Regardless, I don't see these parents inviting their son-in-law over for a BBQ anytime soon..do you?
Laurie --- Tim Harder <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > Again.... I am not arguing... only pointing out that > the parents > should have a valid bitch. If I were the husband I > wouldn't > be able to say to the parents.... " No.... she has > to die" > If there were a living will that said she wanted to > die under > theses circumstances it might be different. > > > > > On Thursday, October 16, 2003, at 09:48 AM, Angela > wrote: > > > Then unfortunately, it's up to the husband to > decide, whether his > > decision > > is right or wrong. When no living will is made, it > is up to the next > > of kin. > > I don't have a living will, but have made my > wishes known and still > > make > > them known to anyone who will listen. > > > > -----Original Message----- > > From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf > Of Tim Harder > > Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2003 10:41 AM > > To: The Sandbox Discussion List > > Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Right to Die > > > > > > > > > > > > Lets not forget that this woman did *not* have a > > living will... > > > > > > > > > > On Thursday, October 16, 2003, at 06:47 AM, Angela > wrote: > > > >> That's what my husband is afraid would happen in > my case. He knows my > >> wishes > >> but I constantly have to make them known to my > family b/c they are the > >> type > >> that would come in and try to overrule his > decision, which is actually > >> my > >> decision. > >> > >> -----Original Message----- > >> From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > >> [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf > Of Charles > >> Sent: Thursday, October 16, 2003 7:11 AM > >> To: 'The Sandbox Discussion List' > >> Subject: RE: [Sndbox] Right to Die > >> > >> > >> > >> From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > >> [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > >> On Behalf Of Tim Harder > >> > >> > >> To me part of being married is getting along > with the spouses > >> family... or > >> at least having some respect. > >> > >> <<Charles>> This I agree with. I think that the > husband and the > >> parents > >> should be able to come to an agreement. > >> > >> I can not see over ruling the woman's parents on > this matter. > >> I think it is in very poor taste and quite > cruel... JMO. > >> > >> <<Charles>> I can see over ruling the parents. > Because the husband > >> is the > >> next of kin. As I stated before, if my wife made > the hard decision to > >> take > >> me off life support there is no way I would want > my mother to be able > >> to > >> come and reverse that decision. When I got > married I left her house > >> for > >> good, and my wife became my closest relative. > While I agree with you > >> that > >> the husband should take their feelings into > account, the decision must > >> always remain with the spouse. > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> ________________________________ > >> > >> Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, > digest) can be made by > >> going > >> to > http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net > >> > >> > >> > >> ________________________________ > >> > >> Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, > digest) can be made by > >> going to > > >> > http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net > >> > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, > digest) can be made by > > going > > to > http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > > > Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, > digest) can be made by > > going to > > http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net > > > > > ________________________________ > > Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, > digest) can be made by going to > http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net ===== I wanted a perfect ending... Now, I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment, and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next. Delicious ambiguity. --Gilda Radner __________________________________ Do you Yahoo!? The New Yahoo! Shopping - with improved product search http://shopping.yahoo.com ________________________________ Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, digest) can be made by going to http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net
