Comments below.

On Wed, Sep 9, 2015 at 5:34 PM, James Bonilla <[email protected]> wrote:

> Comments below.
>
> On Wed, Sep 9, 2015 at 5:23 PM, John Sundman <[email protected]> wrote:
>
>>
>> >>
>> >> I'd encourage you to keep that in mind. Also, keep silklist
>> discussions on
>> >> silklist, please.
>> >>
>> >> Udhay​
>> >>
>> >
>> > I have seen all too often that one can never assume goodwill. I will do
>> so
>> > -- since you request me to do it.
>>
>>
>> When I was relatively new to this list, I responded somewhat stridently
>> to a post that seemed to me insensitive if not downright hostile, ad
>> hominem, belligerent.
>>
>> Udhay and/or others reminded me of the “assume goodwill” rule of this
>> list.
>>
>> As it turns out, I had mostly misunderstood the fellow who made the post
>> that I had found so objectionable.  I don’t say that we’ve since become
>> good friends or anything like that, but in that instance I was about 84.343
>> % in the wrong and he was about 67.987% in the right.
>>
>> Yes, the math can get a little tricky, but the main lesson that I took
>> away from it was that I was mostly in the wrong and that if I wanted to
>> stay on this list I should learn to abide by “assume goodwill”.
>>
>> Which, I’m still here, what what?
>>
>> jrs
>>
>>
>> If I may ask: was the other person non-white?
>
> I have been doing some research on how different races are perceived on
> the Internet. What I have found has been profoundly shocking to me. What I
> have generally found is that when there is a battle between a white person
> and a non-white person on the Internet, the non-white person is perceived
> to be "in the wrong" -- and this is irrespective of what the facts are.
>
> I wouldn't be surprised if the other person, thus far unnamed, was found
> "in the wrong" - IF that other person was non-white. White people, somehow,
> seem to have this advantage.
>
> And this is due to implicit biases, which happens to be a reasonably well
> studied area of psychology.
>
>  - 007
>
In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if the other person was simply kicked off
this list.

  - 007

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