Re: [Zen] Re: Detach from form

2007-09-17 Thread Tailor
Buddhism is not pessimism or demotivating, thinking so is a misunderstanding. 
It may seem so because many ancient and modern monks and nuns seem to live a 
reclusive life without need to strive in this busy world. It might seem so 
because of the teachings of Middle Way, which seem to discourage anything 
active such as determination and perseverance that you mentioned. But this is 
not true.

In different scenario and environment the practice is different. Modern people, 
laymen have to work for a living. A true Buddhist works hard, because he knows 
that's his responsibility to be fulfilled. Buddhism is not a dead dogma, it is 
alive, can be applied to everyday life, including your work.

As you might agree, on the path to enlightenment, or even to maintain 
consistent daily practice, requires determination. To become Buddha one must 
excel oneself, to surpass one's weaknesses or bad habits. And from this 
perspective, those good qualities that you mentioned are essential to Buddhism. 
Desire for enlightenment is different from desire for sex and money that make 
one's life unbalanced. Don't fall for the philosophically correct 
interpretation of Buddhism, which may tell you that all those good qualities 
are also extremes to be abandoned in the goal of Middle Way.


Al [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:   From: donald 
hwong  Contentment is not satisfaction and not joy.
 Contentment is a state of want-nothing. if we could put our best foot
 forward to let go our
   reaction to the effects of all existing forms, not be affected by it,
   just accept as is, we end our suffering.
 
 If we want nothing, then why will we want to put our best foot forward? I
 think if Buddhism had become the predominant religion of the world, we would
 all be living in huts and caves right now.
 
 That might not be a bad thing, but to some degree buddhism is demotivating
 and defuses desire, ambition, determination, perseverence, and many other
 qualities that are essential for success in society. Is Buddhism for people
 who are vegetables, or is it just a tool to reduce stress?
 
 
 
   

   
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Re: [Zen] Re: Detach from form

2007-09-16 Thread donald hwong
Hi Al,

When we are in sync with the universal life force and wisdom, we are one with 
the One.  We become the One. 

We would be able to flow in the Big River without hinder naturally course.

Determination, desire, ambition are human framework, which is but a tiny 
framework of the universal framework.

Chan is to be with the whole and NOT be just partial.

In order to reach that stage, we begin by empty the mind and let go of the ego 
and most importantly cultivate our Chi. Without the Chi, there is no life 
force. Without life force, or just sit, meditation becomes just a mental 
balancing act, we called it Withered Chan.

Meditate and don't think.

JMJM

Al [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:   From: donald 
hwong  Contentment is not satisfaction and not joy.
 Contentment is a state of want-nothing. if we could put our best foot
 forward to let go our
   reaction to the effects of all existing forms, not be affected by it,
   just accept as is, we end our suffering.
 
 If we want nothing, then why will we want to put our best foot forward? I
 think if Buddhism had become the predominant religion of the world, we would
 all be living in huts and caves right now.
 
 That might not be a bad thing, but to some degree buddhism is demotivating
 and defuses desire, ambition, determination, perseverence, and many other
 qualities that are essential for success in society. Is Buddhism for people
 who are vegetables, or is it just a tool to reduce stress?
 
 
 
   

   
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[Zen] Re: Detach from form

2007-09-15 Thread Frazier
donald hwong if we could put our best foot forward to let go our 
reaction to the effects of all existing forms, not be affected by it, 
just accept as is, we end our suffering.
 

Putting our best foot forward (effort), and contentment are almost 
contrary motivations. 

It is difficult to be content and yet to care and to try?



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Re: [Zen] Re: Detach from form

2007-09-15 Thread donald hwong
Hi Frazier,

I am not sure you are making a statement or a question.  Allow me to respond as 
follows.

It takes awareness of our five skadha to be detached from all forms.  This 
awareness if a state of calmness without any effort. 

Contentment is not satisfaction and not joy.  Contentment is a state of 
want-nothing.  No different than the state of calmness and awareness.

There is no conflicting forces.  Because there is no force in being calm and 
aware.  It is the state of mid-way. Or Ding in Chinese.

Only then we could be in sync with the universal wisdom and inline with all the 
future causes.

JMJM

Frazier [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:   donald hwong 
if we could put our best foot forward to let go our 
 reaction to the effects of all existing forms, not be affected by it, 
 just accept as is, we end our suffering.
  
 
 Putting our best foot forward (effort), and contentment are almost 
 contrary motivations. 
 
 It is difficult to be content and yet to care and to try?
 
 
 
   

   
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Re: [Zen] Re: Detach from form

2007-09-15 Thread Al
From: donald hwong  Contentment is not satisfaction and not joy.
Contentment is a state of want-nothing. if we could put our best foot
forward to let go our
  reaction to the effects of all existing forms, not be affected by it,
  just accept as is, we end our suffering.

If we want nothing, then why will we want to put our best foot forward? I
think if Buddhism had become the predominant religion of the world, we would
all be living in huts and caves right now.

That might not be a bad thing, but to some degree buddhism is demotivating
and defuses desire, ambition, determination, perseverence, and many other
qualities that are essential for success in society. Is Buddhism for people
who are vegetables, or is it just a tool to reduce stress?



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