, at 1:24 PM, Ingrid wrote: personally, i think bollywood and fairness creams exacerbate ''the fair is lovely'' bias far more than beauty pageants do. not that we needed any help in that direction given age-old indian cultural biases. Aren't they merely capitalising on an

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread shiv sastry
On Thursday 01 Feb 2007 9:28 am, Thaths wrote: On 1/31/07, Carey Lening [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I've posted!  And I still believe I've a woman, at least anatomically. We're not all lurkers. I apologize. For some reason I only read the beginning of your name and thought you were Casey,

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Neha Viswanathan
further enhance her unIndianness by thoroughly making her over See that's my problem. By claiming that there is something that is unIndian - (that is, something that negates the concept), people assert that there is something Indian in the first place. So those of us who are not lanky, lovely or

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Udhay Shankar N
Neha Viswanathan wrote [at 02:46 PM 2/1/2007] : I used to love Thursdays. Like Arthur Dent? Udhay -- ((Udhay Shankar N)) ((udhay @ pobox.com)) ((www.digeratus.com))

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Neha Viswanathan
Like Arthur Dent? You miserable Geek. :) As for Kiran's comment on the market cashing in on an existing cultural bias - I couldn't agree more. I get annoyed when (Fair and Lovely) FL is blamed. Or when someone with a cloying sense of virtue tells me My maid would rather buy FL for 26 rupees

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread ashok _
i laughed three thrice when i read that :-) On 2/1/07, Neha Viswanathan wrote: So those of us who are not lanky, lovely or lassy enough to be unIndian in a good way will become unIndian in a bad way. here (and in many parts of africa) fatness is a kind of Africanness. i have met some men

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Ingrid
On 2/1/07, Neha Viswanathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: The market doesn't have to have a conscience. why not? -- The future is here; it's just not widely distributed yet. - William Gibson

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Neha Viswanathan
why not? Because the questions of good and bad are always subjective. As long as they don't violate anyone's rights - they are only exercising their right to make a profit. -- Neha Viswanathan +44(0) 77695 65886 London, UK http://withinandwithout.com | http://globalvoicesonline.org

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Biju Chacko
On 01/02/07, Neha Viswanathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: why not? Because the questions of good and bad are always subjective. As long as they don't violate anyone's rights - they are only exercising their right to make a profit. Well put. -- b

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Casey O'Donnell
On 1/31/07, Biju Chacko [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: However, you have to admit that Carey is one of those unisex names like Jean or Madhu. :) Or Casey. The journal where I'm an editorial assistant I frequently am emailed as Ms. O'Donnell. I don't mind. I do feel a bit bad about the day I meet

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Calvin
OK, self-confessed male lurker speaks... Udhay I hope you were sitting down when you read this... At least call centre employees are consciously made to sound like someone from another country, as opposed to being a representative of his/her own... TBH, I tend to agree that the article could

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Calvin
Ah, but they only make a profit because we, the consumers, let them, so in that sense, we are the conscience... An example that I can relate to is the classic MGB sports car - in 1974 they changed from having chrome bumpers to rubber bumpers with a higher ride height in the name of safety.

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Casey O'Donnell
On 2/1/07, Neha Viswanathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Of course, the word conscience continues to bother me. So does the word Spiderman. :) Not that anyone would really want to anyway, but best not read my dissertation. I've been working some folks working on a game that might be related to

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Ingrid
i'm curious. is there any other human institution that is licensed to be sociopathic? On 2/2/07, Neha Viswanathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Still, the seller doesn't have a conscience on his or her own. Only the astuteness to perceive the consumer's conscience. -- The future is here; it's

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Neha Viswanathan
i'm curious. is there any other human institution that is licensed to be sociopathic? I believe most governments aren't licensed to be so - which explains the mess in the world. :) -- Neha Viswanathan +44(0) 77695 65886 London, UK http://withinandwithout.com | http://globalvoicesonline.org

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Biju Chacko
On 02/02/07, Neha Viswanathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Of course, the word conscience continues to bother me. So does the word Spiderman. :) With a great vocabulary comes great responsibility to be nit-picky. :) Personally, I've always thought that 'conscience' ought to mean the study of

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Gautam John
Isn't this now the standard Corporate Social Responsibility argument? As to whether it's all eyewash or a profit maximizing exercise or noble intentions for the greater common good? There's an interesting Economist article [1] on how corporations are essentially psychopaths as also a documentary

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Biju Chacko
On 02/02/07, Ingrid [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: If corporate entities enjoy the rights and protections of citizens they can and should, IMO, carry commensurate responsibility. Oh, I agree with you. What I was trying to say is that with individuals appealing to their consciences has some chance of

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Calvin
Neha Viswanathan [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:Still, the seller doesn't have a conscience on his or her own. Only the astuteness to perceive the consumer's conscience. Of course, the word conscience continues to bother me. So does the word Spiderman. :) -- Neha Viswanathan +44(0) 77695 65886

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-02-01 Thread Neha Viswanathan
An aggregate of human judgment is not the same as one human making a choice. I perfectly understand how one human being can be altruistic. For their own selfish reasons or otherwise. Through our actions, we hope to achieve what we think we are capable of. You cannot take the self out of any

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-01-31 Thread shiv sastry
On Wednesday 31 Jan 2007 12:56 pm, Deepa Mohan wrote: only three routes exist for a woman of India to reach or exceed this internationally approved minimum altitude requirement: Western diet, partial Western ancestry, or atypical genetic endowment. blrp blrp blrp

[silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-01-31 Thread Deepa Mohan
While in India this past January, I witnessed on television the height of Western cultural imperialism. And that height, it turns out, is five feet six inches (or, more precisely, 167.5 centimeters). That's how tall a young woman must be, minimum, to enter the Miss India contest. Never mind the

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-01-31 Thread Udhay Shankar N
Badri Natarajan wrote: [ on 11:58 PM 1/31/2007 ] There is a certain amount of truth to the point that they are being moulded to fit the standards of beauty of the West and more specifically moulded in every way to win one particular competition. I don't see the problem - it's just like

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-01-31 Thread Thaths
On 1/31/07, Udhay Shankar N [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Frankly, this doesn't seem very different (to me) from providing accent training to a call centre employee. From all accounts, the women who enter these competitions view the training they receive as an important career step. Be that as it

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-01-31 Thread Carey Lening
Following the last, since when do you think this is somehow unusual or respective to India? The title could just as easily read, Miss USA, NOT representative of her country. Tara Conner (the current reigning queen of the Miss USA pageant) doesn't exactly strike me as representative of most

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-01-31 Thread Biju Chacko
On 01/02/07, Thaths [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Be that as it may, I am curious to hear the opinions of the women in silklist. Have you noticed that the women on Silklist (barring Deepa) mostly lurk? I thought that Silk was not a particularly woman-unfriendly space, but perhaps I am mistaken.

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-01-31 Thread Carey Lening
I've posted! And I still believe I've a woman, at least anatomically. We're not all lurkers. On 1/31/07, Biju Chacko [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: On 01/02/07, Thaths [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Be that as it may, I am curious to hear the opinions of the women in silklist. Have you noticed that

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-01-31 Thread Thaths
On 1/31/07, Carey Lening [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I've posted! And I still believe I've a woman, at least anatomically. We're not all lurkers. I apologize. For some reason I only read the beginning of your name and thought you were Casey, another silklister I met last year. Thaths -- Homer:

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-01-31 Thread Deepa Mohan
On 1/31/07, Carey Lening [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I've posted! And I still believe I've a woman, at least anatomically. We're not all lurkers. Also, Divya and Savita post regularly, Thaths! Large numbers of the *men* also lurk out there (I typed luck) Deepa. On 2/1/07, Thaths [EMAIL

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-01-31 Thread Biju Chacko
On 01/02/07, Carey Lening [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: I've posted! And I still believe I've a woman, at least anatomically. We're not all lurkers. oops. However, you have to admit that Carey is one of those unisex names like Jean or Madhu. :) Honest mistake! So are we just seeing posts in

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-01-31 Thread Carey Lening
In all honesty, not being a Desi, there are a number of names on this list that appear 'unisex' to me, but I will give you that my parents graced me with a name commonly confused as masculine, especially after Joni Mitchell sang of her 'old man' as my namesake ;) Carey On 1/31/07, Biju Chacko

Re: [silk] Miss India..NOT representative of her country

2007-01-31 Thread Ingrid
will unlurk just long enough to register the presence of one Indian woman who is genetically endowed enough to qualify for the miss india norm (well, height-wise, at least) and whose name seems to connote no particular gender in most parts of india. my favourite mis-spelling of it to date is