Dont you guys think that her husband would be more likely than anyone else to know how she would feel about this and what she would want done ?
----- Original Message ----- From: "Tim Harder" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "The Sandbox Discussion List" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2003 7:40 AM Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Right to Die > > > > Lets not forget that this woman did *not* have a > living will... > > > > > On Thursday, October 16, 2003, at 06:47 AM, Angela wrote: > > > That's what my husband is afraid would happen in my case. He knows my > > wishes > > but I constantly have to make them known to my family b/c they are the > > type > > that would come in and try to overrule his decision, which is actually > > my > > decision. > > > > -----Original Message----- > > From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of Charles > > Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2003 7:11 AM > > To: 'The Sandbox Discussion List' > > Subject: RE: [Sndbox] Right to Die > > > > > > > > From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > > On Behalf Of Tim Harder > > > > > > To me part of being married is getting along with the spouses > > family... or > > at least having some respect. > > > > <<Charles>> This I agree with. I think that the husband and the > > parents > > should be able to come to an agreement. > > > > I can not see over ruling the woman's parents on this matter. > > I think it is in very poor taste and quite cruel... JMO. > > > > <<Charles>> I can see over ruling the parents. Because the husband > > is the > > next of kin. As I stated before, if my wife made the hard decision to > > take > > me off life support there is no way I would want my mother to be able > > to > > come and reverse that decision. When I got married I left her house > > for > > good, and my wife became my closest relative. While I agree with you > > that > > the husband should take their feelings into account, the decision must > > always remain with the spouse. > > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, digest) can be made by > > going > > to http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, digest) can be made by > > going to > http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net > > > > > ________________________________ > > Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, digest) can be made by going to http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net > ________________________________ Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, digest) can be made by going to http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net
