On Mon, Aug 17, 2009 at 5:17 PM, Deepa Mohan <mohande...@gmail.com> wrote:

> On Mon, Aug 17, 2009 at 8:17 PM, Srini RamaKrishnan <che...@gmail.com
> >wrote:
>
> >
> > Yes, I do prefer sending money directly to causes I hold dear to my heart
> -
> > stuffing my face with luxury while imagining I am helping the poor will
> > just
> > make me feel like a hypocrite.
> >
>
> Well...Cheeni...I would disagree with some of that (though not all, because
> I too would feel that way.) When someone pays Rs.3000 a pop, they are not
> imagining they are helping..they ARE helping.



The imagination statement was an oblique reference to the mind trickery at
play - I have to disagree with Suresh, it is mind trickery if you need to be
pampered to tickle some kindness out of your heart. That is a cold cold
heart.

It isn't that hard to donate for a worthy cause voluntarily. Yes, there are
some people who demand their pound of flesh even when helping someone in
need, I just don't respect them very much.

Cheeni




> Even if I send my money
> directly to such an organization, a similar percentage of it might go for
> such fundraising events. I have come to learn that donations that are
> "feted" are as important as "anonymous" donations, and the funds are
> usually
> worth the effort. When I see the incredibly low budgets on which social
> service initiatives operate...well..Rs.3000 goes quite a long way. So, they
> are just two different ways of raising money; some people are comfortable
> giving one way, others, in another.
>
> Whether the NGO we contribute to spends the money properly is, of course,
> another matter. In Bihar, a few years ago, I was told that no dowry was
> required for the bride, if she had started 8 or 10 NGO's!
>
> I am starting a registered trust to alleviate the overworked hardship of
> the
> vowels in the English language. W cn rgnz dnnrs fr fndrsng.
>
> Deepa.
>



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